If you have no desires and no desires, you lack a husband, what should I do?

Take your time and set yourself a framework of minimum standards that would rather be lacking than abundant.

No matter how full the body is, it can't compare to the fullness of the feelings, learn to enjoy loneliness.

Take it easy...

There are still many men born in the 80s who are not in love...

Don't rush. It's okay to let your family help you go on a blind date...

Didn't you give the answer yourself? is short of a husband.

If you want to get married, go to a marriage agency to find it, first see if there is a suitable one, try to date, get married if you like, and if you don't like to look for it.

Spend a little more time looking for a man you like, remember to find it accurately, not with a playful attitude, and then slowly cultivate feelings, but don't invest a lot, because in case he doesn't agree, you can't extricate yourself, just use your current desireless mentality to find the other half, give yourself full opportunities and time, just enjoy the feeling of love.

You haven't met a drop that makes your heart tick! When you meet a heartbeat, but you may not be moved by your heart, but you feel that he can't, hey... That's all about money.

If you're in love, by the way, ask yourself, are you happy? What kind of happiness do you want?

My happiness is very simple, although my income is very low, I can eat beef noodles with my wife in the morning every day and go to the movies on the weekend, this is my happiness.

Sichun, just find a man. Lack of love from the opposite sex.

Your life is too happy, it is recommended that you have time to watch more romantic dramas, put yourself in the shoes of the plot, and this will inspire some of your yearning for love.

Hello, in fact, maintaining a marriage requires mutual understanding and tolerance between both parties, no one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings,

There is a good saying, marriage is the practice of two people, and you can share your story online, which shows that you still have expectations for this relationship and hope to solve the problem! In our counseling center, there are often many couples who have so-called "three views of discord" come to seek counseling.

In order for the marriage to continue, perhaps we need to see some improvements, but do we have to have the same personality and habits? How many people in the world can be exactly the same?

Your husband's personality and habits are different from yours, and his way of doing things is different.

Accustomed to seeing it unaccustomed to it, always annoying him in his heart, and often unhappy with him.

Whether you have been married for 6 months or 6 years, there are healthy practices, and the approach of couples is to be cautious about the tendency to protect their marriage and make sure it remains healthy. With the help of a counselor, it is hard work to talk openly and honestly about the conflict, resolve the conflict, turn the conflict into a friendship, and then keep your relationship fresh and mend your marital relationship. While you may hate your husband more than ever, you must work together to keep your life from becoming stale.

In addition to some affordable daily small romances, you can also buy gifts for each other, such as major holidays, Valentine's Day, anniversaries, each other's birthdays, give your spouse a little something, and then be able to really enhance your spouse's love feelings.

Accept the "always have" problem between you.

Marriage expert Dr. John Gottman says that two-thirds of the arguments between couples are "permanent," meaning you may still be arguing or struggling over the same thing. So, what can you do about these arguments?

No, being powerless is not the answer we want, first of all, make a list of your arguments; Are they about money, your mother, sex? When you guys start arguing about one of these again, say out loud, "Well, this is one of our hot topics."

Then, choose to accept the inconsistency of each other's views.

Commit to each other to start over.

What your husband has done upsets you. Or you did something that upset your husband. The two of you may spend the day rectifying and blaming, or you can offer each other a fresh start to improve your behavior while improving your own attitude.

For this, it is best to think about your husband's intentions, he may want to make you happy and may have other difficulties as well, try to see him as a good person.

Life is too short, and dwelling on past hurt and anger is a waste of time. Give marriage a chance today to start your day with your husband. Talk to him and don't blame him or bring up his past mistakes. When something goes wrong, commit to communicating with kindness and love.

The Buddha did not dare to say that he could do without desires and desires

You're awesome.

In response to the sentence, love is not a game. Whether you go out to find a psychological problem, or you are bored, it leads to emotional and psychological problems and estrangements, although you have changed it, but it really can't be eliminated in a day or two. I feel that he still loves you, but due to the psychological effect and immaturity of young people, it is difficult to think about it so comprehensively and deeply, and when you are unhappy, you will be hurt and wronged.

At present, if you want to redeem it, you can only take the initiative to give in to him, but I think the two of you should have a calm and in-depth conversation and explain the root cause of what happened in the past. Chatting online is also a boring thing to pass away, and there is nothing in-depth. As long as you explain it to him sincerely, I don't think he will care too much about these things.

Then you delete your QQ number and don't use it anymore. Because you have done irrational things when you are young, you have to endure some grievances, I hope you can adjust your mentality and deal with this matter calmly. Don't say break up at every turn, this sentence is the easiest to say, but the consequences are very serious, just like sprinkling water on the ground, easy to sprinkle and not easy to collect!

Also, there are some things that can only be done but not said, although you say that you are just talking, but you say that you just said, who can believe that you have not done it? So, don't talk too casually! Okay, let's talk about it first, I hope you can reconcile with the beginning, and don't add affection!

You don't have to think too much. You don't trust anyone, trust yourself. As long as your husband endures all your mistakes, you can spend more money every month. Coax you, buy expensive gifts for you, this man is your lifelong partner.

Build self-confidence, really arm yourself, put aside your worries and be down-to-earth, go to participate in more public welfare activities to liberate yourself from tedious housework, and everything will be fine! Happy to you!

First of all, you have to have confidence in yourself, believe in your charm, and then be romantic when appropriate, don't always be suspicious, don't believe that he is still married to him.

Mutual understanding and mutual trust Marriages without trust don't feel like they last.

The heart is relaxed, if you don't trust you, it's useless to follow, you have to be big-minded, you will be happy, and you will have a home.

It's not your fault, it's your husband's fault that doesn't give you enough security, his fault, don't punish yourself, go and tell him to feel secure.

Can I know why? The good ones won't be distrustful.

When you have money, there will be no lack of trust in anyone.

1. My husband has been running away for 2 years, and he refuses to divorce, so you can only sue for divorce.

2. Article 31 of the Marriage Law stipulates: "If a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office.

A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed. Paragraph 1 of Article 32 stipulates: "If a man or a woman requests a divorce, the relevant department may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court."

3. The above-mentioned legal provisions are the provisions on the manner of divorce. There are only two types of divorce: divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation. Since the husband has been away for 2 years, and he does not agree to the divorce, this shows that it is impossible for the two parties to divorce by agreement, so there is only one way left to divorce by litigation, so if you want to divorce, you can only sue the people's court for divorce.

The property is joint property, the house is mortgaged without your knowledge (even if you know it is invalid without your signature), the court does not have the right to auction off the half of the property that belongs to you, and can appeal to the court to recover the half of the property that belongs to you.

Gambling itself is a crime and the loan shark does not need to be repaid, and the right to pursue the criminal liability of the loan shark is reserved, and if you have evidence to prove that your husband lost the money to anyone, you can also appeal to the court to recover and reserve the right to pursue their criminal liability (gathering crowds to gamble).

In this case, you can unilaterally file a divorce lawsuit with the court, and if you have other difficulties, you can seek help from your local women's federation, civil affairs department and legal counsel.

By the way, you can publish a search notice on the Internet, as evidence that your husband is not at home, or ask the public security bureau to help you find it, and then don't come out to separate for two years, the relationship breaks down, go to the court to sue for divorce, the court tries him and doesn't come, and when he sues for the second time, he doesn't come, the court will treat him as abstaining, and establish your divorce request, don't pay back the loan shark, you still have to support your mother and child, and there are problems with making ends meet. It's so pitiful, go to the Women's Federation to help you ask the lawyer how to do it.

You don't have to pay back the loan shark, and if you don't come back for 2 years, you can file a unilateral divorce request with the court, and the court will understand the situation. But the house has been mortgaged, and it is unlikely that it will be returned!

My husband's irresponsibility is not formed in a day or two, so it can't be changed in a day or two.

Take your time, since you have chosen him, you have to accept him, and live a good life for you and a good family.

Life is not about famous cars and mansions, just get by.

It's more important than anything else to be happy all day.

If you think this is not good, run it with him, a warm family is the result of the joint efforts of husband and wife, and his sense of responsibility is enhanced little by little in the details of life, but it is very tiring, depending on whether you have the patience.

Considerations for enhancing accountability:

Gradually he realized what he had to do. If you remind him from time to time to show weakness in front of him, ask him for his opinion on everything, and let him make up his mind.

Women always complain that men have changed after marriage, but in fact, men are the same as before marriage, more women have changed, and they demand more and more. "A person who chooses vanilla ice cream should not taste the taste of chocolate. Think carefully about whether your husband has always been that kind of person before and after marriage, the question is whether your own tastes have changed.

A husband who lacks a sense of responsibility will definitely have a wife who has a sense of responsibility, and God seems to play balance in the world in this way, in fact, a husband who lacks a sense of responsibility is used to being given by a responsible wife, not from God's humor.

For example, a lazy husband who lacks responsibility and loves to play games.

To keep your husband from being lazy, the key is to adjust your inner tolerance for dirty, messy, and poor, and also improve your ability to endure hunger. Men have a natural tolerance for dirty, messy, and poor, and their tolerance for hunger and sexual desire is relatively small.

If you do more housework for a long time, and your husband often doesn't do it, such a pattern has been formed, and it is difficult to change it in a short period of time. The big package makes me more considerate of others, and at the same time, to a certain extent, it also makes me lose the opportunity to be taken care of. It is recommended that you can slowly assign some simple housework to your husband first, sometimes it is also a good way to show weakness appropriately, and your husband can give appropriate rewards every time she does housework, and I believe that there will be good gains.

At the same time, take good care of yourself, when your husband loves you, you can be happy for 12 points, and when you can't take care of love for the time being, you also try to be happy for 8 points! This way your attraction to your husband will increase! At the same time, don't lose yourself in marriage, know how to take responsibility for your emotions, and take good care of yourself first, so that you can love others better.

Housework may as well be done to turn a blind eye, turn a deaf ear, have time to do beauty, fitness, shopping, and live your life happily. The question is whether you are willing to let the man you love suffer, and do you have the charm to make men suffer willingly for you?

There is no responsibility, there are many factors, and there may be more factors such as immaturity, or because of the flaws in the character, therefore, there is no concept of life responsibility, and there is no commitment, and it is easy to be lazy and indulgent. No matter how insomnia you have, you can't actually solve any problems, and a person who has no sense of responsibility is definitely not like this in the later stages of marriage, but before you choose, it is already like this, but you yourself may not have a full understanding of it.

When a person faces a difficult situation, he should calm down, so as to ensure clear thinking, clear his mind, and solve the problem correctly.

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