Half male and half female personality sometimes can t control what the reason is

That shows that your heart is eager to be loved, but you turn your mind and find that you don't love him, this is the so-called calm, because you want to be loved, so you accept the person you don't love, thinking that this is what you want, but in fact there is not, if you want to fall in love, you have to slowly cultivate feelings, blindly thinking about you, you don't necessarily really love you, if you blindly want to be loved, then I can't do anything. This is not called calmness, but calmness.

If your YJ is so small that it's hard and only cm long.

Your character has been cultivated since childhood, it is not easy to change, as the saying goes: The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change!

But is there a way to change it?

A: Yes.

Haven't you heard such a thing?

-I am willing to give everything for the people I love!

-I am willing to change bad habits, bad habits for the people I love!

-I am willing to understand TA everywhere for the happiness of the people I love, for the sake of TA!

Have you ever done it? Have you ever thought about it that way? Every time you lose your temper, have you ever regretted it, blamed yourself, if so, it means that you will overcome it, because you really love him, so why do you want to lose your temper and hurt the person you love?

Please rate if you are satisfied!

That's because you didn't change it, and you just didn't meet someone who could change it yourself.

First of all, the body is hot, and your boyfriend spoils you. Drink some chrysanthemum water, rest early, tone your body, and adjust your mentality. You must know how to empathize. There is a classic saying: when the temper comes, the blessing is gone. When you want to get angry, you are sending dozens of times in your heart, and I wish you all the best.

Sooner or later, with your bad temper, he will not be able to resist breaking up with you.

You deserve it, it's he who gave you a big temper.

Change yourself slowly, don't seek to improve by leaps and bounds, as long as you make a little progress at a time!

Like my girlfriend, it's really annoying, and I have to change it.

Hehe, hello. This kind of personality is normal, you don't need to change yourself, you have your own unique personality, don't change it, just like the movie "The Best Life of a Coquettish Woman". Let's take it, thank you.

Don't change it deliberately, nature is beauty. Deliberately changing it is unnatural and awkward.

Normal. Usually good-tempered, but there is a build-up of pressure that cannot be released. After a while, you have to look for opportunities to release the pressure. lest he become mentally ill.

Maybe it's because you've touched the bottom line and lost your mind, so try not to touch the bottom line.

This is a man with a bad temper, but he loves his wife too much

Character is determined, to understand his essence, as long as it is good to you.

There is no overnight solution, changing yourself is a long and arduous process, change is bit by bit, to a certain extent, your ability, self-confidence, appearance, status will become better, and then it will not be a problem to find a woman.

At the beginning, you said that "your personality is very weak, even cowardly", which is to find a reason for your lack of strength, as if everything you are not doing is caused by your "character" and has nothing to do with yourself. Men play their own status in this society, in fact, it has little to do with character, there is no good or bad character itself, no matter what kind of character, there are advantages and disadvantages.

From now on, let's work hard, there is no need to have a complete plan, as long as there is a direction, you can take the first step in a journey of a thousand miles, as long as it reaches a certain level, everything will be solved.

Now that you know your shortcomings and weaknesses, then the improvement is not far away, and you are obviously degraded by a long-term lack of self-confidence.

1. Regain your self-confidence.

2. Change your mental outlook.

3. In the face of all problems, do not retreat.

4. To people, no matter who they are, don't show your servility.

5. Take your courage and change from what you feel is bad about you to what can be changed now.

6. Don't be lazy.

7. Study more.

If you have done the above seven points, you are equivalent to a different person, don't be afraid, life is only a few decades, what does it matter if you live, and why not be afraid of death.

Try more things that you haven't done and don't dare to do, and you're halfway there.

No no. There is also a man in my office, who has not been in a relationship at the age of 31, and you still have an age advantage.

Generally speaking, there are only a few aspects of boys like girls.

Voice: Your voice hasn't changed for the better, your voice isn't thick enough, but don't care, you say you're a good runner, and you're only a sophomore in high school, and your physical development isn't mature yet.

And then there is the personality indecisiveness But this is also something that most people can't avoid Because our life is to often face a lot of very difficult choices It is normal to hesitate when facing a choice As long as you have a certain idea in your heart, you can properly consult the opinions of others, and don't always show no idea in front of others There is also a temper Men must have blood to dare to take responsibility Don't always be a good person Because people are impossible to be recognized by everyone So don't be afraid of offending people Do what you want to do and be bold and hate people who do make you hate.

Also, physique is often used to distinguish between men and women, but if you say you're in good health, that's fine.

And focus, which is when you're very focused on doing what you're supposed to do, and don't think about messy things, and when you forget about them, and when you look back and see that those things really don't exist anymore, and for women, when men focus on one thing, it's the most attractive time.

I'm just saying some of my own views based on life experience and some understanding of human nature In specific life, many things have to be experienced by yourself, and you still have a long way to go, don't be blocked by some useless things.

Try to be low-key Let yourself become more mature and stable A boy with a neutral personality like you may be liked by a little girl, but a girl with a temperament and cultivation will not look down on you, so a man should be a man and practice more muscle-strengthening training The purpose is not to strengthen the muscles but to change his behavior and tend to be more inclined to men And the male who is more female will be despised in the eyes of the boy There is a more handsome boy next to me I saw him at first I didn't see him much More and more like a girl Manners or something It's too uncomfortable to look at And he is also very outgoing Dress up or something is sunny This is not good So I advise you to dress up casually The color must be heavy For example, gray, black and white Just these three colors The other colors are either motherly or weak There is no sense of security They will bring you temperament And your socks In addition to white and black Don't think about anything else Just have fresh hair Don't be too long Don't be too short That's all I have to say I hope you have changed.

A boy like a girl has a lot to do with his family environment.

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Hopefully you can roar like he did in the cage.

This kind of boy is very unpopular in my class, and many girls make fun of him, but as long as you don't dislike people, and you do things, men will be loved by everyone.

The tone of speech is gentle, the orchid finger is warped, he loves to inquire about other people's affairs, loves to be clean, and walks twisted and pinched.

Then you should do more sports to exercise your will, football, basketball, attend more parties, contact more boys, do more outdoor sports, climb mountains or something, go out to work, do some heavy work, don't be afraid to endure hardships and hone more!

It's not good to be like a girl! But what can be changed slowly, first make sure that it is a boy in your heart, and then have more contact with boys, such as playing basketball, and other group activities! Believe that you will succeed.

Nothing! Handsome guy! Some girls just like you!

Know yourself and like yourself.

Go someone else's way so that others have no way out.

Let's find a delicate girl to fall in love.

By the side of the girl who is a bird, you will slowly discover your masculine side

Your guy is still good, if it works, you don't have to be afraid, after all, it's a symbol of a man. When you have a girlfriend, you know how fun that little one is.

I have a college classmate who is your type.

What's the use of knowing your own shortcomings and not correcting them. If you don't change yourself as soon as possible, you will regret breaking up because of this in the future.

I'm just like you, hey! I'm a guy and treat my girlfriend the way you do to your boyfriend, and we've broken up now! When I wasn't in love, I felt how perfect I was, and after I talked about it, I realized that I had so many shortcomings!

In the future, you must seriously examine yourself and strive to change yourself! I think you should usually restrain yourself, know how to understand, seek common ground while reserving differences, don't be like me, cherish what you lose!

genes and living environment.

This snubbing of yours may be some personality traits that your parents have passed on to you2 There may be problems with the way you communicate. Sometimes there may be a rush to talk and a quarrel will start.

Maybe he doesn't want to quarrel with you, and you don't want to quarrel with him, but it's hard for each other to talk for no reason.

Maybe it's just an instinctive reaction to curiosity or something.

If that's the case, you need to learn how to get along with your partner.

You know you're in a bad temper.

The more you can't control it, the more you have to control it.

Well, no, you don't have to worry, your boyfriend has been with you for so long.

Find a way to control yourself and learn to cherish him.

If you have self-knowledge, let yourself change.

If you don't change, this day will definitely come soon!

I'm also a lion girl, but I didn't have a boyfriend because of my bad temper, so I have to endure it!

He doesn't love you enough, give up. If you really like it, how can you not contact it?

If you can't control your emotions, it's a sign of immaturity, and it's good to experience it more slowly. Know a lot, if they don't believe it, don't believe it, ignore them, and they'll know you're right later. They don't believe you, they will talk less in the future, and it seems that you are more introverted...

Keep a normal mind, no matter how much you know, they are always older than you, and they have experienced more than you, know how to be humble, sometimes they can be tactfully raised where they are wrong, and your colleagues are also like this, there is no need to look up or down.

Learn from other people's strengths seriously, don't be self-righteous, do something to make people believe in to prove your ability, and don't complain!