What am I going to do? Very depressed, begging for relief from the emperor

Updated on psychology 2024-05-01
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I support you to keep chasing! What's wrong with us pursuing what we love? What's more, they don't have results, you have a chance...But she's a good girl, not the kind of half-hearted person, I think you're too anxious, prematurely reveal the purpose, feelings should be cultivated step by step, but it's not too late, now you can do whatever you want, ask her out on the line, she and you alone if you don't want to find a few friends together, don't be too anxious, this time to slowly cultivate feelings, care about her in the subtleties, give her time to accept you, time will naturally come to fruition, finally, I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm a man. I want you to let go.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To love someone is to fulfill her, and to fulfill the happiness of others is to fulfill one's own happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    That's all it takes, so as not to disturb your peaceful life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Calm, you have to know what she is thinking, decide what you want to do from her point of view (don't talk about falling in love with her without knowing anything) light love can be happy, otherwise you will fall into the abyss.

    Shoot when it's time to let go, let it go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The emperor you are looking for is here, and the girls you said who have boyfriends can be chased, but only a part, you can't think that all girls are like this. Let it go, bro. It's not wrong for you to fall in love with someone else's woman, but it's okay for you to pursue it boldly, and then people just ignore you, what can you do.

    Listen to my brother, there is no grass at the end of the world.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, she also has a good impression of you, but she may be reluctant to have his boyfriend, after all, girls are still used to relying on one person, and she is afraid that she will regret leaving her boyfriend to be with you. Give each other some time to sort out your emotional problems, and then she will still choose her boyfriend, then you can only be ordinary friends with her. You also want to open up, it's better to be happy.

    Don't forget, there are better girls waiting for you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can think about it the other way around, you can chase her from someone else, and someone else may chase her away from you in the future! So, I didn't promise you that this woman is okay, and now is not the time to be discouraged... To put it mildly, it's cheap and not good.,Good girls are always not easy to catch.。。

    Also, you have to think clearly, does she like you too? I think it can be felt, and if you don't know, then let it go, and if you feel it or have felt it, then go ahead ...

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    See how they're developing? The crux of the matter is that they don't tolerate your involvement, you understand? The solution can be to find a middleman to help you find out what she has to say. The original lovers eventually became married. Bless you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, I personally think that you have fought for it, but she did not choose to be with you, then give up, you will find better;

    Fight for what you want; If you fight for it and fail to get what you want, then give up, at least you have worked hard, so you won't regret it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think there's hope, wait, she's going to break up with his boyfriend soon, because they're already estranged. You just have to do your best, love her well, wait for her, and take care of her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Brother Xiaochao suggests that you empathize, if you are that boyfriend and then your girlfriend is also pestered by a man like this, what do you want that man to do? Or are you the girl, what are you going to do? Go for yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Tell her directly、You will wait for her, and one day they will break up or something will come back to you。 Anyway, I think she said don't contact her and don't look for her often, it will cause her trouble. The only thing I can do is to wait for her, anyway, I think such a man is the best, maybe there is no hope, there may be hope, God is destined!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it's good to send you a word. [There is no suitable or inappropriate, only cherish not cherish].

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I also agree with the upstairs. Respect her decision. You are sure that you love her.

    If you want and can, then you can protect her. Love someone's heart as a friend. I think girls don't want to hurt your serious feelings.

    Then you should also understand that she is also respecting you by doing this. Give each other the right distance. Be a regular friend.

    If you can't do it, don't pester her. Anyway, I admire her too. If you cherish her, don't push her anymore.

    May you all find true happiness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm standing with a schoolgirl and I want you to let go. I'll be honest, don't be angry, if she breaks up with her current boyfriend because you are good to her, chooses you or stays with you without breaking up, do you think such a person is credible? So, she gave up on you to prove that your choice was right, and she deserves your liking!

    In fact, it is difficult to forget someone, and I know that it is not easy to forget. I think it's good when you wait for the next person who deserves your affection. I don't know if it helps you, but I'm telling you from the very heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I encountered a similar thing not long ago, I refused, also because I have a boyfriend, he said at first that he didn't want to give up, and then he said he wouldn't harass me, in fact, I wanted to be friends with him, but now I don't contact, it's a pity. Women are vain and hope to have the most seeker to satisfy her vanity, so she will sometimes take the initiative to contact you, especially when he has a conflict with his boyfriend, or when she is lonely (because you say that she is separated from her boyfriend), she will especially want to find someone to talk to, and you are her most suitable person, so she is not interested in you to a certain extent. Now you're going to be sure that he and his boyfriend really have a good relationship?

    Is it possible for them to get married? If the answer is yes, then give up! There is no grass at the end of the world.

    And I think you're good with girls and will find the right one. There will be short-term pain, and I hope to find your happiness as soon as possible.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Sometimes the way of chasing and fighting, not only tired themselves, but also make the other party breathless, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, the key is that you love someone who should not be loved, there is a kind of love called letting go, real love, not possession, but giving, if she feels that you can only be friends with her, then a little more respect and promise her! What's more, she has a boyfriend, you don't care if she has it, but she cares, it's not good, you are equal to a small 3, it's immoral to dig other people's corners, you are still young, there are many good women in this world, and there are many people worthy of your love, take a step back, the sea and the sky, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower? Caught in the whirlpool of feelings, I know that you yourself are actually sad, but many things will pass eventually.

    Even if you can't let go now, time will let you go, even if you love her, but she loves others, fulfill her! Now that QQ has been deleted, whether it is her own decision or her boyfriend's request, it is her choice. Don't even bother, let alone look for her again, and leave yourself some dignity, okay?

    People who fall in love with others will be painful, so it is better to live alone, and the person who really belongs to you will appear in the future, withdraw from this tired love, let yourself be happy, be dumped, love yourself well, because only you are the best for yourself, let yourself become stronger than the other party, and make yourself more excellent. This is the best revenge for the other side! You have to pull yourself together and don't lose yourself because you are out of love.

    Be kind to yourself! I hope my advice can help you, hopefully, thank you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Give her time, give yourself time, and if you love her, you have to respect her choice, and she knows that you love her (this is very important), and she may choose between you. If his boyfriend forgives him, maybe you'll be out of luck, and if not, maybe she'll lean next to you. The building near the water gets the moon first, the girl puts more effort into it, don't be brutal, come on brother.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I know that everyone is selfish in the face of love, so if you like her, you want to be with her, if you really like her, then say your true emotions, if she still refuses then you bless her, after all, she already has a ...... in her heartOf course, I will wish you happiness!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think here are some of my ways to get rid of my emotional troubles:

    1.Accept your feelings: Whether it's annoyance or sadness, you need to first accept your feelings and admit that your feelings are normal.

    2.Talk to someone: Talking to someone you know about your worries can help you ease your emotions and get rid of the stress and negative emotions you have to deal with alone. At the same time, talking can also gain support and encouragement from those around you.

    3.Change your state: Change your state and distract yourself by exercising, listening, watching movies, etc., so as to reduce the impact of negative emotions.

    4.Seek professional help: If your emotional problems have seriously affected your life, work and health, it is recommended to seek professional counseling or psychological help.

    5.Change your thinking: Try to look at your troubles rationally, find new ways of thinking, and change your thinking. Shift your focus to the positive people and actively participate in other aspects of your life to make your life colorful.

    All in all, relieving the troubles of rising potatoes in a relationship requires us to accept our feelings, actively seek solutions, and gradually come out of negative emotions. Don't over-suppress your emotions, don't deliberately avoid them, and learn to deal with problems in your relationship positively and reasonably.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In the end, you still have to be ruthless. Don't wait until the last two are gone.

    Ask yourself, when you're happy, choose whoever comes to mind first.

    Generally speaking, what you think of when you are sad is unreliable, but what you think of when you are happy is reliable.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hello landlord: I suggest that you should get along with them for a long time, slowly check which of them is better, choose one (can't be a husband and wife) and just want your mother to like it, after all, home and everything is prosperous! As for you not wanting to hurt them, that's impossible!

    After choosing one of the two, you should be very kind to the one you don't want to tell her that we are brother and sister or best friends, okay, maybe it won't hurt so much, right? Hope it helps.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In reality, there are always some things that don't go well, don't deliberately dodge, don't think too much, let everything go naturally, treat it with a calm mind, teach you a secret, if you encounter troubles, you tell yourself: It's just that my cultivation is not enough, and I'm angry again. If you can endure, you can endure, which is indispensable for modern survival!

    When you are too bored, you need to find something to divert your attention and make yourself a little fuller, if you are a woman, I recommend that when you feel empty, you can do elm flail and swim These two things help a lot in your body! If you are a man, I suggest you go to the gym and play basketball! These two items are also very helpful for the body, and the important thing is that they are not tiring.

    If you're feeling lonely, I think something must have happened to you lately. Or quarreled with a friend, or was misunderstood, misunderstood? It doesn't matter, everyone has to go through this in life, and you don't have to worry about being lonely or anything.

    Personally, I have summed up the principle of being a man: If you want others to be good to you, please be good to others first. If you want to get something, you must first give something.

    Do you feel particularly depressed? Have you ever tried to calm down and think carefully about what makes you so depressed? Don't get the recognition you deserve?

    Is it also an offer or request that has been denied? This is an indispensable chapter in life, think carefully about how to touch the hearts of others. I wonder if my words can help you solve your current confusion.

    Believe me, there is no threshold in this world that cannot be crossed, and you can get it if you have the heart! How can we be happy? It's a simple and complex question.

    Tai Pang Tong. What happiness needs is artistic conception and mentality. A person with a calm mind cannot be said to be forever, but at least generally happy.

    They don't care about things they don't care about. Unnecessary things, unnecessary words. As far as the state of mind is concerned, it is necessary to have a calm mind.

    This is not something that can be done in a while. The experience of life plus my own thinking all the time. in order to take their mentality to the next level.

    It is impossible to be happy for a lifetime. Something must have been experienced. Realize certain truths that belong only to you.

    In order to achieve true peace of mind. In this way, it is called, their own personality. Smoke Wipe out I advise you, sometimes when you encounter anything, no matter what it is, think about it in a different position.

    You know how you feel, Simulate other people's thoughts, and now you're sad, maybe someone else is more upset? Thinking about everything will help you in your life! Sprint to level 8 Smoke Wipe 】 Professional answer, satisfied with one hundred!

    Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't think too much about it, achievements always belong to the past. A real master has no intention of gaining or losing, as long as he thinks about how to do well in the next exam. Others did well in the exam but didn't work as hard as you, it was just her luck.

    Sometimes don't think about others, compare yourself with others, compare yourself with yourself. If you do your best, then don't blame yourself. Ways to relieve stress:

    Shouting loudly for 1 to 2 minutes to vent the resentment in your heart; Sit on the sofa and listen quietly for 15 minutes, and you will feel much more comfortable. Or if you confide your grievances to family or close friends, you can be relieved. You should listen to more ** and let beautiful music dissolve the mental fatigue.

    Brisk and comfortable ** can not only give people the edification and enjoyment of beauty, but also make people's spirits be effectively relaxed. Laughing is the best way to get rid of stress, so you can forget about your worries and smile often. You should also consciously slow down the pace of life, deal with all kinds of complicated things calmly and calmly, and do not blame yourself even if you do something wrong, which is conducive to people's psychological balance and also helps to relieve people's mental pressure.

    Be brave and face the reality, and don't be afraid to admit that your abilities are limited and you can't handle things properly. You need to make a lot of friends, talk to friends often, and communicate or confide in you from the bottom of your heart can not only enhance friendship and trust, but also make you feel good and your worries will be eliminated.

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