I m in an online relationship. And the reality distance is a bit big now what should I do

Online dating is also a way to fall in love, because the shortcomings of the Internet can be more hidden in reality, because you can show your beautiful side more on the Internet, so online dating can sometimes be very beautiful, I think you are now in a period of love, for the age you mentioned, I don't think it's too much of a problem, it's not too much of a problem for her to be divorced, whether two people can be together in the end does have something to do with real life, but the main thing is the consciousness that two people want to be together, even if"Sister and brother love"And whatever, if you really love each other, you can abandon all other thoughts, if it's just an infatuation, this feeling will disappear over time, maybe in a few months or half a year or a year, you can really see what you want.

The main thing is to see what you think about yourself, what you care more about, the result is often the final embodiment of thoughts, if you want you to end up together, then you will be together, as long as you work in that direction, but I hope you can cool down for a while, think about whether you can really accept her, whether she lied to you!

Even if you are disappointed in the end, you should not drill the horns, enjoy your youth, and grasp your youth well!"Life must be happy, don't make the gold bottle empty to the moon"As long as it is not on the premise of destroying the happiness of others, your happiness is in your own hands.

The point is that you are the same age? Can you accept the fact that she is divorced with children? If you love, love deeply!

You guys don't fit in, do you? Divorced with children. You have to think about your happiness in the future.

Ahem: Not a good man.

As a middle school student, I was also very confused

Amorous man.

Summary. Hello, there are two options, the first is that you both want to be together, so if you are in a long-distance relationship, you need to communicate and communicate with each other more, be more considerate of each other, and care more about each other. Share your life with the other person.

I have an online relationship with one of my netizens, we are far apart, what should we do?

Hello, there are two options, the first is that you both want to be together, digging quarrels, so long-distance relationships, if you hit the bridge, you need to communicate with each other more, communicate more, be more considerate of each other, and care more about each other. Share your life with the other person.

For example, what you eat, what the weather is like, what you have encountered, happy and sad, you can share.

The first two are not together because of online dating, they have not met, and they are far away from each other. In this case, it is difficult to really understand a person. Because it's not enough to simply rely on chatting online to know Mingchong.

In addition, it takes a lot of energy to manage this relationship in a different place.

Personally, I feel that the distance between online dating and reality depends entirely on the depth of the relationship between two people. When the relationship reaches a certain point, the distance of reality is not a problem.

When your emotions tremble to that point, if you are still students, then study hard and strive to come out and work in the same place.

If you are already working, then there is one person who must sacrifice himself and change the place of work, of course, if you are really emotional, you will not care about the impact of changing jobs.

However, the emotional authenticity of online dating is worth serious analysis, and you must know more about each other, after all, it is the Internet, and everyone has something that others don't know, so you should also be cautious.

In general, there are few elements in favor, of course, if you are really emotionally solid, you will not be broken up by my words.

Finally, I wish you the happiness of meeting yourself.

As long as you love each other sincerely, pay sincerely, as long as you treat each other sincerely, all conditions are secondary, of course, online dating is challenging, you can't see it, you can't touch it, at first you can only rely on the Internet or ** to contact each other, distance produces beauty! They say it's "poignant", but I don't think online dating is so hypocritical! I have been dating her online for 6 years, and I have thought about giving up many times, I have quarreled, made trouble, cried, troubled, all kinds of difficulties and frustrations have been experienced, I have never met and is**or**contact, I always felt that it was too fake to succeed, but we still succeeded, she was a year older than me and we still love each other very much, and soon we will enter the palace of marriage, 6 years of online dating has drawn a perfect end, and my online love has come to a reality.

There are actually quite a few people who have gone from online dating to reality, and there are even online dating people who are married, and their children will also play soy sauce. But there are also some people who are in real love who also talk about love as online dating, right?

Personally, I think that when it comes to falling in love, from novelty and strangers to the end, it is about feelings and people, not about external conditions attached to him. For example, appearance, age, salary, and so on.

Maybe at the beginning, the other party is handsome and beautiful, which will make you want to get close to him and make friends with him, but after a long time, your face is aging, and there must be something else that attracts you to continue to be with him.

Not to mention online dating, blind dates, or friend introductions, this is just a form of getting to know another person. Whether two people are suitable or not depends on the communication between the two of you. So the differences that exist are the differences of the individuals.

What is more taboo about online dating is that the interaction between two people is limited to the Internet and online, and they do not really meet. In fact, the difference between the feeling and reality on the Internet is quite large, on the one hand, the difference in external senses, and on the other hand, the difference in internal real personality.

Therefore, if you decide to have a long-term relationship, you should meet as soon as possible, in case your illusions about each other are getting deeper and deeper, and once you find that it is completely different from what you imagined, you can't accept it.

**and** are both that will amplify some of the characteristics of people, and only have a small part of the reference value. After all, they still have to get along face-to-face in the future, and who can not care about what the other person looks like at all? It's definitely different from what you imagined, but what if it's outside of your own acceptance?

Still have to meet.

As for personality, on the Internet people tend to form a second personality. This personality is usually the kind of person we subconsciously want to be. Of course, it is not excluded that the charm of some people cannot be conveyed only through words and other forms.

Moreover, daily online communication often involves not enough aspects of real life, and the other party may just be able to touch a few points that you like more, and let you like it. And other aspects are not satisfied.

For example, I personally prefer boys to spoil girls by saying "little fool" and "little fool", and if a boy often flirts with me like this on the Internet, then I may be tempted. But real love is not enough to just say little fools and little fools.

One of the drawbacks of online dating is that it comes and goes quickly, what is the reason? It is because the network communication is too thin and there are no more factors to support, as long as there is no network, the mobile phone may not be able to contact the other party. It's easy to feel insecure.

So, if you're now faced with a decision about whether or not to develop an online dating partner into a real person, you're confused about whether you can move on.

So, you need to ask yourself what exactly you like about him? Is it an ethereal feeling, or do you like him as a person, and are you willing to pay more to get to know him? Would he be willing to give it a try?

Don't be afraid of the future, after all, real couples don't start together and never separate again. Do happy things with lovers, don't ask if it's a catastrophe or fate.

There are really not too many cases from online dating to real love, the possibility of online dating being able to turn into real love is too small, online dating is not a reliable relationship, and there are really not many reasons why online dating to real love may be as follows:

The first point is that online dating is not as cautious as romance in real life, because people on the Internet speak very casually and can freely express their speech on the Internet, but in real life, people will think carefully about what they say, so online dating is easy to start and easy to end, often two people of the opposite sex feel very happy after chatting for a while, it is possible to start an online relationship, but they don't think too much, just more about the online dating object as a good chat partner, And after a period of time, the two of them are not very happy to chat, and they will end this online relationship very casually.

The second point, so there are really very few online datings that can persist, and there are very few of these online datings who can meet, even if they have been dating online for a long time, they will think for a long time on the issue of meeting, because there are too many ** on the Internet, many people just want to stay at the network level, and do not want to meet in reality, and people often do not choose to meet for their own safety.

The third point is that the possibility of falling in love after meeting is even lower, because online dating is full of beautiful imagination of each other, and sometimes the appearance of the other party in reality will be different from imagination, and some netizens even find that the gender of this person is different from the gender on the Internet after meeting, and there are too many things to see the light and die, so in general, there are not many cases of online dating to falling in love in reality.

Many people feel lonely and lonely in real life and want to find a partner, but they can't find a partner in reality, so they start online dating.

The most common thing about online dating is to start playing games, and many people around me are like this. Generally, everyone is playing Glory of Kings, recognizing the master or something, and then chatting hotly and then getting together.

There is a strange person I know, she plays Honor of Kings, and a boy in the game is added later. The two of them chatted every day, ate and talked, slept and chatted all the time. Chatting and chatting became boyfriend and girlfriend, the boy was three years younger than her, and the distance between the two cities was thousands of kilometers.

It's also amazing, the two of them talked for more than half a month and didn't know what each other looked like, at first the boy kept making excuses and didn't want to **, and then he kept dragging it out. The girl finally agreed, and the boy in the ** showed half of his face and hid it. The girl was still very happy, said that she wanted to marry him, and asked her mother if she agreed to marry him.

I was also stunned, so I wanted to marry him, and asked my mother if she agreed, her mother was afraid that she would be angry with her.

Later, the two of them appeared, but they didn't see the light and died, and the relationship between the two was quite good. After a long time, the contradiction between the two people will also appear, one is a college student, the other is already in society, and their ideas are also different. And there is an age difference between the two people, they are not accompanied by them, and there is generally no good result in long-distance and online dating from a long distance.

Everyone still needs to be cautious about online dating, don't be too impulsive.

I haven't seen it in online dating for 8 years. His house is half an hour away from my house! I didn't see him when he came to me, and when I quarreled the day before yesterday and said we were breaking up, I went downstairs to his house at 11 o'clock in the middle of the night and asked him to come down, but he didn't come down!

A man stood at the door of his community for an hour, and finally I walked and he came down! has completely broken up, but there is always a regret.