Do you know why children love to mischievous?

<>First of all, we need to know that children's psychology is different from that of adults. Many problems, they look at the angle of our are diametrically opposite, for example, adults buy things in addition to appearance and practicality, and for children, beauty is the first. Even sometimes they can't tell what is beautiful, they just feel that bling bling is particularly shining.

Many parents complain that their children are naughty, so only by knowing the root cause of their troubles can we prescribe the right medicine.

Children mischievous are a sign of lack of love, trying to win the attention of parents.

Modern parents are busy with work and rarely find time to spend with their children. But children don't know how to express their need for parental care, so they can only try to get everyone's attention through the act of mischievous. It can only be said that in the eyes of us adults, this is extremely wrong.

But for children, that's their language of communication.

They were just curious and didn't even know it was trick-or-treating.

Due to their young age, children have not yet established a mature outlook on life, values, and worldview. There is no concept of right and wrong for some behaviors, but more of an instinct from the depths of the heart, and it will not take into account the influence around it. A child's world is "self", and everything is based on happiness.

This will inevitably lead to all kinds of mischievous behavior without knowing it.

The child uses mischief to vent his inner dissatisfaction.

Due to the limited ability of expression of children, they cannot systematically and systematically describe unhappy things. More often than not, they use a primitive act of violence to vent, for them the mischief is a one-off, and when the anger is gone. Generally speaking, people with immature IQs, including adults nowadays, are more willing to use force to solve problems, and they cannot look at it rationally.

Mischievous childlike behavior is an animal behavior that becomes more and more restrained as we get older.

Some children are really naughty, and they always like to play in a naughty way. This is also due to character, it can be said that it is their nature, and the nature of children is to look for happiness, and they make themselves happy by playing. It's just that they may be using the wrong method.

There are children who don't know how to interact with others in the right games, they just find it happy. In fact, it is a manifestation of a child's inability to live in harmony with his surroundings.

They probably don't know what others say about his behavior. He didn't care what others thought of him, he just felt happy to do so. The truth of this kind of mischievous children is the unscientific concept of family education.

There is no teaching for the child to use moral norms to restrain his behavior.

He also doesn't have enough ability to discipline himself, which is why he shows such a wayward side. Such a child often does not empathize, he cannot understand what others think in their hearts when they are mischievous like him, and how they perceive him.

I think it's because parents neglect their children, so children want to get their parents' attention, so they are so mischievous.

This is actually like a newborn baby, if you can't hear, smell, and feel the mother's voice, smell, and body temperature, the baby will easily cry, but if the mother hugs it, it will immediately stop crying. The same is true for children, who do not yet have much sense of security, and parents who think that their children are old enough to be independent, sometimes neglect their children because of some other things. Therefore, children are very mischievous, and it seems that only in this way will parents care about themselves and pay attention to themselves.

We all know that in fact, many children who love to mischievous have parents who are not around, which is because there is less parental discipline, so they are unscrupulous. Many left-behind children are very naughty, because the grandparents at home are old and have no way to discipline them, and the children have less discipline, so the children become mischievous.

Parents want their children to be obedient, to be well-behaved, and to worry less about themselves, but the truth is the opposite.

Last year, my son went to middle school for a period of time, when I went to pick him up every day, the teacher always complained, either when I was in class with the teacher, or when I was doing outdoor activities, I picked up some pebbles and so on, and so on, during that period of time, when it was time to pick up the child, I had a headache, and I even once wondered if the child was ADHD, until one day I met a person who did children's education, he said that the child was sometimes mischievous at home because he felt that the parents ignored him and wanted to attract the attention of the parents, He asked me to usually care more about the child and communicate with the child, and then as long as there is no special situation at home, I don't play with the mobile phone, I don't watch TV, I concentrate on playing with the child, after a period of time, not only in the school is much better, at home, he is not as good as before, jumping up and down, shouting loudly. There is another reason, I think it should be that children are more curious, and they want to do everything.

As a parent, you must figure out the reason, don't lose your temper at your child if you don't understand, and sometimes you have to learn to control your emotions.

Children are often disobedient, but also naughty and mischievous, such children grow up to be good or not related to the child's daily habits. There are many children who often make all kinds of naughty behaviors at this time, and at this time parents must learn to make positive guidance for their children. Some parents think that letting their children be casually disobedient at this time has a good impact on their children, but in fact this is not the case, because children are not exactly the same as being lively and making trouble.

Although it is a good way to say that children are disobedient and have their own thoughts, if children are just blindly used to make trouble, then this way of thinking.

It is also undesirable. Therefore, as a parent, you must choose the right way to guide your child, only in this way can you make your child better, and only in this way can you make your child better. Therefore, as a parent, we must choose the right way to educate our children, only in this way can we let our children get greater benefits.

When children are young, they are often disobedient and very naughty, which means that children's ways of thinking are rich and colorful, and it also means that children have more and richer ideas. At this time, parents can choose to use the right way to educate their children, which is more helpful to children, and they can choose to use the right way to guide their children accordingly when educating children.

Although children are very naughty when they are young, at this time, parents should also establish corresponding learning habits and living habits for their children, because only by restraining children's behavior can children become better. That is to say, parents should make a good agreement for their children in the process of educating their children, only in this way can the children grow better, and only in this way can the children develop better, which is very important for children.

Actually, this is not necessarily true. However, such a child, generally speaking, he will be relatively smart, and he has more ideas, which is better for entrepreneurship.

Such children will also be productive when they grow up, and parents should cultivate their strengths, encourage their children, and let their children develop in an all-round way.

A mischievous child may also grow up to be promising, because character does not determine a person's future.

What happened to those students who contradicted the teacher and argued with the teacher when they were students?

1. Accidentally embarked on the wrong path.

Go astray. However, there is also a category of children who belong to the scope of "bears" and "bastards", and are not just mischievous, but naughty and mischievous often reach a level of "uneducated".

This type of child is the most likely to go on the wrong path and go astray.

2. Seize the opportunity to develop yourself and achieve enviable achievements.

Most of the children who were naughty and mischievous when they were children belong to the type that is particularly energetic and has a more flexible heart. Date socks.

These children may be a headache for their parents and teachers when they are young, but their advantages will gradually be revealed after they really enter the society.

This type of person has a more active mind and is more likely to seize opportunities to develop themselves and then achieve enviable achievements.

Therefore, if the child is naughty and mischievous when he is a child, if he does not reach the point of "bear" and "mix", what parents should do is to guide rather than manage, and let the child's character develop freely, and there may be surprises when he grows up.

3. Grow up sensible and pay attention to your heart, and live a down-to-earth life.

In fact, there are many children who are energetic and always naughty when they are young, and even bullied other classmates, but as they grow older, they gradually become sensible and begin to pay attention.

Study diligently, work steadfastly, and live seriously, not to mention how much you have achieved, but you live by your own ability, and you live a fulfilling life every day.

This made Qi Qiqi, a parent and teacher who was worried that he would grow crooked when he was a child, breathed a sigh of relief.

What will happen to naughty children when they grow up, the answer is really surprising, not being good when they are young does not mean that they will not get better when they grow up, nor does it mean that they will not have the ability when they grow up.

When I was a child, I was too honest and was too strict with my parents, which led to the fact that when I grew up, I liked to hide my thoughts, I didn't like to fight, I liked to go with the flow, and I liked to live the life of an ordinary person, this is the honest person in our eyes. Naughty children dare to think and do, are particularly independent, and work hard to practice as long as they think of it, so they mix very well.

Children who are very honest when they are young, very well-behaved children, children who listen to teachers and parents, most of them like to live a quiet life when they grow up. They have adapted to being arranged by others, to being managed by others, so they don't like change, and when they grow up, they don't want to compete, and if they are allowed to compete, they may lose their way. Children who are very naughty when they are young, they are such a character since childhood, they are very curious and like to ask why, so when they grow up, they like to compete and like to work hard to create their own lives.

Because children who are very honest when they are young, they have accepted obedience and are waiting for their parents to plan their lives for them, so they will hide their thoughts when they grow up. They like to give up their positions, they like to give up opportunities, they don't fight, they don't grab, outsiders seem to be very Buddhist, in fact, they don't have the ability to compete at all, it can also be said that they are very afraid to compete with others. In this rapidly developing society, if you don't fight for it, how can you give them opportunities?

The reason why naughty children can mix well is because they are not satisfied with the status quo and they want to change their life status. They want to give their families a better life, so the naughty child will try to plan his life for himself, and then go the extra mile, and finally the naughty child succeeds. And honest children they have lost their way, they are very slow to react, they have no ideas of their own, they like to sit on the side of the road and applaud others.

These people become very content with the status quo, and they will lose opportunities again and again, no opportunities for promotion, no opportunities for entrepreneurship, and even love will not favor them.

Because honest children have been imprisoned in their thoughts, and after being born in society, they not only have to look at professional knowledge, but also look at the flexibility of thought.

Because of naughty children, they are relatively more active in thinking, and they are more bold and aggressive.