My father only found out at the age of 43 that he liked men, and it was so confusing to be a son

Updated on society 2024-05-16
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Children, everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, your dad has it, and of course you have it.

    If you love your dad, respect his choices and sexual orientation, because he loves you too.

    But you have to tell your dad that you are very uncomfortable, you must communicate with him in time, don't keep it in your heart, maybe your dad will take into account your feelings and move out with that boy or whatever.

    Your dad is not young anymore, but he has just begun to step into same-sex love, and it is inevitable that he will take some crooked paths, but that is his life, his choice, and I believe that he will take into account your feelings when he is more mature.

    Remember, love is tolerance.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Accept him! Respect his choices and sexuality! In fact, there are a lot of people like your father, and you can look up some gay things.

    In fact, be a person in a gay circle! We all know that such thoughts or practices are unreasonable. However, there is no way for them to do it.

    After all, I always have this kind of thought in my heart! In fact, I am also a person who has just entered the gay circle, I am only in my twenties, and now I have my own wife and children. I regret why I like the idea of being of the same sex.

    It's sad, I always feel sorry for my parents, wife, children, and everyone around me. I've always wanted myself not to think about things that aren't normal. I'm afraid that everyone around me will know about my abnormal thoughts and practices, what should I do?

    I want to slowly change my sexual orientation. But it's hard. I thought about dying so many times, and I was so sad.

    Not every comrade wants to be a comrade, there is really no way!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Forget it, accept the reality. If you can't stand it, it's good to move out and live with your mother.

    It is recommended that you check out the content about gay men on the Internet, there are many stories about gay men with wives and children. In fact, they also need social acceptance and understanding, and the person concerned is your father, for the sake of blood, accept him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He's your dad, that's a fact, and you can choose not to live with him

    But you have to go back during the New Year's holidays to communicate feelings

    Out of sight is out of sight. It's so comfortable and so neat.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's the first time I've heard of anything like this. It's really embarrassing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I just want to know, is your father still with that boy after all these years, it's hard to believe that they really love each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I am prejudiced against those comrades, but now that you meet them, I can only say that you admit it, let go of your mentality, and tolerate him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you haven't investigated this matter clearly, you can't talk nonsense, maybe there is a misunderstanding.

    It's better to investigate it clearly, I think this matter hangs in the air.

    If that's the case, either accept it calmly, or leave quietly, out of sight. It's so comfortable and so neat.

    The point is, you have your own life, and if you keep thinking about it, you will always get sick. If you really can't get by, change cities and live your new life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People who are particularly online tend to have escapist emotions, and when you are pregnant, they may feel unable to afford these acknowledgments, or that this is not the life they want.

    But one day he'll figure it out, and he'll come back and face it all if you're willing to keep waiting, and if you don't, then it's going to be easy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If his parents insist that they don't know, if you really want him back, then you go to the police and the police will find him, if he is still alive. But I think if he's still alive, you'd better give up on such a man.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Anything other than trying to improve your relationship with your husband and you continue to be together will hurt him in any other way.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Go on with your life, you can both communicate about anything.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A four-year-old child also has a certain mother-lover or father-lover complex, so who does he voluntarily follow? Then take the child away from the ground high that would hurt him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    As long as you are wishful and happy. Unnecessary interference as a parent.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It depends on how old you two are. If they were all almost thirty years old, then I would not object. Because people at this age have been through a lot of things, and the decisions they make are carefully considered.

    Even if you oppose it, it is useless. It's better to support them, women are older than themselves, and they will be more considerate. Parents think about each other's personality, not each other's age, don't worry.

    The age of the person who marries is never the most important thing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As long as you are wishful and happy. Unnecessary interference as a parent.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It can only be said that you have a relationship with children, but why don't you like it as adults?

    I love troubles] to solve your troubles; Satisfied with the adoption of the package you have no worries. Thank you !!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's good, you're cute, amiable, and respectable.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Good boys are real men, men's hearts, boys' appearances. Only exists in ** that traverses the rebirth class. Some **authors, all of whom have reached the age of uncles, still write about youth**, and say that it is true, which is nonsense. === Hope to adopt.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I privately think that adolescent boys are positive, upward, sunny, lively, cheerful, have a sense of justice, and are full of positive energy. It's a good boy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't be surprised, dare to act.

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