Tangled Do you live with your boyfriend, regret living with your boyfriend, everyone give me advice?

Updated on society 2024-05-18
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It doesn't matter if you love him very much and want to marry him, and he is also reliable and can give you hope. If you still have concerns in your heart, no matter what it is, don't live together for the time being.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Although people are not thousands of miles away, they are also very hard, don't pour cold water on your boyfriend! He's going to break his heart! But, his personality, I think you also know it, after all, we have been talking for more than a year, and we can still get together!

    As long as he doesn't aim to stay away from you as soon as he succeeds in taking possession of your body, I think you can promise him! I envy you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Leigh: You may be happy living together, and you can also test whether this boyfriend is suitable for marriage in the future, and living together will get to know a person to a great extent. Cons:

    An unmarried woman living with a man may affect her reputation in the future, even if she really does not do anything, perhaps it is very bad for the backward mind. Think about the pros and cons and make your own decision.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do you want to think about it yourself, the key is for you, see what you are worried about, can you stop worrying? Think about it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Those who are clear are self-turbid, and everything is from the heart. You know what I mean.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Now that it's happened, regret won't help you much. I can only say that I was too careless and looked at the wrong person.

    However, it is still necessary to stop losses in time.

    For example, if you are living with your boyfriend now, then it is best for you to break up and separate quickly.

    Don't care too much about other people's suggestions, you can refer to them, but make your own decisions.

    Leave him immediately to have a chance to develop the next relationship. If you don't leave him, you will continue to suffer.

    When the interruption continues, there will be trouble. Remember not to trust men too easily in the future. After all, before cohabitation, it must have behaved well.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's rare for me to see friends around me who can actually live together and then develop into a real couple. They all broke up in no more than a year or two. Cohabitation is emotionally draining.

    Unlike marriage, real couples will not consider divorce unless they have to, and to put it bluntly, separation is their last option. They will try to be considerate and understanding of each other. What about cohabitation?

    As soon as I got into an argument, I slowly began to doubt myself: Is this person really the person I want? Then break up, I can find a better one anyway.

    The way of thinking is different!!

    If you really want to understand a person's lifestyle, do you have to know it through cohabitation? Traveling, going to see his room, going to see his family, friends, isn't it? In fact, you know what kind of person you are dealing with.

    After all, the girl who broke up and was injured after living together is not my case, and some respondents got married directly, maybe they were lucky and happened to meet the right person. There are also a considerable number of girls who live together for several years and end up being ruthlessly abandoned by boys; Or in a situation like mine, two people are not suitable, keep quarreling + two people don't work together to make progress, and they can't get together more and more. Is it troublesome for you to break up at this time?

    First of all, there is not much to say about the problem of money, rent, furniture or something.

    The second is a terrible psychological question: can you accept the opinion of the boys around you about your cohabitation and breakup? This is a very real problem, just like you and your boyfriend will worry about whether you will have a boy like you if you are not a virgin before you xxoo for the first time.

    Are you really willing to pay for your innocence and reputation to live with this person, do you really want to? What if you meet someone you like in the future, but he can't accept the girl you have lived with (he has never lived with himself)? Do you dare to bet on this?

    I'm not a girl who is poisoned by machismo, but in this patriarchal social environment, the pressure of girls living together can be imagined, so girls should think clearly before living together, and don't regret living together. I hope that my wake-up call to you will not be like I used to say as soon as my brain is hot: Okay, let's live happily together!

    We love each other so much, surely anything can be solved!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, a boy was good to you before he didn't get you, and after he got you, his original appearance will be exposed in front of your eyes, and others are like this, because they have been together for a long time, he just complains that you are not good here and there.

    You should go find a job now, if you don't have a job at home and rely on him for food, you will be his nanny all day long, and he will still dislike you, so a woman can't rely on a man to support her, she must have her own job to live confidently. You have to look for a job now, and if you find a job with accommodation, you don't want to live with him, you have to separate from him, because you have a sense of distance from him, and he will be better for you.

    Because you are by his side every day, he takes you for granted, you already belong to him, and he also feels that it doesn't matter. Now you must develop an independent and self-reliant character, everything must be on your own, don't rely on others to live, life will be very inferior because of relying on others to live. Now you can also find a job with him, and if there is a place to live in the factory, you can move to the factory to do it, just say that it is too far away and inconvenient, and you don't have to live with him.

    In this way, you will also have some self-esteem, no matter what he says, you can also contradict him, and a person should live with confidence. You can live your own life and impress him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is very painful for <> people to break up, for the bits and pieces of the past, especially the beautiful things, it is difficult to forget for a while, but the feelings cannot be forced, since the breakup can no longer involve anything, the broken threads will only hurt each other, the pain is deeper, let yourself get out of the memories of the past faster, so you can't be together to completely separate, as soon as possible to find someone who truly loves you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can list the pros and cons of living together, and you can clear your mind more quickly and make a decision about the reasons why you live together as a couple

    One or two people are working and living in a foreign land, in order to reduce the pressure of life, you can calculate the income and expenditure ratio of the two of you, generally speaking, couples live together, or the one who earns more money, of course, each couple has their own situation.

    Second, two people are already engaged, and living together is to try marriage in advance, here is a friendly reminder, if you are not engaged, it is not recommended to live together, because many people feel that living together is no different from marriage, so they are vague about marriage.

    3. After living together, you can reduce a certain amount of pressure, two people complement each other, live together, and support each other, understand each other, and comfort each other in terms of daily life and psychological state.

    Fourth, when you fall in love, you are curious or have a beautiful imagination about the life of the two.

    5. One party wants to find a free meal ticket or a free babysitter or a free bed partner.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Now you are living so wronged, your life is so long, how can you survive Although you have also spent money, but he always feels that you are eating and drinking, and he lives with him, and you will also feel that you are under the fence In fact, it is wrong for you to do this The best way to marry is to go step by step You give up everything for her Run to him He doesn't cherish your dedication to him Now you love very humbly From then on, he will always be condescending to you High so I advise you to stop the loss early Leaving does not need to say or reason He will naturally understand He doesn't love you much, he doesn't respect you, and you don't have to explain anything to him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you do that, you have to tell him that what you are doing hurts me deeply. You have to have the most objective words about the things he does, that is, only be practical, not mixed with your own feelings, and then tell your feelings. When talking about your feelings, don't mix it with criticism, just your own.

    And then finally tell him that you are going to break up with him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since your cohabitation has failed, then you are not suitable to live together, and you should not think about ending the cohabitation relationship, but also about your relationship that ends with cohabitation. Are you really fit to be together for a lifetime, relying on this passion that you like. It's clear that you're having trouble getting along.

    He is inconsiderate of you everywhere, you are careful to please him, and in the end you are unreasonable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Falling in love is a happy thing, you and I want to. And cohabitation is the best way to see a person's character. You can ask him for advice, once or twice, and tell him that you don't like it.

    If you keep doing this and don't change your ways, then you have to be careful. If you get married in the future, and he is like this, can you stand it for the rest of your life? Stop your losses in time and don't let yourself get hurt any more.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Since you regret it, you have to stop the loss in time! Break up doesn't matter if he wants it or not, you have paid so much in this relationship, but you haven't got a trace of understanding from him, such a person is really not worthy of your love, move out and live, don't contact him in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If it's a boy who pursues you, it's a very normal thing, it means that he has a good impression of you, and then wants to know the opportunity to be with you, if it's your colleague, then he is a little disobedient, a little hooligan, under normal circumstances, only the closest people, will have this kind of behavior, otherwise, the teacher does not dare to have this kind of behavior easily, this belongs to hooliganism to raise the realm to save the Bai faction to find a building.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are still in the dating stage, and he treats you like this, do you still dare to think about your married life? Do you think he loves you? Do you feel love?

    Why do you want to let yourself live so wronged, you can be very happy and happy, since you don't feel the sweetness of love, you have to be careful, I suggest you end this relationship, you may hate it at this time, but it will be good for you in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    So that's the benefit of living with your boyfriend. At least before you get married, you know what kind of virtue your boyfriend will be after living together, at least you don't have to regret it after you get married. Since your boyfriend is so excessive, separate as soon as possible, maybe you will be better off.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not your own problem after all.

    Life is not about desperately pandering to others.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then on the pretext that your parents miss you, secretly pack up very valuable belongings, and leave on the grounds of going home to visit your family, if he contacts you, pretend that your parents know about you and are very angry, so you have to break up with him "temporarily".

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This kind of thing can only be solved by yourself, others can't help, who do you want to live with, why don't you understand it, some things regret comes too late, and some things are regretted and useless.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Regretful boyfriend, you guys give a suggestion, the suggestion can't be given, or do you care about you, do you care about yourself and don't regret it? If you don't regret it, don't mind.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Now in this situation, if you don't work, you don't have the right to speak, he is not a good person in the first place, you should find a job and leave this man on your own, otherwise it will get deeper and deeper.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's a boat, so let's get along

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If that's the case, I think you should think twice and make a decision as soon as possible, so as not to get caught up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't know the specifics!

    But what is needed between men and women is communication!

    In the phrase "lose or change".

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you find that your boyfriend has many shortcomings that make it difficult for you to accept and he is unwilling to correct them, I think you should separate from him at this time and seriously consider the relationship between the two of you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

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    3.The second is that the starting capacitance of the water pump is attenuated very badly and cannot achieve the effect of starting. 4.

    The first reason is to find a way to get rid of the rust inside and it can rotate normally.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Parents in traditional families are conservative, and it is difficult to accept that their children live together too early, and if they are told when the relationship is still unstable, the relationship will only increase the annoyance of the parents in the future.

    In the consciousness of parents, cohabitation may mean that two people will move towards marriage in the future, which is equivalent to a trial marriage. And in today's young people, cohabitation may not be so burdensome. This conceptual gap will not only affect the communication between parents and children, but may also affect the emotional direction of couples.

    When feelings are hot, it is easy for two people to make some impulsive decisions. In general, it is recommended to consider cohabitation during the period of emotional stability, when two people have a certain understanding of each other, and it will be easier to solve the troubles caused by different living habits.

    If you still decide to live together after you have thought about it, be sure to tell your parents first. You can choose to talk to your parents tentatively, talk about the cases of friends living together, and listen to your parents' views on living together as a couple.

    If your parents agree with the couple's cohabitation, then congratulations, you can talk a lot less, but if your parents don't agree with this, don't quarrel with your parents, after all, they are the people who love you the most in this world, you can slowly infiltrate your boyfriend's thoughtfulness and good things for you in your daily life, and slowly let your parents accept his verification, and then tell your parents about it when the time is right.

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