Why do I want everyone to like me?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-24
61 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I guess it's a kind of age, I've been like that before, and I feel very lost. Later, I found that I love myself a little more so that others can also notice me, because I have independent thoughts, independent behavior, and my own way of doing things, I gave up those friends at that time, made a confidant, and the days became simpler, not very busy, although there were less happy and interesting things but I felt quiet, very peaceful, and I felt that I suddenly had a place to live, which only belonged to me. Living with a few simple friends will also become simpler, and it is really better to be good to many people than to just one person, because there will be reciprocal rewards.

    You send your concern to a lot of people, some people receive it, some people don't, some people receive it and ignore it... So the care you give back to you will not be proportional to the effort, you can be good to many people, but be sure to have the most precious friend! In this way, I will feel that no matter what I do, it is meaningful, at least there is a friend waiting for me and caring about me!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    On the contrary, you are too immature.

    If your friends can't force you, if you deliberately, your feelings will turn sour, don't think so much, be yourself. If they can accept the real you, they are good friends, and if they don't, then there is nothing to be sorry for.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Man! I want to be popular with my friends! Very normal!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Pay = = Return.

    Actually, you're very mature, and you can only ask and say that you think too much.

    Don't be too concerned about the return, put your mind on it

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    On the contrary, it's too naïve

    It's good to be natural, don't tie yourself down

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's normal!

    Little girls like to be handsome!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Me too. Maybe girls are like that.

    But I used to meet a super super handsome boy in the car, who was from the same school as me, the same level.

    I thought to myself, if only he liked me.

    Two weeks later, he confessed to me, and I refused.

    Oh - maybe that's what happened to the landlord.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I still want all the pretty girls to like me.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Every girl thinks so, and so do I, but now that I know that most handsome guys are very attentive, I don't like handsome guys very much.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's okay, don't be nervous, it'll be fine after a while.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's normal, because I think I'm beautiful, I'm very good, so when I see a handsome boy, I want him to be attracted to me, normal, it's a good feeling for myself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Well, there's nothing particularly bad about the little girl's vanity.

    First, people want to be liked, not hated.

    Second, people like to be liked by good people rather than by strange people, and the idea of hoping that handsome guys like it is also ......Well, it's better to use the saying that I want to be "appreciated" by handsome guys

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Cheap bone type, in fact, I'm like that.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's mainly because of a kind of vanity, it's normal, don't think too much.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's normal, I've been like this for a while

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I've had it too. It's good now..

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After reading the statement in your question, it is normal to think that you have this kind of thought.

    Everyone wants the person they like to like them a little bit more, and it makes you feel it more obviously.

    But the question is, what if the person who likes you also has this kind of thought? So, are you willing to show that you like him a little more for him?

    It's actually really nice to like someone who likes you. But in my opinion, it is more important to show that you like yourself in action and not just in words. More importantly, whether you like people or are liked, you should have an honest tolerance, rather than simply asking for the other person's liking for you.

    This kind of love can last for a long time, and it can be more reminiscent of people who like you or people who are liked for a long time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because of your heart's need, right? The love you need, hoping for a perfect response, the love you don't need, is like finding gold in the sand.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    That's your vanity at work, you want the person you like to like you to like you too, so that everyone knows his heart, you are very happy, the person who likes you you doesn't like him very much, and you don't want to be known by others, that's it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This should be everyone's idea. The person you like wants others to show that they love you, and I wish that people all over the world knew that the person you like also likes you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because people only care about whether the person they like cares more about themselves, and it doesn't matter if the person they don't care about doesn't care about themselves.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Are you sure you're articulating?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Everyone wants this, we want our existence to be valuable and meaningful, it is because we lack a sense of identity that we are so eager to get, this is the psychological state that everyone will have. Man's desires are always dissatisfied, and no one can resist them.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because you have not been confident for a long time, and because you are only a supporting role in the team, not a dominant role.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You are a contradiction, you want him to like you because you have a good impression of him, you don't want her to like you because of your lack of confidence

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Maybe you like him, but you don't feel worthy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You're conflicted, you're afraid she won't like you, hehe......Adopt it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Paradox: You're just running away.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You like her in your heart, but you don't think you're a reality.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I'm looking forward to it, I'm scared, I'm not confident!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You like her, but you don't know what to do, you can't give her promises or what she wants.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Do you like her? Does she like you? How old are you?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Everyone wants to be liked.

    This is normal.

    You like someone in your heart.

    Probably you know that you and him are not possible.

    But I still secretly like it.

    You want someone to love you and spoil you.

    After all, falling in love is one thing.

    At that time, you may still like him in your heart.

    But you'll feel.

    The other person is so nice to you.

    He should like you too.

    And he loves you so much.

    You might just be with him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Each of us wants to be watched by others.

    I want to be recognized.

    There's nothing wrong with that.

    If you like someone, keep liking it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Finally, I think we can't force others to love us too muchWe should still be more rational just now, after all, there are many things that we can't control, especially this kind of emotional thing, when we get the love of others, don't deliberately desire to get more, we should be happy for this, or feel lucky for it, but don't ask too much.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I hope that others will love themselves more, so that we can take the initiative when we love each other more, so that the family will be very happy, which is also everyone's selfish idea.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Because everyone lacks love and a sense of security, they want to have a dependent, and they can hope that others will love themselves more, which will also make their lives better.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Because they all like the feeling of being pampered by others, they all want to get the attention of others, and they want to be recognized by others, so they want others to love themselves more.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    This is the instinct of animals, and the same is true of people, who desire to be liked by others, and men have a desire to conquer, which is dictated by nature!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    How many boyfriends do you have? Why do you still use them? If you're making friends, don't you want them to like you?

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Maybe it's because you're beautiful or have a good personality, so give them a good feeling.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Because you are better looking. Personality, character, or outstanding academics or career. Excellent people are attractive!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You look very much like one of my relatives. My mother's son-in-law, mortal man, don't you want to taste the taste of fairies? I like you very much, all beings are suffering, only you are a strawberry flavor, I learned to eat twice in my life, once when I was a child, and once when I sat opposite you, what was the night, I wish you wanted to think that I couldn't sleep at night, you are a little weird and handsome today, without permission, I like you very much, I'm sorry, maybe you like Messi?

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Prove that their animalistic charm conquers all.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Such boys should not be ignored, they are not active and dependent.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Because that's how they can prove that they are attractive.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    People are beautiful! The important thing is to be lively and cheerful for me. Kindness and kindness.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You're beautiful, but don't think it's too beautiful.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Because, they think you're good, my opinion.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Because it smells. Men like it.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    They're playing the game, and whoever gets what you like wins their game.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Because I don't want to like other people.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Because the boy thinks it's so arrogant.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Because they don't have a girlfriend!

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    That's for sure, think about how you would feel if you loved someone yourself, if that person ignored you. Loving someone needs to be mutual, if only one party pays, but the other party doesn't care, then the party who pays will also get tired, so you must cherish the person who loves you, if you lose it, maybe there will never be someone who loves you like him, if you don't like the person who loves you, also explain your position earlier, and let him give up in the case of hurting him as little as possible.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Love is mutual, if you love someone, you will definitely care about that person's every move, in the same way, others love you, they must also care about you, and at the same time hope that you care about him.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Which is common sense, everyone hopes that the person they love cares about him, be dedicated to her, love is selfish, dare not both men and women want their other half to love him and her alone. I'm sure everyone thinks so.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Love is mutual, love a person also wants the other person to love themselves, if not, then it's not true love, just to make you happy. It's good that a person has a lot of people to love, but in the end you still have to choose what you like.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    There is no such thing as love, love is to be reciprocated. So men will eventually find a woman to marry, and women will eventually find someone to marry. No one waits for anyone. You don't care about me, why should I love you, I love the person who cares that I love me.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    If you fall in love with someone, please, please be gentle with him, no matter how long or how short you have been in love, if you can always be gentle with each other, then all the moments will be a flawless beauty, if you have to separate, you must also say goodbye, but also in your heart to be grateful, thank him for giving you a memory.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Of course.

    It can't be that you're being loved by someone else.

    And you're chatting with another guy.

    Put yourself in their shoes.

    If you're a boy.

    She's a girl. Can you handle it?

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