I hate people who work harder than me, do I have a psychological problem?

Friend, this is not a psychological problem, this is a problem of outlook on life, you are actually asking for trouble, there is no one strongest in this world, there are people outside the mountain, there are people outside the mountain, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, there is an old saying that people are more popular than people! People can't live by their feelings, but by their minds! Life is short for decades, isn't it better to be open-minded, long-term, happy, and free and easy!

Why bother yourself and give yourself so much psychological burden! How tiring and bitter it is to live like that! Adjust your mentality, neither humble nor overbearing, not anxious or boring, and maintain a normal heart and a humble heart!

If you can do it, you will find that life is actually very simple and comfortable! To live in the present moment is to learn to be content and happy! Hope mine can help you!

This is normal Only by constantly comparing will you improve But this kind of emotion is best not to affect the friendship between you Try to control it and think on the good side There is no highest only better Because there are better than yourself will motivate yourself to work harder, so as to make yourself stronger and better than before, don't look at who is not as good as who you want to see if you are stronger today than yesterday and learn from each other's strengths, so that you will become a strong person.

It's a normal thought, it's not that you hate working harder than you, but you hate the feeling that people are chasing after you and finally surpassing yourself, and people are comparing, and you can don't compare with others, but compare with yourself, and it's much stronger, and you're getting better every day, and you're going to become a new version of yourself every day.

You are because you can't let go, and other people's efforts are someone else's business, and comparing yourself too much with others is the stupidest thing. You have to do well for yourself, for yourself, not for them

A bit of a problem, but not big. It's a phenomenon of jealousy of others, and it exists in everyone, it's just serious or not. Look at yourself, be yourself...

Anyway, it's just a normal attitude. We don't want to be surpassed by others. But we will never be the best in the world.

Being surpassed is also always there. We'll just do it ourselves. If you keep being first. How can the people after the second family live?

If you are capable enough, you are not afraid that others will surpass you. There are people outside the world, and there are heavens outside the sky. Remember, you can never be the best person in the world.

That's only if you work harder than others every time.

This is a very normal thing.

Read a book The Weakness of Human Nature.

Why do you think that? Isn't that tiring?

In fact, what a person with this kind of psychology hates may not be the person who works very hard, but what he hates may be himself, which is a disguised self-loathing psychology.

Such people often realize that they need to work hard and need to achieve a difficult goal, but they are hindered by ability, inertia, and often unable to drive themselves to work hard, and they are frustrated and unable to exert themselves.

But at this time, I found that the people around me were working very hard to achieve their goals, and there was a faint trend of success. So I wished that this person would fall into hell like himself.

People who hate to work hard are completely a kind of can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour, self-righteous, feeling that they can achieve the same effect as others without hard work, but other people's efforts have already thrown him far away, and they don't find their own reasons to think that it's just accidental, and they don't want to work hard, delaying their lives.

People who work hard often give invisible pressure to people who don't work hard, so they hate this kind of pressure exerted by others, for example, it was everyone who was there to rest time, but he worked hard and studied hard, which will cause others to panic, afraid that he will work or study more than him, this feeling is very upsetting and uneasy.

People who hate hard work are also a manifestation of jealousy, if they can't do it, they will be jealous of those who can know, they don't want to work hard and are afraid that others will surpass him, this kind of person wants to sit back and enjoy it, which is impossible, so it is impossible to be down-to-earth and do your own thing, everyone's pursuit is different, and the efforts paid are different.

I think this kind of mental illness is more extreme.

The reason why I hate people who work extra hard is probably because I envy their efforts but I can't do it that hard, and then the envy that sprouts in my heart turns into jealousy. So much so that it turned into hate, so I especially hate the kind of people who work hard.

But this is not all the reasons, it may also be because people who work hard are very ruthless, ruthless to themselves, to others and to everything, very decisive and decisive, so this kind of person is generally not very likeable.

It may be because they think that wasting time is the state of the masses, and when someone behaves differently from this state, they panic and reject this behavior from the bottom of their hearts.

There is a kind of self-proclaimed salted fish people in college, they have no intention of studying, and they focus on games, **, watching dramas, etc. They also believe in their hearts that others should be like themselves, and once there is a diligent and studious person around them, they think that he is a foreign body, like a swan growing up in an ugly duckling pile, always being excluded.

People who don't want to make progress have no self-control, they know that this behavior is not good, but they will laugh at themselves when others read books: what is the use of reading books, and they will forget after reading them. This is also a kind of self-consolation for one's own depravity.

Perhaps we should ask, why don't we hate people who can crush us without diligence and hard work? Because they are too far away to look up, we know that we will never be like that.

Then ask yourself, why don't you hate people who don't work hard, don't make progress, and do nothing? Because we are despising them, the difference in work and study attitudes makes us superior and self-contained, and hating them is a waste of feelings.

And those who are at a similar level to us but work hard will make us subconsciously have a sense of crisis that is constantly being surpassed and constantly widening the gap between the two sides, which does not come from objective facts, but from the process of unconsciously comparing ourselves with others.

Contrasts make us perceive disparities, and disparities make us anxious, so it is almost natural that we become hostile to those people.

It's natural to be resistant to competitive opponents, but you can't go overboard.

People who go too far are often rich in inner drama and weak in execution, and they are the so-called giants in thought and dwarfs in action.

This kind of person faces the same level of people around him who work harder than himself, on the one hand, he is resentful of his own decadence and inaction, disgusted with his own inertia and lack of self-discipline, and on the other hand, he has unreasonable anger and jealousy, and he is entangled in the contradiction and unwillingness to entangle the lack of action and expected efforts, but he refuses to admit his mediocrity and failure, and finally can only blame others for all the resentment that is angry with himself.

To put it bluntly, he doesn't want to work hard, and he can't stand people who are similar to him trying to surpass him through hard work.

In their hearts, everyone should be a loser who is willing to be mediocre and inactive, and only when others are idle and inactive, they can continue to be lazy with peace of mind, and once others work hard, they can only comfort themselves with jealousy and ridicule.

It is not an unspeakable secret to hate people who work hard, but the dose of this emotion should be properly controlled, held steadily, and carefully contained, so that we will not become narrow-minded, jealous, and ugly.

I hate people who work very hard, because of a kind of negativity and jealousy, he himself is unwilling to work hard, but he does not want to see others surpass him and live better than himself.

If you hate a person who works hard, it means that he has no self-confidence. Jealousy is stronger. What others can do, he can't do on his own.

I feel very uncomfortable in my heart. It is also a manifestation of mental unsoundness. Therefore, those who work hard should continue to work hard.

Don't take it seriously.

It's a kind of inferiority complex deep in the heart.,Seeing other people's efforts, you will feel more inferior to others and fall into fear and hatred.。

This is a psychological problem, I can't see that others are stronger than myself, I am jealous that others are stronger than you, in today's society, as long as you don't work hard, you will face elimination, so don't be jealous of others, only by working hard can you make yourself stronger.

What is the psychology of hating people who work so hard? Seeing that person working hard will be disgusted. And I think the man is a fool.

Because I don't want to work hard, if everyone is like this, it's nothing. But if there is a particularly hard-working person. It's not quite right in your heart, and you're afraid of being compared to others. So I hate people who work very hard.

Personally, I think this should be a manifestation of jealousy of other people's abilities, this kind of person can't see others better than him, often duplicitous, he has no ability and is lazy, and he is particularly dazzling when he sees a person who works hard, this is the so-called villain.

Essentially, I'm lazy and don't want to work hard. But they are afraid that others will strive to surpass themselves, so they are envious and jealous of other people's efforts.

I think it's a kind of jealousy, there are really such people in the workplace, they don't want to be motivated, they work hard, they get by, but when they see other people working hard, or see others making work performance, they (they) feel sour, very unhappy, and even say cool things and sarcastic people. Such a person is very abnormal in his heart, and it is a typical jealousy psychology that can't eat grapes and says that grapes are sour.

People who hate hard work are jealous and can't work as hard as him or her, so they are envious and hateful, and they feel that people who work hard are particularly annoying. Because he can't reach the positivity of others, he slanders him in his heart, and this kind of person is very pitiful.

This kind of person is very jealous and destructive, and he can't do it himself, and he doesn't want others to do it.

This kind of person has little ability, and he has low self-esteem, because his energy and ability are used to envy and sabotage the efforts of others, and he cannot see the good of others.

What is the psychology of hating people who work so hard? I think it's normal, people have a dark side. On the one hand, I hope that the other party is not as good as you, and on the other hand, I don't work hard.

Then seeing that the other party is working very hard, and then achieving a degree that he has not reached, he will be more or less psychologically uncomfortable.

From a psychological point of view, a person with this kind of psychology may not hate the person who works very hard, but he may hate himself, which is a disguised self-loathing.

A serious and hard-working person is like an ugly duckling, who is obviously a white swan, but will be ridiculed and sarcastic by a group of ducks and squeezed out as an outlier. In fact, it's not your fault, it's just that your efforts have made these inactive people feel a sense of crisis and have a strong sense of jealousy in their hearts. They want to break your confidence with a "hate you" attitude, and they want to turn you into a mediocre person like them.

I remember when I went to college, I could only go to a third-rate school because I failed the college entrance examination, but I was a person who did not admit defeat and was unwilling to be ordinary, so I became more motivated and worked hard, and worked hard to study and improve myself. My roommates were playing games loudly while I was memorizing English words. By the time they slept until three o'clock in the morning, I was already in the library.

While they were busy in love, I was preparing for graduate school. What I did was a very conspicuous outlier in this chaotic environment where everyone ate and died, and my roommates talked about me behind my back and said that I was pretending.

Actually, I would also be sad because my roommate hated and excluded me, and I wanted to fit in with the group, but I really couldn't accept their way of life, and I couldn't indulge my life and become so decadent. I can't change the rotten environment, the only thing I can do is to protect myself and insist on doing what is right.

In the process of becoming excellent, it is normal for there to be strange voices, such as Ma Yunda, when he founded Alibaba, he was questioned by everyone and said that he was crazy, but as a result, Ma Yun succeeded and stood at a height that no one could imagine. And when he achieves success in life, those who once hated him will change their faces and become people who please, this is the reality of society. So don't worry about that, focus on your goals, focus on repetition, and get out of that negative environment that you feel depressed and hateful, until you get into a positive circle where you are all trying to improve.

Nowadays, many people who are very hard-working and serious will always be hated by others, because many people are jealous that others are better than themselves.

In fact, the main reason why people who work hard are hated by others is that some people are not motivated if they don't work hard, and they will feel particularly angry when they look at others, which is a kind of jealousy.

Because many people nowadays are not working hard enough, when they see someone who works harder than themselves, they will definitely hate it, and they will be very resistant to this kind of person and don't want to be with this kind of person.

Because the current society is like this, people who treat serious and hard-working people don't know how to cherish them, and they like to cheat and play tricks.

Those who hate hard workers are unwilling to work hard, and they don't want to see others compare themselves, they can't afford to lose, because if you work hard, they will look very bad.