The person you love the most hurts you, what do you do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    How much you hate someone shows how much you love him.

    When you have that love, cherish her well, and stupidly care for her with all your heart and protect her.

    When fate is over, if you try your best to keep it, you still can't turn back.

    Please keep your hatred, after all, we have loved each other so deeply, and if we don't love each other deeply, there will be no bitter hatred, but just imagine, if he hadn't left, what would I hope for him? You will definitely not hesitate: give him the best and let him be the happiest!

    Then why did his love disappear and yours turned into hate without hesitation?

    There are many reasons for him to leave, maybe he has changed, maybe you have annoyed him, or maybe. In short, your fate is over.

    Fate is over, even if his love is gone, but your love is still there, and the purpose of your love is to hope that he will live well, right? If this hope changes because of his change, doesn't it mean that your love will not stand the test?

    If you can please hold on to that love until he comes back, he will find that you love him the most, if there is really no result, please keep that love, love someone, you don't have to have, fate is forced to come, hate if it can solve the problem, then hold on, in fact, hate will only strengthen his determination to leave, why not be generous, smile and watch him leave, even if he doesn't come back, because your love is always there...

    Hatred is the emotional venting of one's own efforts without being rewarded, and this venting has no other advantages than deepening the conflict and leaving a shadow on the hearts of both parties.

    When one is determined to hate ...

    Isn't it more meaningful to find the reason for your hatred, and to think about whether the other person is worth hating?

    You give, you don't get anything in return, hurt, betray, leave ... There must be a reason in it, if you find out the reason and solve the problem, won't there be no hatred in the future?

    If the injury, betrayal, and departure are caused by the person's natural vileness and cannot be undone, then does it make sense to spend one's heart and soul to hate the despicable person?

    Love is the most beautiful thing, and when there is a crack in love, it is the smartest thing to think about and find out why, and it is the wisest thing to do without thinking about it, and not considering whether it is worth it or not.

    There is not much time in life, let's do unwise things, that's all, I hope it can help you, I wish you happiness and happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Please save the smile to the person who hurts you the most.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There is an old Chinese saying: love is deep, responsibility is keen. When the people who love you the most have your so-called hurt, I'm afraid you have to find the reason from yourself!! One cannot be pampered and arrogant!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on what kind of hurt it is, and how deeply you love him (her), if you love deeply, you can't talk about hurt, you can dedicate yourself to it, and there will be unbearable hurt. If you just feel that loving him or her is irrelevant, the joke is harmful.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on the specific situation, because both parties have their own thoughts and understandings, and if you think it hurts you, it may be that the other party is just joking or thinks it is a normal conversation, which is determined by the individual's temperament and character.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Depending on the situation, it can be forgiven if it was unintentional.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Depending on the circumstances, it is unforgivable if it is intentional.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Falling in love and hurting each other, and even killing each other, is more exciting in life than the plot in the TV series.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are many types of injuries, depending on whether he intentionally hurt or said angry words in a moment of anger.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When a person is angry, he can say anything.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My parents have belittled me for 20 years, and they really belittled and suppressed me when they had the opportunity, saying that if they don't make me proud, they can't be proud at all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Oh, in real life, it is inevitable, when there is anger.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's too general to be impossible. Please be specific.

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