What is not painful. I don t want to think about those things

First of all, your problem is that she can't like you anymore, and you don't want to forget her, so I would like to give you advice based on this premise. 1.Maintain an optimistic mindset.

2.Cultivate a hobby. I often forget to eat or play soccer and forget to go home, and when you concentrate on something, time flies quickly.

Of course, I'm not saying that you can't concentrate on your work, it's just that people often have a resistance to work. 3.Often jokes with other women.

Don't make that kind of low-level joke, because it's very ungraceful, be honest and easy-going with them, and the purpose of this is to prevent you from not touching women and making your mind full of women. Blurring her boundaries with other women. The last thing I want to say is that as a man, deep affection is necessary, but you must know that you should not only have feelings for her, maybe there are many more important things and more important people who are more worthy of you to give your feelings.

And women often don't know how to cherish and treat themselves. God helps those who help themselves. It's good to think of it that way.

In the journey of life, everyone will experience a lot of pain and setbacks, and no one can always be smooth; And some people choose to give up, choose to give up on themselves, learn to cry, and learn to endure; I always feel that I have failed, and I will be looked down upon by others, but in fact, the person who looks down on me the most is myself, not others, and others will never pay attention to whether we are right or wrong, but we are too careful; There is no problem in life that cannot be solved quickly, as long as you work hard, you will not regret it, don't blindly compare with others, in fact, the biggest opponent in life is yourself; When you are unhappy and not strong, you must learn to share, you must learn to speak out, you can talk to good friends, and share the pain and joy in your heart; You can also think about it from another angle, in fact, the ups and downs are life, firewood, rice, oil and salt are life, since there is a storm in life, there will be wind and sunshine; We live for the happiness of our parents at home, for the harmony of our family, and for the realization of our own life values; No one can change us, only us can change ourselves; No longer annoys yourself easily, the real strong person is the one who runs with tears in his eyes, and the one who turns pressure into motivation. No regrets, I wish you happiness.

There will be a period of slump after a breakup, and this pain must be accepted and then adapted to change the stubbornness in the heart.

Sometimes it's appropriate to let go, and it's a little confusing to learn.

Don't love, don't hate... More tolerance and tolerance, more understanding, and more trust in each other.

Forget the pain as soon as possible and go in search of joy and happiness.

Live without pain.

Thinking about having fun.

Be happy with others.

Keep yourself busy, don't have time to think, and it won't hurt.

If you think about everything, five words floating in the sky don't matter.

Once you have a hundred, there is no pain.

Divert your attention, use time to forget, try not to think about your pain, and be optimistic.

Forget all the pain! Live every day happily.

Life is in the world, there are countless troubles, there is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past.

Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back. Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed.

After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear. As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

How can we not be miserable, happiness is the source.

So how can you be happy and not be miserable?

First: Cut off all relationships with past pains and remove all those bad factors from your mind.

Second: Find out what you most want in your life and immediately set out to get it and pursue your goals.

Third: Determine the plan you need. The plan should be realistic, not conservative or ambitious.

Fourth: Make yourself understand that it is not the painful setbacks that defeat you, but the mentality you have in the face of setbacks, and train yourself to find positive and optimistic sides in every unsatisfactory and painful situation.

In short, look at the aspects of the problem to be optimistic, everything has two sides, and undesirable factors should be expected and avoided as much as possible. Contentment and happiness, amplifying happiness and reducing pain.

May you be happy and happy every day, and cut off your pain.

One person's sky is blue, blue and a little melancholy; A person's life is easy, and it's a little boring to be lighthearted; When you are alone, you are very free, and when you are free, you are a little lonely; I'm very happy when I miss you, and I'm a little sad when I'm happy.

What do you hurt? Bitter what? Who are you suffering for? Does he or she also suffer for you? If he or she doesn't, then why should you suffer! If there is. I think it's time for you to talk.

You can't do that, this world can't be you still alone, and it takes a lot of communication, so first.

Look at what is causing you pain that way, and find the cause and the right medicine. There is also to relax your mind and face everything optimistically.

If it's emotional, time will heal it slowly;

If it's physical, find a calm place and recover slowly;

Look down on everything, don't be so extravagant, know how to enjoy life, love life, and find someone who loves you.

So what is your pain, you care about it, recognize everything, it's nothing.

Calm down and read Buddhism, I believe you can learn a lot.

It's good to figure it out, and when your heart is clear, it's not painful.

If the heart is like straight water, there will be no pain!!

When you die, you will never feel pain ...... again