What is the best way to live a free life?

If you want to live a normal life, you can't live freely. There is stress everywhere in life.

You have a lot of troubles, you have a lot of pains, you have a lot of misfortunes, you have a lot of resentment. But you must have a lot of freedom, a lot of grace, a lot of tolerance, a lot of forbearance, otherwise it will be difficult for you to find a moment of peace in this noisy world. Don't doubt the sincerity of spring because of the fall of a leaf.

Don't doubt your whole life because of a baby's cry. The eagle's wings are prepared for the blue sky, but don't forget that wind, thunder, rain and snow are also commonplace. Always remember what others are not, and it will be difficult for you to be easy in your life.

Always keep in mind the good of others, and your life will overflow with joy. Always calculate the gains and losses, and you will never be able to calculate the balance. Always save up laughter and you will become rich.

You have complained about the humidity of spring, the heat of summer, the dryness of autumn, and the cold of winter. Life is like a stream, and your joy will be sucked away by the vast earth one morning before it even has time to pour into the sea. What else are you complaining about?

In the dead of night, facing the starry night sky, you will feel a primitive and distant silence, an empty and profound mystery. Life is insignificant to the universe, life is purely accidental to us, and life is never repeated to everyone. Therefore, in this vast night sky, although there is so much splendor rushing towards you, you can feel the beating of your heart, and be able to light this small light, that is your creation, it is your luck.

Therefore, cherishing it is the simplest truth of life. And using the free and easy boat to carry the star of life is the most comfortable and beautiful journey of life. It is not easy to learn to be free and easy; But when you learn to be free, you learn to be mature.

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What is true freedom? Free and easy, is a rare state of mind, with free and easy, only then can there be the feeling of "facing the sea, spring flowers". Freedom and freedom is a kind of calm after pain, and a trace of sweetness tasted in bitterness.

Free and easy, like a river flowing around, still running to the sea, even in the face of a desperate situation, but also to fly into a waterfall, like a mountain of pines and cypresses rooted in the boulder, still piercing the blue sky, the stronger the wind, the more to play the strongest note of life. Not rejecting honor and disgrace, not afraid of life and death, not ashamed of ploughing, not sad about hunger and cold, not seeking power, not caring about success or failure for the indifferent world; Don't let yourself think about dull themes because of the gap between reality and ideals; Not for the ups and downs of life, the years of stumbling and sluggish, not indifferent and wise, not quiet and far-reaching.

Free and easy performance: Many people in the real society are too obsessed and calculating about some things in life, and as a result, their hearts are overwhelmed, and the hard chase may still be an imperfect ending, or even a void. In this regard, Wang Yangming's psychology tells us that only by being free from attachment and staying in the world can we see through and live a chic life.

Everything in the world is like this, too much, so, sometimes, attachment is a good thing, but if attachment becomes stubborn and pedantic, then it becomes stupidity. In life, there are always many things that can not be obtained by attachment and calculation, whether it is your own beliefs, or your favorite fame and fortune, too persistent and calculating, will inevitably lead to a void. A smooth life, always lacks the charm of life, and life and death, crying, laughing and laughing, are just a process, no attachment, no stagnation, no care, not only a kind of mind, but also a kind of consciousness, is a kind of self-state of mind and sublimation, is a free and easy performance.

Living freely and freely must have extensive knowledge, and rich experience, to see the world more through the wind and rain more to hone their own mind, broad knowledge can make themselves see through the essence of things, see longer than ordinary people, think deeper than ordinary people, more careful and more reasonable way of thinking, but also more able to grasp the trend and trend of things, so when we learn mathematics, physics and chemistry and other current scientific and technological knowledge, we should be more involved in social science, learn more philosophical knowledge, learn to think about problems, Use the correct way of thinking to understand yourself and understand the world around you, better understand the world, practice human feelings, diverge from scientific thinking to understand the world, seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and guide your own practice and life to be able to live freely, because you are knowledgeable and knowledgeable.

People are accustomed to always working hard for a lot of life goals and ideals, and at the same time they lose a lot when they gain something. Freedom is more of a process of choice, depending on what you value more. Is it for the chic and comfortable life now, or for the beauty of tomorrow, I have given up a lot of fun and fun in life that could have been.

Generally, people who have goals, abilities, energy, financial resources, and taste will live more freely. They have passed the stage of bending their waists for five buckets of rice, and they can live a kind of personality protagonist similar to the well-choreographed film and television drama. Free and easy, to put it bluntly, we have to carry out all-round forging from 4 aspects: physiology and psychology, strength, and realm, and then it is an envious life.

Free and easy, just a state! In life, there are several ways to live, free and easy, just a kind of psychological realm that can be picked up and put down, some people, do not look very free and easy, sad and worried, however, his heart may not be free and easy, maybe he is just used to the melancholy look, and there is another kind of person, the appearance looks free and easy, the heart is indeed scarred, so, free and easy life is a kind of inner realm, is the understanding and handling of people and things!

My mother and my sister's mother used to be colleagues in the same office, and the stories of the older generation were less about love and hate, and more about providence. But as a junior, the feeling of living in this big family is that although the change of identity will make people uncomfortable, and gathering and scattering will make people happy and sad, the affection at that time is real, and the heart of giving is also real. I wouldn't have imagined that one day I would land in that place where I had dreamed of going since I was a child, with my boyfriend by my side, and then my stepfather's ex-wife would drive us to the airport to pick us up and have a magical European New Year.

I am feeling the freedom of life, that is, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, there is nothing to entangle, love is love, and it is over, the change of identity will not change anything, there is goodwill, there is freedom. I hope I can be so free and easy in the future.

A female classmate in junior high school, in the first year of junior high school, we learned ancient style poetry together, watched the Red Mansion together, watched martial arts**, and transferred to the second year of junior high school. Life paths are different, after the high school entrance examination, she took the normal exam, I took the high school exam, I was in the first half of the semester of high school, she found me, said that I felt that the normal life was degenerate and there was no novelty, I wanted to drop out, and I wanted to find poetry and distance. At that time, the teacher also included distribution, iron rice bowls.

She dropped out of school and went to Kunming, and many people didn't understand her and looked at her with the attitude of watching jokes. Four years later, I went to Kunming to have a drink with her, and by then she was already a capable leader in their company. At that time I had subdued almost all of my bastards, and I did not want to be in the same boat, but I could not suppress my fury.

Every day is entangled between ideals and reality, and now I look at the previous **, in each one**, there is a lot of anger under the quiet. She said: "Whatever you want to do, I will do my best to support you.

I didn't ask for anything. Five years later, she returned to her hometown city, bought a house, gave birth to two children, and one day chatted, she said: Life will always be difficult, but I don't care, I'm used to it, and I can't be hypocritical.

My high school classmate, she is the most carefree person I have ever met, and she feels like she doesn't care about everything but is very warm. Everything is plain and serious, and it is also very indifferent. It's the best and most rational person I've ever met.

I can talk to others about a bunch of reasoning, but in the face of her, I am frustrated, I am at a loss, she will not be influenced by friendship to deviate anything, it is difficult to control people. But that's what I want to be.

I have always been a person who is not free and easy, I suffer from gains and losses when I have them, and I can't let go of them when I lose them. I hope that one day I won't continue like this, because I hate myself like this, and maybe the kind of state I yearn for is free and easy. You can smile and watch everything you like leave you.

Some people feel that life is very tiring, some people are very relaxed, each of us is running around for life, life brings us different feelings, there are happiness, sadness, helplessness, sadness, but everyone has to live, because you always have some worries, some people and things you can't let go.

Life is like this, you have to slowly taste the taste, that's why some people will say that people who are better than us are working harder than us, and we are still working hard, in fact, sometimes it is more than a state of blindness to life, as the saying goes: laughing for a day, crying for a day. Why don't we show our smiles to others, and when you are sunny, others will be sunny.

Instead of being tired to change life, it is better to live freely, establish clear goals, face life optimistically, and do everything you like with a sunny attitude, you will become so different, you will find that you are not far from excellence!

The two most important qualities in life are: self-confidence and ease.

Self-confidence is a kind of personal charm. Only those who believe in themselves can create miracles. There are many people who can't do things because they don't even believe in themselves.

Of course, self-confidence and competence go hand in hand. A person who is incapable and pretends to be confident is blind confidence. You can only talk about self-confidence when you have the ability through hard work.

Freedom and ease is a kind of life attitude. Freedom has nothing to do with ability, it has to do with wisdom. In life, what you think is the most important thing often becomes your shackles.

So, you have to look at everything with a carefree attitude. If you are full of confidence and move forward freely, you can have a life without regrets.

Many times, we value gains and losses, fame and fortune too much, and forget to live well. On the road of life, loneliness is the rain and dew of emotion, and you can only discover the poetry of life if you know how to enjoy loneliness. A casual heart will make you more free, and a compassionate heart will make you more calm.

You have been in the quagmire of pain, and you can't extricate yourself because you have too many desires and limited abilities. If you know how to give up and let go, you will usher in a new life. If the person you are most reluctant to do not love you, you have to choose to let go.

Because love is never one-sided, true love is not dead or alive, but understanding and warmth in ordinary life.

Some nostalgia always strikes at night, piercing your heart and making you powerless to struggle. If you haven't cried in the middle of the night, it's not enough to talk about life. The essence of life is the coexistence of pain and happiness, in short, happiness!

But if you're addicted to the past and don't know how to live in the present, that's a pathology.

The past is false, the present is real, you must precipitate the wisdom of life in the past experience, dare to try new life and new things, in order to have a new future. To be born between heaven and earth, we must know how to be self-reliant.

In the journey of life, with pure conscience and dreams, I interpret my own story with my heart.

When a person chooses a person, he must prove to others that I am living a good life, and free and easy is just an attitude to life.

Free and easy will make people forget a lot of troubles, no matter how big the difficulties are, they are not timid and nervous, the most important thing in life is happiness, who doesn't want to be like Su Shi even if the work is not smooth.

A person's life is not particularly long, and there are many times when you can't let yourself live a particularly free and easy life, always think about it a lot, and you won't have a good life every day, and you will feel very tired.

Because only by living freely and freely can we follow our own flow, uphold the golden mean, and get true inner satisfaction.

Don't be cowardly, don't be proud of happy events, have strong self-control, not too cowardly, not too wild, don't meet people to meet people, and don't meet demons to become demons, handle things calmly, and be a free and easy person.

Each of us did not come into this world by our own choice, and we have no right to choose our birth, and certainly not our death. God left this right to Himself. All we can do is choose how we live.

Some people say that life is like a journey, you don't care about the place of departure or the destination, you care about the scenery along the way. I think that's a wonderful thing to say.

But many, many of us seem to have forgotten this, focusing only on goals and results, and not knowing how to enjoy life itself. In order to achieve the so-called goals of life, everything will be done. It took a lifetime of energy, and on the day of death, some people finally achieved their goals, but many more ended in failure.

If you ask them are happy? I can guarantee that no one who says they are happy will feel very tired and tired, and only when they are old will they realize that they have lived in vain all their lives. Why?

Because they are so focused on results that they forget that life is actually the most important thing in life. The process of life is actually the most important thing. As long as you live happily every day, it is more important than anything else.