My girlfriend and I plan for the future, do you think it s practical?

Updated on society 2024-05-26
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You're still practical.,Life is not ** and it's not a playhouse.。。 No one can predict the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you don't get into college, you'll be done.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The world is very big, and it is very difficult to meet someone who you can entrust with your life, and if you ask me how to plan the future of me and my girlfriend, then I can only tell you that I will only plan for five years first. Because times are always changing, even if I really love my girlfriend, but with the loss of time, the relationship is really uncertain, so I can only plan for a period of five years.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, you have to save money, and at this time, you must buy a house first. Then you have to be very good at work, so that you can make a lot of money, and then you must go out to travel in your free time, and you must see more scenery. This will not only enhance the relationship between the two of us, but also allow for a lot of insight.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When I was planning, I discussed it with my girlfriend first, and I would also do what I should do at the moment step by step, and I would plan the scene of two people getting married, and plan the way of life and relationship between two people in the future, etc.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My girlfriend and I have to find a good job, have a house of our own, and we have a lot of pets.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I haven't done any detailed planning, I just want to work steadily in the future, and be with each other every day, going to work, getting off work, occasionally going out to travel, shopping, this is already the best future I can enjoy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To plan a future for your girlfriend, first of all, you have to have your own plan, just in your future plan, it is enough to have her all the way!

    How do you plan for the future of two people?

    Geography: This is probably where most people struggle with it. Whether you live in the countryside, in the city, or in the big city?

    Or live in a city closer to someone's home. There is no standard answer to this matter, it varies from person to person, as long as both parties discuss it well and do not force the other party to accept it, it can be consummated.

    Occupation: People of marriageable age want each other to make a lot of money, which may involve the choice of career. Or, I hope that one of the parties will stop working after marriage and concentrate on taking care of children and so on.

    The woman should be especially cautious about this matter, and she needs to fully discuss and communicate with the man, and must not reluctantly accept the situation by either party, otherwise, the future life will not be happy.

    Lifestyle: Two people with different lifestyles need to go through years of running-in to form a mutually acceptable code of conduct. Don't force it at this point.

    For example, if a girl wants a boy not to smoke, then accompany him to quit smoking in daily life, and believe that it is a long process, and do not think that it can be achieved overnight.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, and your girlfriend's future plans? First of all, you must be very clear about the current situation of you and her, and know what kind of state you are in at present, which is the premise and basis for planning. Including, your work situation, future development direction, family situation, etc.

    Second, once you have a very clear understanding of these, you need to have a short-term plan first, and then a long-term plan. One is the arrangement of your life and work for both parties in the current short period of time; One is the long-term goal, which should be adjusted in a timely and appropriate manner according to the short-term plan to achieve. 1. Analyze the current work situation of the two of you at work, whether it is a type of long-term development, if not, what is the direction of development in the future, and whether it meets the realistic conditions.

    2. Economically, whether it is a ticket, a house or a car, it is best for two people to have a goal. Maybe it's not time for you to talk about marriage yet, but it's not a bad thing to have a plan in advance. You want to have a plan for the future of yourself and your girlfriend, which shows that you recognize the relationship as a very responsible performance.

    My brother and cousin and her boyfriend are both in Shanghai, but the place where they settled is Wuxi, and I don't know anything about their plans for the future. In this way, once married, the rhythm of life and work will inevitably be disrupted. These are the two main contents of the plan, in terms of quantity and time, the short-term can focus on quality, and the long-term can be weighted.

    You can set a node for the plan, and then the two people don't know how to work on it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Girlfriends don't have any plans for the future, and there is a future with such girls because they have good personalities.

    Girlfriends shouldn't have their own plans for the future, their own future is planned by themselves, and their own future should be controlled by themselves. It is a good thing that a girlfriend does not have her own plan, which shows that her girlfriend is a person with ideals, pursuits, and clear goals. As a boyfriend, you should not only give support to your girlfriend, but also give advice and help.

    On the road of love, common development, chasing dreams, and working hand in hand not only help the cause, but also contribute to the sublimation of love. Not planning without is a normal and correct thing to do. No one wants their life to be laid out clearly, and some people are destined to be miserable from birth.

    Planning is not what a girlfriend should do, and people can't live aimlessly. Maybe someone really doesn't need a life plan.

    But one day you will feel that your life is not fun. You are not in your girlfriend's future plans, which proves that you have not yet met the standards that your girlfriend wants. It may be that you are not mature enough, not stable enough, not responsible enough, or in your career, or it may be that you are not confident enough in yourself.

    Then you have to improve, improve yourself, do some practical actions, and prove to your girlfriend that her future can have you. You need to find a girlfriend to communicate with you, and then you need to focus on communicating with your girlfriend about the goals and development of your future plans. As a boy, you should take the initiative to make a future plan and direction for yourself and your girlfriend, and drive your girlfriend to work towards a better future together.

    The point is that the boy plays an active role in the relationship and needs to drive the girlfriend to do a good job of planning and direction for the future. If you really don't, don't worry. After years of precipitation and experience, you will find a lifestyle that suits you.

    Before that, there is no clear goal and there is no need to blindly pursue dreams and life goals, because a life is incomplete without experience and polishing, and setting a planned goal at this time is not necessarily a good thing. The above is the answer to the question of girlfriend without any plan for the future, does there be a future with such a girl, and why.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no future with such a girl, which means that your girlfriend does not love you, and your girlfriend does not want to live with you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is no future, because this kind of person only thinks about himself, is particularly selfish, and does not understand the hard work of making money.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, because this kind of person spends money like running water, and will not feel sorry for others, nor will he cook for you or do housework for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. and your future.

    1.Raise a cat or dog you like.

    2.Your birthday is different every year (once to celebrate your birthday with a drone) (once Haidilao) (to dress up the atmosphere of the lamp).

    2.Buy skincare products you like with cosmetics.

    3.Take you to travel, B&B stay.

    4.Accompany you on a shopping tour and give your opinion and praise what you like.

    5.The place of work is not far away, and you can be picked up and dropped off every day, preferably a professional.

    6.I will arrange the nine-valent vaccine for you, I will make an appointment and I will pay.

    7.Prepare for the proposal ceremony.

    8.Meet the parents and pick a wedding planner.

    9.Hand in hand with you in this life.

    Write to your girlfriend and her personal future plans.

    Hello dear has received your question. I'm sorting out the information for you, so please wait a moment.

    and your future 1Raise a cat or dog you like 2Your birthday is different every year (once to celebrate your birthday with a drone) (once Haidilao) (to dress up the atmosphere of the lamp) 2

    Buy skincare products you like Cosmetics 3Take you to travel, B&B stay 4Accompany you on a shopping trip, give your opinion on what you like, and give compliments5

    The place of work is not far away, and you can be picked up and dropped off every day, preferably a professional 6Arrange a nine-valent vaccine for you, I make an appointment and I pay 7Prepare for the marriage proposal ceremony sense 8

    Meet the parents and pick the wedding planner 9Hand in hand with you in this life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    End of university (internship period & working period).

    Try to be in the same city as possible with your baby or not too far away, so that you can see you at a distance on your day off.

    Will work hard, work hard to make money, buy as many months as possible, and give the baby some pocket money.

    Even if you can't ignore the baby when you're busy, you will send a message to the baby in your spare time. Try to make the two of us get closer and closer after work, and the relationship is getting better and better. If everything goes well, we get married sooner, and if it doesn't, we get married a little later.

    At that time, we can try to live together for a long time, slowly adapt to each other's life patterns, and enter the final run-in period.

    When the time comes, slowly start to introduce you to your family, let them know about you, and when the job is properly stable, start to contact your family and start preparing for the marriage ceremony. When we were both almost stable and had a certain financial foundation, we began to slowly plan for marriage.

    Married life. will not change the original intention, as always, be good to your wife, and will love you more. I will help each other in life, I will do housework, and I will play around with my wife when I have time.

    There will be no problems with parents, my parents are very considerate and will not live with us, of course I will definitely take them to play occasionally, and if your parents are willing to come to our house to play, it will definitely be treated equally.

    When we are all ready to have a child, we start to get pregnant, and we have to be happy with our wives. 。With a baby, I will be a competent dad and will love you and the baby well. Ordinary days.

    When the above things can be completed, and almost into the ordinary life, it is inevitable that there will be some quarrels and quarrels, but I will still let my wife, not let you be wronged, I want to go home I will accompany you, will not lose my temper with you, discuss and solve big and small things together.

    When I have time, I still play around with my wife to enhance my relationship. The above is the preliminary plan, this is just a small outline, but I love your determination here, baby, just leave it to time, I will give you a more perfect and better plan and future. - Tiantian, who loves you forever

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    On the question of how to plan the future of yourself and your girlfriend, this is the couple's own planning, and the planning for the future is different from person to person, but you can think about it from the following aspects, there may be different ideas, everyone's wishes and dreams are different, and the life they want is also different, and it is completely up to the couple to work hard to create the future they want.

    Proportion, career problems, you can work hard to find a career that suits you, work hard, and do not let your future wife and adults not suffer.

    First of all, you are more important to set a good position for yourself, it depends on how you develop your own aspirations and future in the future, for the happy future of you and your girlfriend, after all, two people together, the most important thing is not the present, but the future, only two people who think of the future, can be together for a long time, you need to spend a lifetime with each other, whether it is pain and sadness, you have to bear it together, and it is also the future that you and your girlfriend are psychologically prepared.

    Life without goals and the future of life is confused, will lose motivation, will lose fun, so it is very necessary to plan for the future, set clear goals, and then there is a career, you must have a stable job and a fixed income**.

    There is also the planning of you and your girlfriend is the co-construction aspect, such as the purchase of a house and the co-construction of the family, which is also a part of the planning, in fact, there are many in the future, you have to rely on your own planning, but don't plan too much, to leave a little room for change, I wish you happiness, forever happy!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The future plan for your girlfriend can come from many aspects, such as what industry you plan to engage in in your career, whether you want to start your own business, go to a company, or develop in other places. There is also the fact that in life, two people work together to buy a house, or rely on the family. Subsidize the purchase of a house.

    What is life like after marriage, or what kind of life does your girlfriend want. These should be taken into account in the planning. More nuanced.

    Whether there should be more rituals in life, and whether there will be regular travel, etc., should also be considered.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your idea is wrong! Trying to manipulate others before you are married will turn your girlfriend off. You should say - plan for the future for you! In this way, the other party will be able to accept it and not feel taken advantage of.

    Erchuan in our village is doing better. Not long after he got married, he said to the bride: "You are responsible for being beautiful like a flower, and I am responsible for making money to support the family!"

    Said that the bride's heart is warm. A few days later, the bride was diagnosed with a uterine tumor and could not conceive. Erchuan boils medicine and cooks for the bride every day before work, and boils medicine and cooks for her after work at night.

    After more than a year of conditioning, the disease is cured! Gave birth to a big fat boy! This daughter-in-law was very grateful to Erchuan and said, "The child is full moon, go do something!"

    I just don't know what to do? ”

    You can do anything, as long as you're not idle! "Erchuan is quite good at vernacular.

    The child is one year old! Erchuan's daughter-in-law went out to sell cool skins. Liangpizi is not doing well, there is no business!

    The brother-in-law suggested selling children's toys. After hearing this, the two of them immediately went to the small commodity wholesale market to buy a batch of toys. Just in time for the spring material exchange conference.

    Erchuan's daughter-in-law rode a tricycle to sell. It can sell for more than a thousand dollars every day! Earn more than Erchuan!

    You should plan your future first, and then let your girlfriend plan her own future.

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