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As long as you are healthy, health is the most important thing, don't care too much about what others say, as long as you are happy, you have to have confidence in yourself, there are a few people chasing you, you already have enough capital to be proud.
All people will face all kinds of pressures when they go to society, and the temporary hardship may be replaced by a better future, adjust your mentality, and look at everything around you optimistically, maybe everything is beautiful, it just depends on how you look at them.
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You don't see that the guy in our class is fat.
It's just 62kg, what are you?
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As part of a family, you don't have to be afraid, just like on TV.
Even if you get divorced, don't treat me like a balloon, and if you want to put it, you can put it**.
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You can try something that gives you a sense of accomplishment and record it.
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Acceptance is very important, you are often annoyed by small things, that is you can't let go, here is my advice:
To learn to accept, you can find a relevant psychology teacher to answer this question, or find the corresponding books to study, it is very important to learn and feel every day, remember to write it down.
Learn to be confident, self-confidence gives you the motivation to go, face your inner fears, overcome the difficulties in life, remember to learn to motivate yourself, if you can't find the feeling, you can watch more books or TV, because there must be people like you.
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Two things.
Afraid of your grandfather falling, there are no more than two factors, one is that he is the backbone of the family, the main economic **, you are afraid that his fall will make your life worse, but this is nothing more than a reality that teaches you to strive for self-improvement, since it is your grandfather, the age should not be young, this day will come sooner or later, he will definitely accept the truth faster than you, after all, decades of time are not in vain; The second is feelings, grandpa has a terminal illness, he can't accept the facts, and the sadness of grandma and other family members, you must be sad, in fact, I can understand you, but I can't help you bear it, I can only say, you have grown up, not a child, at this time you have to be strong, not crying or catharsis everywhere, but calmly solve and deal with it after thinking quietly, although it is difficult, but this is nothing more than a grind, survived, and everything is done, in fact, you can also, go to your man, I can only say one thing about this: be strong in the face of anything!
Besides, your boyfriend, in fact, you should tell him everything that happened, instead of you bearing it independently, in fact, you are not a bearer, but you don't want to show your vulnerable side in front of him, which is a kind of harm to both people, how did the feelings come about, the two sides collide and complement each other, so tell him truthfully, he will help you bear it, even if you are tired, he will be happy, you don't tell him, he may not be tired, but it will be painful, in terms of family conditions, nothing, Before getting married, you may care more about the woman's family, but after you get married, you won't care about anything, especially the man who lives with you, so it is also a sentence to treat feelings: facing and confiding seriously and truthfully is the best choice to help your relationship sublimate.
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Listen to the light **, relax, take good care of grandpa, let him be happy in the last few days, and talk to your boyfriend, if he continues to support you, it means that he loves you very much, if he can't, then sooner or later you will break up because of all kinds of problems, love can not be doubted, if you don't tell him these things, he may think that you don't trust him, and it is easy to have estrangement. Face it bravely! Come on!!
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It's always annoying to encounter something sudden. Grandpa is old after all, he can't accompany you for a lifetime, of course, we all hope that grandparents can be healthy, why don't I do it, my grandfather since I have a memory, he sat on a chair, walking on crutches, I grew up to know that my grandfather was in an accident and injured his brain, because the medical skills at that time were not good enough, from childhood to adulthood, grandpa was responsive to my needs, I wanted to buy things he would buy for me, on the nineteenth day of the first month of this year he left, thrown into the arms of God, I don't know what I feel in my heart...
In fact, I can understand your feelings very well, although I have always said that I don't empathize with others, but I still want to tell you not to be too sad, everything will pass, now what you have to do is to be as good as possible to grandpa, and your boyfriend, since he treats you so well, it is rare to have a few people who can really be good to you, I think why don't you let him share it with you, since he likes you very much, you too, then I think you should cherish this feeling. As long as the other party's family is not particularly wealthy,There shouldn't be any opinions.,Although the society is very realistic.,But humanity is still there.。。 If you want to open up, don't be too upset. Wounded.
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As long as you love each other deeply, it won't be a problem, and now the most important thing is that you have to calm down, take good care of your grandpa, take care of your grandma, do your best, don't be too sad, so that your grandpa will be sad too.
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After listening to what you have been through, I really admire your strength and your kindness. No matter what, life has to go on, there is a solution to anything, and I don't fully understand your family situation from your narrative, but I want to say that you and your boyfriend are now capable and responsible for such a family. Work hard to earn money, the most important thing now is grandpa's illness, let's talk to your boyfriend!
He will be willing to bear it with you, and he will be very uncomfortable to see you like this for a day.
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Find a super sad movie.
Crying loudly. Cry.
Eat a lot.
Then it will be a lot more comfortable.
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That's when I'm going to go to someone who can make me feel better, and when I see him, I'm going to feel better.
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No one's life is smooth sailing.
As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!
Be optimistic about anything.
Keep a normal heart.
Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.
Be brave enough to look up.
The sun is always after the storm!
I'll give you advice, can you see it?
1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".
2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......
3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.
4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.
5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.
6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.
7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.
8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.
9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.
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It's mostly the pressure that gets into trouble, find a few more people to talk to, and go for a drink.
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In the case of powerlessness, there is only silent prayer.
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Is there nothing that can be done? Either you contribute or you pay for it, there is always someone willing to do it.
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Be a man only to have a clear conscience, you have a good heart but you have done your best, no matter what the result is, don't condemn yourself. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, do something else and forget about the unpleasantness! Have fun!
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At first glance, you are a good-hearted person, with a very kind heart, but people will encounter a lot of things in the world that we can't do, and our personal ability must be limited, so pray for a little life.
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Life and death are fateful, wealth is in the sky! Since you can't do anything, it's better to be out of sight! Although it is cruel, but there is no way to do it, you will know after living for a long time, you can't help yourself, you can't do it!
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What if I'm going to crash? Upset. Answer: What happens in a relationship? Able to calm down and solve problems. Can't be irritable. It's not a workaround. Have a good chat and settle the matter.
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One of my dogs suddenly found that he vomited and didn't eat food, what should I do if I was in a hurry? I started looking for an animal hospital for him, but my house was too far away from the hospital and I had to drive two hours to get there, and I didn't know what was wrong with the puppy pricking the pain, and the speed of the car was getting faster and faster.
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Kitten, why is it stuck in the flue? I will understand your feelings, because cats are also a life, and it is sad to see him dying. But don't panic too much, as long as you do your best. It's dead and alive, with Providence!
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In a person's life, everyone hopes to have a happy family and spend a happy day every day. However, life cannot be as good as people want. Because life is not always smooth sailing, we always have to go through all kinds of hardships and twists and turns.
The same is true for being a human being, how can you see a rainbow if you don't experience wind and rain.
There are all kinds of situations in the world, and anyone can meet them, what should I do? "Face it, accept it, deal with it, let it go. "It's the best way to go. Faceting, accepting, processing, and letting go is the whole process of completing a thing.
Sometimes you feel very hopeless because many aspects of your life are out of your control and, to a certain extent, you have lost your independence. At times like these, you should focus on the things you cherish—family, friends, etc.
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You are a very kind person, but some things have become facts and you have to learn to let go, you have done your best, don't blame yourself anymore.
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Calm down and think about what you can do to best solve or alleviate the problem. Find a fire or some animal expert to solve it, if it really can't be solved, just give them a break, and wait for death to be very uncomfortable.
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It's just that you haven't adjusted well lately. I believe that only if you love yourself will others love you There are people in the world who are worse than you and more unlucky than you But they don't feel sorry for themselves and don't be negative So why should you put pressure on yourself to be overwhelmed Everything is fate Many times there is a number of fates I think it's okay to be at peace God will not treat a person who works so hard The more frustrated the more courageous I hope you can cheer up and get past this hurdle.
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How so? This is really only discussed with the owner of the flue, and it feels a bit of a waste of social resources to make the fire fighting, after all, the fire is on call at any time and needs to be rescued, so you also need to understand and find relatives and friends to help you get it.
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You are very kind-hearted and helpless, so you have to find a way to save it. I really can't save it, there's no way to do it, you've done your best. There is no good way to go to the next pipe repair to spend some money.
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Think about what you can do to save the kitten, talk to a friend or colleague, there will always be a way, don't be so pessimistic and disappointed, right? Don't you want to sit there and wait for anything? It's a bit ridiculous, there is a lot of power in numbers, say it, there will definitely be a lot of people who will help you solve the problem.
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This was a helpless accident! You can see that you should be a girl who loves cats, but isn't it too rash to not want to work because of this? There are a lot of poor people and pitiful things that are not within our ability, if you can think of a way to help, think of a way, if you can't think of it, don't blame yourself too much.
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You must find a way to save this kitten, you can mobilize the masses and find all kinds of tools that can be used, as long as you can save the kitten, the damaged facilities can be repaired, that is a life! Be sure to save it he succeeds!
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This should be manageable, contact the animal shelter, or you can go and save the cat yourself, and do some things you want to do, regardless of what others think, think, and say, by heart.
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