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In fact, your boyfriend is very right, because the wedding does not have to be too extravagant, and waste is just a ceremony.
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Your boyfriend wants to spend 50,000 or 60,000 yuan to get all the marriage and procedures, but he owes his girlfriend a little too much, what can he do with 50,000 or 60,000 yuan? Does it refer to the process of the wedding ceremony, or is it all including the real estate banquet, so it may not be possible, is it not the condition of his family? It is understandable that he wants to save a little money, maybe the conditions do not allow it, you can also understand it, if you have money in the future, you will hold another vigorous one.
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Judging from your description, I don't think it's too much for your boyfriend. This situation is still chirping here, and it is still here to calculate. If you compare other people's things, can you make a comparison with this kind of thing?
It can only be said that you can do the best in the best situation. Instead of saying that this is also disgusted and that is disliked, if you don't do it or not, I think you should refuse. There's no need to dwell on yourself.
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It's not too much, just break up if it's not suitable.
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In this era of equality and freedom, in fact, marriage is a matter for both parties, and to put it bluntly, both parties have to bear part of the responsibility, and not all of them are borne by the man alone.
If both men and women really love each other, but they are really short of money, the wedding is simpler and more frugal, and everything is negotiable. After all, you have to look at the food and eat, and do what you can. Don't slap a swollen face and become fat.
However, it must all be based on sincerity and sincerity. Judging from your description, it seems that the other party does not respect you very much, and has a tough attitude instead of a good discussion. In that case, I support your decision.
Now it's not about the money, it's about the other party's disrespect for you and the lack of sincerity they deserve for this marriage.
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Love is a process of getting married, love is a process in which men and women like each other and give each other, and both parties are dedicated in this process.
None of them can get the guarantee of a hair law, because now urban men and women have a process of understanding, which is called trial marriage, that is, if they get along, they will get married, and if they can't get along, they will break up. Marriage means that both men and women have held a ceremony through relatives, friends and existing ** to receive a legal certificate (called a marriage certificate) to restrain the behavior of both parties, which has a certain guarantee for both parties.
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If you are in love, you don't have to be married, and if you are married, you must be in love, you don't have to be responsible for being in love, you have to be married.
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Marriage can be stubborn, and love is only a second!!
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Marriage is the grave of love!!
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If you don't get married, it's like dying without a place to be buried.
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When you get married, you have to have the responsibility of a family!
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When you are in love, you only see the advantages of each other.
After getting married, get along with each other's shortcomings.
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You don't need to get a license for love, you need to get married.
Falling in love can be carried out with multiple people at the same time, and you can only choose one to get married.
That's all I have to say.
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Love is the pursuit of dreams, and marriage is realistic.
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When you are in love, you can retreat, you can retreat, but marriage is different, because when you get married, you have a home, you have a responsibility, and you can't be careless. It is this responsibility that cannot be said to be separated. So the two are not the same!
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Love is the primary stage, sweet and happy, marriage is to raise the lover to the perspective of relatives, and then depend on each other.
Love is often based on the other party, there will not be too many concerns, just be happy;
Marriage should be considered from both parties' family, background, occupation, etc., some people are only suitable for falling in love, not suitable for marriage, so it is not easy to find a suitable room and IKEA;
Love is like a fragrant flower bone, with buds waiting to be released, fragrant and pleasant;
Marriage is like drinking juice, at first I was reluctant to drink it, and when I quenched my thirst, I abandoned it, but when I think about it, it is actually my cup of tea.
Love is the praise of one living being to another; Marriage is to amplify that compliment.
The gesture of love is simple, it is precipitated in the bottom of the heart, rooted in the soil, in order to endure in the grinding day after day. It's not in the clouds, it's not shown to anyone, otherwise, the wind will blow and disperse.
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But I think the specific issues need to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and if both parties are like-minded, then marriage is the beginning of their beautiful life; If the parties are separated, then marriage may be the beginning of divorce.
I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married.
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Love is the feeling that the heart will beat and the face will be red, and every cell in the body is beating.
Marriage is as plain as water, but it can have a sense of security when you want to rely on it, and at the same time have a sense of steadfastness, and can help you unconditionally when it is difficult.
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When you fall in love, as long as you have enough money to spend, after you get married, the money must be enough for a few people to spend (at least you have to have a child, raising a child costs a lot of money) When you fall in love, you don't think about housing and the future, and after you get married, you have to think about everything. Whether you are in love or married, the expenses in life have to be planned according to your income, if your average monthly salary is 2000, then 4000 a month, at least half of it must be saved for future entrepreneurship or investment or buying a house, etc. If the salary is high, you can spend more, and if the salary is less, you should spend less, and you must control it if you want to spend.
It is true that poor couples mourn for 100 days. If you really love him, you can save money from now on, make money or start a business, and if you don't have a certain amount of savings, please don't get married, or don't have children. You can't raise a child without tens of thousands of yuan.
Of course, having a child casually doesn't care if you're smart or healthy, and it doesn't cost much money. In a word: no matter whose money it is, the most important thing is that you will make money.
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Falling in love is like a test, testing whether it is right or wrong for two people to be suitable together, marriage is the result of the test, right and going on together, wrong is looking for and talking!
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I think they are right, there is no responsibility for love, and marriage is different! When you're in love, you can do whatever you want. When you get married, men and women have their own responsibilities, and you can't let your sex come!!
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Love is the starting point of a person's lifelong emotional life, marriage is a transit station for a person's lifelong emotional life, the start is not good, the back will not be good, there is no transfer station, there is no future road.
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The differences are: 1: Marriage:
It is a family member who has to take responsibility and truly love, protect, be considerate and caring. 2: In love:
It's a kind of game, without a sense of responsibility, today and you tomorrow and others, never thinking about tomorrow's things. It's just a momentary covetousness. So:
Marriage and love are all about responsibility.
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Love is when a man picks a woman, and a woman picks a man until it is suitable. Marry a man and a woman for the rest of their lives and never be separated, and take care of each other for the rest of their lives.
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The biggest difference is that you can talk about more than one person when you fall in love, and you can only marry one person when you get married.
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The difference is big, the most obvious point is that there is no legal guarantee for falling in love, but there is a marriage does!
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Love pursues romance, while marriage pursues stability.
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Falling in love is enjoyment. Marriage is to pay off debts.
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Marry permanently and be in love temporarily.
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Yes Marriage is a lifelong thing
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