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After reading your description, I think your boyfriend is a loser and immature, similar to my ex-boyfriend, and our result is to break up because I am a thrifty woman. Spending money lavishly doesn't know if cherishing has nothing to do with the family environment, or is it a matter of personal conduct. I don't know what level of your emotionality is, will mature boys accommodate you everywhere will cause your emotionality to aggravate, it is recommended that you change your shortcomings, and defeat the golden man 88, and then be optimistic about the rational man.

Good luck!

It is easy to go from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult to go from luxury to thrift.

Of course, if the love between men and women is so deep and affectionate, that they can talk to each other in depth and in detail.

Let's see if we can coordinate and coordinate the two people's outlook on life, values, and society.

If not, it will be harmonious and harmonious!

If he can not cherish the chocolate you bought for him, he will also not cherish you who bought him chocolate one day. If you want to find a mature boy, maybe he is not the best choice, judging from your tangled mood now, at least he is not the perfect prince in your heart. Don't dream that he'll eat the melted and solidified chocolate you gave him.

I believe that he is not that kind of person, and you will not compose yourself for his behavior for the rest of your life.

He looks more boyish and needs your care even more! Let's have a good talk!

This habit of his has been formed for a long time, and it may be difficult to change it, but if he makes money independently in the future, it should be improved a little, if not, and he has the ability to make money to meet those consumptions, he doesn't have to care too much. Some people have different values, they think that people are born to enjoy, and if they save a lifetime, they will not live as they wish. In fact, the two of you are frugal and luxurious, and from a certain point of view, it is also a kind of complementarity.

People will always change, and when he matures, I think he should have his own concept of consumption.

Let's observe and get along for a while and see if you can succeed in this regard.

Good luck!

I think so! First of all, it depends on whether you have the ability to "squander" like this in the future, that is, you will still have a good life in the future in such a situation.

What are you busy with first?

Wait until there is a good one, and then change the shellfish.

There's a long way to go.

If he squanders, what are you afraid of? As long as you don't rely on your money to squander, you also said that he has a good temper and can be changed to spend money lavishly, and you can slowly teach him to be thrifty.

After reading your description, I feel that there is a big deviation in your life background and values. I always feel that if you go on like this, it seems that it is difficult for you to enter into marriage. Because the values are seriously different, and you are unwilling to compromise with each other, you just love his good temper, and you can't stand his habit of "throwing money".

And you yourself say that you have a bad temper. Isn't it possible to learn to change your bad temper first, try to explain to him why you don't like waste, and try to change your temper too, so that you don't suddenly become unhappy and erupt?

Eh, I always feel that there is a big difference between the two of you, but I do think that if the person I like brings me anything from outside, I will cherish it, and it is really wrong for him to do that, but it has something to do with his pampering.

You say he's good-tempered? I don't think you give him that chocolate and he throws it away, and he says it's like poop.

As soon as these words came out, I knew that his temper was not good, and the girl was emotionally normal.

I'm also a girl, and I'm the same as you think, and I'm going to find a mature guy to be my boyfriend in the future.

Will take care of people, feel sorry for people.

Quite simply, leave him; He loves you, and he loves many women even more; A man is natural to spend, but if he spends too much and spends in front of you, it means that he doesn't care about your feelings at all; He wants you to be by his side, which just means that he has a better partner, and it does not mean that he sees you as a lifelong companion!

Don't you think now that after getting married, you will die of his flowers, and there was no regret medicine at that time;

Suggestion: Find someone who loves you, not someone you love, but the person you love should be someone who can be entrusted for life, and women should choose once, be cautious!

Talk to him.

Ask him to be considerate of your feelings.

Be generous yourself, too.

If you can be together.

Just don't force too much good luck.

A man who is too attentive is not fit to be a husband.

A woman who is married to such a flowery man, if she wants to keep her marriage, she can only turn a blind eye.

Choosing to leave, of course. Unless you're so stupid that you want to break your heart. Find a good man who is single-minded, you don't know how happy you will be in your life.

See if he has the possibility of repentance, see if he really loves you, and see if he can put you first, otherwise forget it!

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Dung, crops and flowers all rely on dung.

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

Rice's boyfriend is OK with any flower, as long as it's not onion, garlic, garlic,

Flower's boyfriend (butterfly), because butterfly loves flowers.

The leaves of the safflower must also be matched with green leaves.

There is no right or wrong in this kind of thing, depending on personal opinions, I think, if you are financially independent, then there is no need to spend your boyfriend's money, of course, it doesn't mean that you can't spend a penny, just don't rely on him financially for everything.

If your money is used together, and he uses your money, then I don't think there's anything wrong with that. It's just that if the two of you decide to live together in the future, then pay attention to how often you spend money.

I hope you will be very happy.

There's nothing you shouldn't or shouldn't spend your boyfriend's money, it's up to you how you spend it. You spend well, and your boyfriend will love you more. If you don't spend it well, you may ruin your relationship. It's important to learn to spend money.

Yes! Everyone's money should be spent together, if you don't spend it, do you have to spend it on others? (Nor can it be a wasteful flower that is unscrupulous).

Theoretically true. But I don't feel good either. Recommend friends who don't spend if you don't spend.。。 Or borrow money. Instead of spending his money justifiably.

If he's not handsome enough, just spend it, if you really like it, it's your own person, or flowers.

If you also spend money on him, then there's no problem, just grasp the degree, don't be too ruthless, some men are more disgusted with this.

Every couple has a different situation, whether it is the personality of the two people, the depth of the relationship, or the economic conditions. It's also a mutual problem, and if it's like you said, you don't have to think about it that much.

You want to show that you really value your boyfriend's feelings for you, of course, including your feelings for your boyfriend, there is nothing right or wrong, and spending your boyfriend's money reasonably is also a consolidation of your relationship.

I don't think two people need to think so much when they are together, you don't have to spend him, he doesn't have to spend yours. My girlfriend and I are like that, but I rarely spend it. I'm happy to spend money on her.

Love is based on equality, and a kind girl like you is really good, as long as you don't blindly ask him. Wishing you happiness and happiness!

It depends on how you feel. If we've been together for a long time and have a deeper relationship, I don't think I care about that.

If you have money, everyone spends it, just don't be too bad.

I think that's normal

Since he has said so much about his badness, why are you reluctant to leave him?

Either break up, or admit it.

This kind of woman who does not recognize it and is reluctant to leave is a typical resentful woman.

Money matters cannot be compromised! It has nothing to do with feelings! He has no money because he has no ability!

Mature men go out on their own, even if they borrow foreign debts, they will not cause a burden to their wives! You can't compromise, once there is later! Be careful in the end because of the money all day long, not noisy and sulking.

Your husband has a lot of problems, and when he has a child in the future, he still spends so much money? My husband didn't even buy a new dress for the New Year, on March 8, 400 yuan to buy me a bag, when I went to work before, he never cared about my money, I felt sorry for him and bought it for him, love is both sides, after having mustard, there is a heart disease, trouble died

If love is built on money, then it doesn't matter if this love is going to be or not, 6 years of relationship is not reluctant, you can't joke about your happiness, long pain is better than short pain, let go.

Beauty, then I can only send you one sentence, you have to make your own decisions in everything! Don't miss out on a good husband though! It's about your lifelong happiness! He's not going to have anyone out there.

You'll have the next 6 years.

Break up, if it goes on like this, you will definitely not be happy in the future, let alone happy...

This one... Think about it carefully. It's up to you!

Since you don't want him to spend, let him go.

Don't want such a man. A lifetime is more important than 6 years, and if you already have such a bad habit before you get married, I advise you to stay away from him.

I suggest that you can tell him about it in a detour, after all, it is not easy to make money, and the conditions are not very good, and you can lay the foundation for yourself and your future with less money.

You should talk to him about this and give money to his family to show that he loves his family, but as his girlfriend, he should tell you about it well and should not ignore your feelings. Getting married is a lifelong affair and you have to think it through.

Then you be careful, if he wasn't like this before, then be even more careful, maybe there is a junior outside, I advise you to keep interrupting and suffer from it.

Our dormitory director said that it depends on the situation, and you can think about it yourself

Forget it, this kind of man can't do it.

It's better to divide it, it's already like this before you get married, and if you get married, you don't quarrel every day, you have to buy a house, raise children, and don't need money for the elderly? It's okay if he can change it, but if he doesn't, how painful your life pressure will be in the future. Women live for themselves, take care of themselves and don't let themselves suffer.

How can there be men who ask women for money! Don't give! If you have the ability to spend it, you don't have the ability to earn it!

Don't give, such a man will quarrel after marrying him, think about it.

As long as you give it once, then next time it's all to you, this kind of man is generally lazy to do, nothing can be done, you have to think about it, whether you want to get married, once you ask for it next time, you may have domestic violence or quarrels after you don't give it many times.

You still have to give it to him if you want to get down to business.

This kind of person is not worth marrying! Think about it.

Valentine's Day, sending flowers is old-fashioned, and it's not practical, it's better to buy cosmetics for your boyfriend. The cosmetics themselves have a brand, but because of their own price system, the moisture is very large, that is to say, you can take a small amount of money to buy things that everyone thinks are very expensive, and cosmetics are used, so it is also real, and it is also face-saving to send it out. It is recommended to buy online and go to some large cosmetics**, such as strawberry pi cosmetics stores.

Similar to my situation, when my husband and I were in a relationship, my husband's salary was not high, and sometimes I would give him money. In fact, that's nothing, the main thing is to be considerate of each other, you say that he has no money, then you have to be considerate of him. If he is not willing to spend money for you if he has money himself, it means that your boyfriend is too open.

For example, if you give your boyfriend money now, you should stop in moderation, otherwise it will make him dependent, and it is natural to ask you for money. If the money is not enough, then you can ask your boyfriend to save some money, and if you can save it, this is also a good habit, after all, the money is not easy to earn now!

Hello, such a man is very immature and has no conditions to have a girlfriend at all, I hope you will get out of the sea of misery as soon as possible!

The world has always agreed: a man only likes to spend a woman's money, and has no love for this woman!

Love yourself, dear. This man is too selfish to fit anyone else in his heart.

There are some things that I don't know as a bystander. But, judging from what you said, it's worth thinking about who he is. If you feel it and don't come, just divide it.

Feelings can't be forced, don't make excuses for yourself. No, no, if you have time to think about it, there will be the answer you want. Wishing you happiness!

You've made it a habit for him, so he might just be using you like an ATM. Either leave, my dear, or make it clear to him, if he really loves you, he will examine himself. But I hope you can pay attention to the way you communicate, try to bring no money, less money, and see if you can transfer it to him slowly?

I'll spend girlfriend money too, what's the problem? You women always want to be equal, why do you want men to be here? Your boyfriend sending money home shows that he is a responsible person, and 500 yuan is really difficult for the current high prices.

It's not that he won't give you flowers, but he really doesn't have the ability. Be considerate of him, understand him, and you will be happy.

Let's break up!

What's wrong with spending your money?

It only means that you don't have any money!

Figure out the difference between feelings and money!

I know that reality has to live! Your mentality! How, it can only be spent on men!

Men can't use your money! What does your man explain to his family with 1000, his family has something to do, and he is responsible! He will take care of his home!

In the future, you will also be his family! Will he not take care of you? Idiot!