Isn t it right for me to have such a mentality?

It's not your psychological problem, it's inherently rude to eat in the study hall.

What's more, it also makes noises, which does bring a lot of unchanged to others. Although I rarely study on my own, such people are really annoying. This can only show that you are kind and do not want to cause inconvenience to others.

It boils down to your introverted personality and you don't want others to criticize you, even if sometimes others don't think so, but you think they might talk about you and say that yours is not your heart is very uncomfortable, right?

It can be seen that your boyfriend's personality is more outward, and as the saying goes, he is thick-skinned.

And did not mean to belittle him).

I believe that most people in socialism will not have any psychological problems, and those who have psychological problems are those citizens of capitalist society who are full of food and hold back, and they still go to see a psychiatrist at every turn. Believe in yourself Your mind is very healthy.

There is always a solution to the problem, you can talk to your boyfriend about your feelings, and if he takes care of you, I believe he will overcome these little problems.

In fact, the problem itself is not the problem, the real problem is that you are not actively solving it.

It's not your problem, you notice that the person next to you looks at you and it means that you have a social morality.

In public, you shouldn't just look out for yourself, let alone a place like a study hall that needs a quiet environment.

Your boyfriend is a selfish person first and foremost, and after your persuasion, he still does not repent but thinks that you are wrong, which means that he is a person with little quality and morality, and you can consider the relationship with him.

There's nothing wrong with you, your psychology is normal, do you think in your heart that what he did was wrong, and let your classmates laugh at you for finding a boyfriend who doesn't understand the rules? Although everyone's habits are different, but what to divide into things, what he does in public can only show that he lacks self-restraint and has no cultivation, you can ask him: If you are reading a book carefully, but there is a person talking loudly, do you think he is doing the right thing?

No matter what you do, you should divide the occasion, and you can't patronize your own happiness and affect others. You don't have to quarrel about this, if you have a problem, if he is a knowledgeable person, he should know what is right and what is wrong.

Your boyfriend is the kind of person who doesn't care what others think, and only sees you and himself in his eyes. So he doesn't pay attention to what others think of him a lot of the time, but it often affects others. And you're the kind of person who cares a lot about what people think of you and your boyfriend.

There are certain differences in the personalities of the two. Hence some contradictions.

You should persuade him from someone else's point of view, so that he can accept it better!

You need to talk to each other! Don't pay too much attention to his masculinity, use your gentleness to influence him well.

Is such a boyfriend worth continuing? There is a problem with character!!

There's nothing wrong with you, it's your boyfriend who makes a lot of noise in the classroom, and I think he's trying to make other people look at you and satisfy his vanity.

Everyone is different! Go your own way!