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Whether you can communicate or not, it should be something that can be felt a long time ago, why do you suddenly find out after getting engaged? You must have gone through the stage of falling in love, that is, a good process of understanding and running-in, why is there no communication problem at that time?

I guess it's likely that you're having a hard time communicating, maybe it's because you find out that you have different views on some of the realities of marriage and married life after you get engaged, and it's not a general difficulty in communicating. For example, the issue of filial piety to the elderly on both sides, the question of how to live together, the issue of having children and career, and so on, may not be mentioned before the engagement, and the engagement will naturally have to be discussed, and it will be difficult to communicate.

If this is the case, I think both parties should understand each other, take a step back, don't only think about their own families, their own interests, their own thoughts, and think more about each other. It is not easy to fall in love and get married, and life after marriage is not easy, and you need mutual respect and mutual understanding to be harmonious and long-lasting. First carefully analyze the other party's requirements and ideas, so that you can not just give in, feel that it is difficult to accept more exchanges with friends or family members, and then prudently friends and family their suggestions, especially family members' suggestions, they will definitely favor you or your family, but don't forget that your lover also has her own family, please understand and respect the heart that can be given to her family.

If you can be together, cherish it, don't think this person is bad because of practical problems, there are many people in the world who have contradictions, and how to deal with contradictions is what reflects everyone's ability.

I hope you are happy, if it is a big thing like character, you can consider breaking up, but please think twice about other things. It is not easy to be in the instrument, cherish it well.

Negotiate a settlement and return the bride price.

Legal basis. Article 10: Where parties request the return of bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that it falls under the following circumstances:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

I was also engaged, but because I still thought about my first girlfriend, I chose to give up! As for the next dowry, I didn't ask for it, I don't know what to do, but I know that I only have my first girlfriend in my heart! At first, I wanted to live in the future, and I wanted to be responsible for her, but then I thought about it, if I didn't love her and still be with her, I would be even more irresponsible!

If you have been engaged for a year, but you have regretted it now, at this time you can choose to withdraw from the marriage, and feel that this is also a very normal thing, if you do not love this person, you must not marry this person at this time, because you will definitely regret it. Therefore, everyone must also be sensible and never live with people you don't love.

If you really don't love each other, you must make it clear to the other party at this time, and you don't need to live with each other, otherwise you yourself will become very unhappy, and these problems are necessary to attract everyone's attention. Don't force yourself, and feel that you must respect your inner thoughts, if you really don't love each other, you shouldn't marry each other at this time, because you are also very irresponsible to yourself, and you are also very irresponsible to this relationship.

These problems are necessary to attract everyone's attention, because everyone will encounter such problems in life, if you don't love this person, you should not be with this person at this time. So don't force yourself, and now you can also choose to withdraw from the marriage, so you yourself have a choice, everyone must stick to their own ideas.

Faced with such a situation, you should communicate well with the other party. You should carefully review the relationship, make your own decisions, and ask your family for their opinions.

Then just withdraw from the marriage, because this is only an engagement and not a marriage, so that you will not regret it.

You should choose to return the goods, you should explain these things clearly to your partner, and you should also return the money that the other party gave you.

Legal Analysis: Betrothal refers to a prior agreement between a man and a woman for the purpose of future marriage, and it is a folk custom. According to the provisions of China's Civil Code, only when both men and women have registered their marriage at the marriage registration office can they be considered married, and only then will they be recognized and protected in law.

Betrothal, on the other hand, is not a legal and mandatory procedure for marriage, and therefore does not have the force of law and is not protected by law. Gold jewelry and other items given to the other party after the engagement can be resolved through negotiation, mediation or litigation between the two parties. If the woman is unwilling to take the initiative to return, she can conduct some mediation through the relevant departments or sue the court to demand the return of the property.

However, if these items are voluntarily given by the man, they will not be returned in principle, and if the property is forcibly requested by the woman or obtained by fraud through engagement, the heavy gold jewelry items shall be returned, and the small items may not be returned.

Legal basis: Article 1042 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage.

Bigamy is prohibited. It is forbidden for a spouse to cohabit with another person.

Domestic violence is prohibited. Abuse and abandonment between family members are prohibited.