What should we think if simple people live happier and more wonderful lives than rational and mature

This is inevitable, because simple people don't think too much about many things, while mature people know a lot of things and naturally think more....I'm just a person who thinks a lot of things, and it makes it hard for myself and the people around me. Later, I learned to comfort myself that I thought about the good in many things, and I naturally became much more cheerful.

A person's state of mind determines his happiness and cost performance. To be a man, we must learn to be square inside and round outside, and don't blindly tense our nerves.

Think less. I think too much about sending you the first Li Jiuzhe.

They are only temporary wonderful and happy, this society is very cruel, you can't say that people like them are bad, you can only be deceived and played by others in this society, their results will be very miserable, so we still have to be rational to adapt and deal with this environment, because we can't change the environment, we can only change ourselves!

Dealing with people and things only in a simple way will make us hit a wall everywhere. We need to analyze the problem and deal with things rationally, which will make us smoother. Simplicity is not only suitable for children, when we grow up, we don't care too much about the gains and losses of some things, it is also a kind of simplicity.

Survival of the fittest, you are not the little white heroine in the TV series, there is no white prince and knight to clean up the mess for you, don't think about those who have and don't. It's good to live your own life, and the little white in life doesn't know how to die.

True happiness is freedom of mind. And if a person wants to achieve this freedom, I am afraid that he must first achieve relative economic freedom. After all, human beings are first and foremost a product of society and have a unique social character.

Therefore, economic independence and freedom are the practical support and guarantee needed to ensure life.

Children know the importance of money since childhood, because the thing called "money" has formed a clear understanding of children since childhood: it can be used to buy things they like, and they can fulfill many of their wishes.

On the one hand, as the old saying goes, people die for money, and birds die for food. On the other hand, there is the saying of wise men that the synchronization of spiritual and material needs is the true way to happiness. People who don't eat the fireworks of the world are often dragged forward by money, and they forget themselves when they run.

A worldly mind often doesn't ask, "Is my spirit and matter in sync?" "They are more forced to be bound by money and do jobs they don't like, because of the poverty of the economy, they can't help whether they like it or not."

They first need to survive. They don't have much to choose from.

People with a certain economic foundation often gradually forget their own heart in the process of chasing wealth, they will not pay too much attention to this, they have no time, because once they have money, they will think about more money, there is no doubt about it. (Few people can really stay out of their desires) so they don't have time to think too much about the product of such hypocrisy of the mind (they rarely calm down to really feel the original meaning of their hearts) Second, they need to go for recreation, because money is earned, they always have to satisfy their material desires, and they need more money while satisfying. So they don't have time to talk to their hearts.

They will gradually drift further and further away from the way their minds are) to adjust the direction in which they are going.

For people who are particularly wealthy, they are the envy of others. Whether they are happy, how happy, whether they are happy in their hearts, how happy, and how to make their limited lives infinitely meaningful, can only be known by the parties themselves. It can be seen that as I walk on the road of life, I know that it is actually quite difficult to be a man.

No matter how you choose, life will give you some limitations. This is probably what people often mean when they say that heaven is jealous. But since you are alive, you should let yourself live happily, shouldn't you?

Therefore, everyone should do their best to make themselves happy as much as they can. Do your best to learn to set your mind free within the limits of what you can offer. As soon as you are aware of it, you can find a balance.

That point will make you love life more, be more motivated, and have a clearer direction. Know yourself better.

In this world, there is a group of people who look good on the outside, dress peacefully and make no difference, and sometimes tell a joke to make you happy. Maybe it might make you feel like they're happy and have no worries. Actually, they are not really happy.

They are disguised, because they don't want to tell their friends or their parents, they just want to bear it themselves. Whenever I am alone, I will think of some unhappy things, and sometimes I will cry silently. This group of people, it's not that they don't want to say what is on their minds, but the pressure on their hearts is too great, and they want to support themselves.

If we have such people around us, please be careful that God cares for them and tolerates them.

If one day, Yinjian, you see your friend or family member sitting quietly in a place alone, thinking about something, but before that, he was still very happy with himself, it means that he is not very happy, just a disguise. At this time, you have to let him be quiet, and then ask him, and learn to share the burden for him, and bear the pressure with him that he has never been under before, so that he will really feel happy to have such a close friend or family member as you.

If you are the one who pretends to be happy, then don't bury your thoughts in your heart, and tell your family and friends that your heart will be better, and don't keep it in your heart.

When we talk about mature people, we will think of reason, we will think of stability, we all want to be with mature people, because some people are really very naïve, his language or behavior is too young, can not gain a foothold in society at all, can not do great things at all, so you will feel that with them, you are very difficult, because you have to consider many aspects of things, they will not help you at all, and even will drag you back.

But if you think about it from another angle, these naïve people, these simple people, although he may not think so comprehensively in doing things, not so sleek, but when you are with him, you will feel a lot of childlike fun, you will get a lot of happiness, because they will not think a lot, will not make you feel very tired, you must know that in this society, dealing with these complex interpersonal relationships, your mind is tired enough, you really need to rest, Go and purify your mind.

In such a situation, a simpler person will be able to meet your needs. So although the same mature person is rational and steady, sometimes he doesn't have a lot of fun in life, he may be lifeless, completely immersed in his career, completely a serious person, and can't joke with him at all.

So I think it depends on your attitude as to whether being with mature people is a beauty or a torment. If you are also a very mature person and you need a very rational and stable life, then you must feel that it is a good thing to be with mature people. You will feel that those naïve people are giving you a lot of headaches.

As the saying goes, it's not a family, don't enter a family, if you don't match this kind of person's temperament, it is recommended that you don't stay together, otherwise it will be torment, if the temperament and character of two people are similar, then you will not feel tormented, but feel happy.

It depends on how you understand it, if you live a life, it's better to find a mature, rational and stable one, and you won't worry about life when you're together in the future, I think it's beautiful to live with them.

The important thing for two people to be together is not to fit and be comfortable. The person who loves you is mature and steady in everything else, but he can still treat you like a child. People who don't love you only see maturity and stability.

If a person always looks mature and stable in front of you, then he probably doesn't love you much, he is used to living with a mask, and you are not the one who can remove his disguise.

People have advantages and disadvantages, there is no perfect, only suitable or unsuitable, it depends on your value orientation, right.

Mature people are rational and steady, which is not bad at all, but who said that mature people are not interested, this is just your personal opinion, in fact, mature people are also very romantic.

On December 7, 2020, I was diagnosed with moderate depression, and when I entered the hospital that day, it was not like the usual hospital, it was very quiet inside, and there were patients wearing patient number spike infiltration suits in the corridor, which may be a psychological effect, I always felt that the color of their hospital gowns was more dazzling than that of other patients.

I followed the doctor and did a bunch of tests, he prescribed medicine, I knew I was unhappy, but when the medicine was in my hand, it was still so unreal, it was very cold that day, I was holding the computer, the temperature was so low that my hands were numb.

After I went home, I stubbornly didn't take the medicine, and my friend said that you will be fine after taking the medicine, but in my opinion, if I take the medicine, it is an admission that I am sick, I am different from other people's meditation belts, and I still take the medicine after two days.

On the third day after eating, I cut my wrists.

There are always people who say, life is beautiful, how beautiful the world is, why do you think it is boring?

But they didn't think that in this world, all good things have to pay money, and if not, then beauty is nothing to me.

I think when I reach the age of 27, this life is over, I have gone to college, I have been in love, I have been chased, I have loved recklessly, I have experienced food, I have felt the night, I have experienced hardships. What's next? It's nothing more than working day after day, repeating the same day every day.

Having what you want and pursuing is the premise of finding life interesting, and the brave pursuit is the wonderful way to live, but I don't have anything.

I didn't have what I wanted, I just went to work and slept every day. At my age, I have to think twice about everything, whether there are consequences, whether it makes sense, whether it will cause trouble to others, and reason prevails, so I miss a lot of things and people ......