What to do if boyfriend parents object to us being together

In terms of specific attitude, your dad's approach is a bit problematic, he doesn't pay attention to the strategy and doesn't use the way you can accept, but in the end, your dad's decision is right. Looking for a boyfriend is to live happily together in the future, but from the perspective of your boyfriend's economic conditions, you have no material security, it depends on whether your boyfriend is very down-to-earth and hard working to earn money, if he works hard to earn money to marry you, you can also consider, if he is still like an ordinary person after eating and drinking after work and ending the day, you better break up early, do you think he is so miserable and still reluctant to fight, do you expect you or your family to help change his living situation? Spiritual love is noble, but true happiness is based on material security of the heart, if life is too difficult, the mood will not be good, there is no spiritual happiness. >>>More

I am a strong supporter of you.

Your boyfriend's father is too arbitrary. >>>More

Both parents are right, I think it's better to leave peacefully, if it's just one parent who opposes it, then work hard to let them accept you from the bottom of their hearts, they will always be moved, and now both parents don't agree, if you have to keep going, there will be more contradictions in the future, as the saying goes, a marriage that is not blessed by parents will not be very long-term, if you really can't leave, don't want to separate, then the boy will try his best to convince his parents, and then the woman's parents will understand your dissatisfaction, If they think you don't look good, then you can't change it, only through your ability, if they think your family doesn't have a car or a house, you try your best to be satisfied, even if you pay a down payment, in fact, think about it, which parents don't want their daughter to marry a person who doesn't have a car or a house, and their daughter's life will be very sad in the future, and parents are also for their daughter's good; Also, when you go to your mother-in-law's house, your eyes must be flexible, don't sit there all the time watching TV, take the initiative to chat with the woman's parents, set up, try to make them very happy, their impression of you will get better and better, and maybe they will accept you from the heart. For girls, the most important thing after marriage is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the man's parents do not agree with you to be together, there must be your personal reasons, but also to understand that the other party's parents don't like you**, and start to change after you know, when you go to the boy's house, take the initiative to do something, don't want people's mothers to cook in the kitchen, but you are watching TV in the living room and knocking melon seeds, so that people will definitely not agree, be diligent. Anyway, happiness is earned on one's own, and if two people don't want to be separated because of their parents' opposition, then try to get them to approve of it.

Hold on. I'm sticking with you. Have time to take him to meet your parents. >>>More

If your parents are concerned, he should also have his own considerations, and may not want you to find someone who is so much older than him. The key is to see if you and your boyfriend are truly in love. >>>More