When you were young, what harm did adults do to you?

When I was young, my parents always belittled me and felt that I was worthless, so I grew up with low self-esteem.

When I was in the fourth grade of elementary school, I asked my grandfather for five cents to buy a pen, but he didn't agree at the time, so I secretly took money from the box and went to school to buy a beautiful penI will never forget the expressions on the faces of those classmates looking at me, and from then on, whenever I heard someone say that something was lost inexplicably, I would feel very weak, so afraid that others would suspect me, I couldn't explain it, and this guilt has always been pressed in my heart, forever....

When I was younger, adults used to quarrel a lot, and it really hurt me a lot.

I remember one time, I was disobedient, and as a result, my father punished me for kneeling at the door, and I didn't give me food.

Since I was in junior high school, they didn't care much about me, they just gave me money to use.

When I was younger, I belonged to the kind of inner feelings that were more subtle. Then I was an only child for ten years, and that was when I was ten years old, my brother was born. At that time, I was in the fifth and sixth grades, and I couldn't go out after my brother was born, and I hated my brother at that time, and then my mom told me every time that if I went out to play, she wouldn't want me.

Then I started thinking that my parents were patriarchal. Then I took the sixth-grade exam, and we went from elementary school to junior high school, and at that time, we all had to take the best junior high school. I usually got the top grades in school, and then in that exam, I didn't play well enough, and there were people outside the list, so I fell off the list.

Knowing that when I fell off the list, my mother was feeding my brother porridge at first, and she didn't say anything, and then I was a little sad and didn't think too much about it.

When I was a child, I was most impressed by the cold violence of my parents. Didn't speak for days, even weeks, months. You may not imagine that feeling, three people sitting at home, but there is no sound, the silence is terrible, my mother will cook for my father's share, my mother and I eat, and my father eats after eating, there is no communication, and the house is quiet every day.

Mom and Dad are often like this, they will quarrel, but after the quarrel never solve the problem, but the cold war, no one pays attention to anyone, it seems to throw everything to time, I think, time is really a good thing, let the problems pile up more and more.

When I was four or five years old, my grandparents had a quarrel with my parents, and I didn't know it at the time, so I ran to my grandparents' house to play, but as soon as I showed my face, my grandfather pushed me out, and then picked me up and threw me out of the door. When the other two aunts came back, I went to play, and after playing all morning, while they were cooking and eating, they pushed me aside and didn't give me anything to eat, and I went home by myself. I never told anyone about these things, and I always thought that one day I would settle accounts with them, and it was deeply imprinted in the heart of a child of a few years old.

It's been almost thirty years, and the more I think about it, the more I hate them!

I have been a left-behind child since I was a child, and I think the biggest harm is to leave me alone at home and grow up with my grandmother, but I don't mean to say that this is bad, I think grandma is very good, but I will also long to have parents, accompaniment, childhood!

After dropping out of junior high school. My mother was reluctant for me to go out and work alone. Ask my dad to find his friend and arrange a job for me.

Later there was an uncle who opened a frame company. Let me go. Then Dad took me to town.

The uncle was very welcoming and treated us to a meal. It was a young age. Introverted.

It's very restrained. After dinner, he took us to one of his shops, which specializes in frames. See his wife.

It's very restrained. Then she asked me this, asked me that. Dad came and said that my daughter was deaf.

Slow to respond to anything. Then laughed. At that time, my face and neck were red.

It feels like there's a crack that I want to get into. There were still a lot of people present. Very hurtful.

I'll admit that I don't have good hearing in one ear. Although many years have passed. I still feel sad at the time.

Tell my ugly story as a joke to others, and I'm still there. Always choose life for me in their own way. Now I always think that I am inferior to others, if it wasn't for you who restricted my freedom in the first place, how could I become like this, and now I blame me for being incompetent, unsociable, and introverted.

Of course, we ourselves understand that it is the family conditions and all aspects of the pressure that are too strict with us, well, don't mention the past, want it to pass, as a child should be filial piety. When I became an adult, I talked to them, and my parents said, raise you so big, for you to eat and wear, you want to go against God, what can I do, and all communication becomes meaningless.

Unbehaving children will be eaten by the big bad wolf.

Just lie, and you will lose your teeth.

If you have an umbrella in the house, you won't grow tall.

Bubble gum swallowed in the stomach, sticking to the intestines will kill the person.

Eat more fish and you can learn to swim.

A man and a woman can have children by sleeping together.

ps: What adults said to us when we were children, I picked up a few sentences as above, and now I feel very cute when I read it