Do you have a couple around you who everyone is not optimistic about but ends up together?

One of my cousins went out to work before graduating from junior high school, but she found a college student who was studying in undergraduate studies as a boyfriend, and the whole family was against it at that time, because in the eyes of many people, they could not be together, whether it was their academic qualifications or their environment, but in the end they got married, and the man was very good to her, and now she has a very cute baby.

My daughter-in-law and I, my sister and brother are in love, understand each other, trust each other From the heart, I never felt that I was younger than her and needed to be taken care of by the woman, but I loved this woman from the bottom of my heart, she is also a very good woman, this has been a few years, not bad and happy, and it doesn't matter if others are optimistic about these two people, just be good yourself.

Everyone didn't like them to be together, or their parents didn't agree, but in the end it turned out that their insistence was right. There are not many such examples, but I think that happiness should be earned by oneself, and don't feel bad just because others say it is bad.

Of course, two of my junior high school classmates got married and had children, and at the time everyone thought it was just talking, but in the end, they got married at the legal age, and the boys used to be very attentive!

There really is, it's like only the foot knows if the shoe fits, and what others see is only the surface.

Yes, I used to know one, and at that time the Audition troupe was very popular, and the game finally developed into reality, and their parents were against it, and now they are doing well.

One of my classmates kept saying bad things about me when he wasn't good with him before, but now they're all good.

The boy I liked in elementary school met his current wife in junior high school, and I heard that I was together after I transferred to another school, and until now, it's just such a couple, I was really not optimistic about them at the time, and many people said that they couldn't go together, but now they are ready to get married. I heard from a friend that he has a very stable relationship and never quarrels. In fact, when I was a child, there were a lot of small things around me, but I didn't develop (not only myself), so I still envy my childhood sweetheart for cultivating a positive result. ‍‍

There is an alumnus, male, whose home is in the south of Hebei, and I forgot whether it was Xingtai or Handan. He has been working as a technician in Beijing, and he has no object at the age of 30, and later met a girl from Shanxi who is seven years younger than him in Jiayuan. Later, the two chatted so unhurriedly.

We all felt that they didn't think it would come to fruition. Unexpectedly, the two got married more than a year later.

I've been with my boyfriend for a few years now. Personally, I think he's not bad, and he's good to me. But many people around me said that he was not worthy of me, and my parents did not agree. But we're doing pretty well now.

My colleague is a prime example. This girl has a cheerful and generous personality, and her appearance is quite good, an undergraduate, which is quite good. Many of her friends, including her family and relatives, felt that they would definitely find someone who was a good match for her.

As a result, everyone fell through the glasses, she found a fat man with an extremely average appearance and okay family conditions, but more than 200 pounds. The important thing is that the boy was not working at that time, and he was 2 years younger than her, which made everyone unbelievable. So even if everyone is not optimistic, as long as the person concerned insists, others have no choice.

More than ten years ago, there were two young people in the big courtyard, one was Xiao Wuzi and the other was Gao Mei. After a while, the girl told her father and mother that she was getting married, and the object of the conversation was Xiao Wuzi! His mother just doesn't agree to live or die, there are more people with good conditions, why did you fall in love with him?

If you must follow him, this family will not allow you to come back! In the days after the marriage, Gao Mei sent Xiao Wu to a driving school, and after a period of study, Xiao Wu got a driver's license. Gao Mei scraped together a lot of money, and Xiao Wu happily drove into a taxi!

Speaking of this, it was when I was in high school, when I was supposed to study hard, but I naughtily matched some couples who shouldn't have appeared, and sometimes fate was such a coincidence, and a lot of dramatic stories were arranged to be released ......My table mate and I are partial writers, and every time we take physics, we have always become naughty ghosts who enliven the classroom atmosphere. I am a female student in the front row, with a ** temper and a cold personality, and I don't like the two handsome men at the table in the back row, and these two handsome men have also become the primary targets of the school bully's frequent reports. At that time, many people were not optimistic, but in the end, we got married.

Yes, a friend of mine and his husband, two high school classmates, were together at the time, and then the college was not in the same city, the long-distance relationship lasted the whole college, and the first few years of coming out to work later, there were six or seven years of long-distance relationship. I see you about a dozen times a year! Everyone is not optimistic, they study different majors, live in different geographical areas, except for the common memories of their high school career, there is almost no social circle together, and the personality is innocent and calm.

It's very uncomfortable to be together, it's very painful, it's very depressing, it feels bound, it's not free, it's not safe every day, if you feel like this, don't be together.

Lack of trust and security between each other, nothing for each other is not willing, always dislike each other to see each other's shortcomings, feel very tired in a relationship, love is to meet, is to understand, is to maintain, is communication, but also focus on the run-in between two people.

Two people like each other, it does not prove that two families like each other, if one of the families does not like each other, they will not come together, and even if they come together, a marriage without the blessing of their parents will not be happy.

Why do people always say they met the right person at the wrong time? Because it's easier to blame time than to admit your cowardice. It's like I love you, I want to be with you for the rest of my life, I don't want to wait for a minute or a second, but I want to go abroad first, because I can't give you the kind of life you want now, so I don't want to work hard with you at home, because the probability of success in China is smaller than abroad, you succeed in returning to China, and want to ask her to catch up with the candlelight, but she has to take care of her son and can't get out.

You yourself are drunk, you ask yourself, I have the courage to go abroad alone and fight alone, will I have the consciousness to start from scratch with her, and in the end I just blame us for meeting the right person at the wrong time.

There is no way that people are always so hypocritical, and they are used to using all kinds of reasons to make themselves appear innocent, because people are too fragile, so fragile that he can't bear the real self, and he needs all kinds of "filters" to cover up those dirty details, so that he can be decent in his own eyes.

People always live for their own values or ideas. At a certain intersection, you pick up a sign, and the words on it become the direction of your life's work. Why is your life so simply decided?

Because at that time your eyes were blank, your eyes were covered with magazines like inferior glass beads, your body was constantly shaking like a sieve, you were dazed and helpless, you were hesitant, you were confused by your own existence, you were stuck in a barren future, you were a human being, but you were like a mouse, and then you found the sign, and you suddenly discovered the meaning of life.

Sometimes meaning exists not because you find the meaning of your existence but you need meaning, and in the same way, love sometimes arises not because you have met love, but because you need love. Love is a necessity for adults. Two people who really love each other can't be together, so they can rest assured and pay attention to each other silently.

Because marriage is not enough just by feelings, the external objects around you are the key to determining whether two people can come together. Parents, customs, values, bride price, whether to have children or not can all contribute to the breakdown of the relationship.

The three views do not agree, because love is a matter of two people, marriage is indeed the lifestyle of two families, and when love meets marriage, people who may love each other will choose to break up peacefully.

Personally, I think that a good relationship does not mean that it is suitable. Although some couples have a particularly good relationship, their personalities and tempers are incompatible, and they are prone to friction, and then quarrels break out. Because the run-in is not enough, it will be separated in the end because of some small things.

The main reason why several pairs of college classmates in our class eventually separated was nothing more than that: because of feelings, one party felt that the other party should not make material requirements. And the other person thinks that our feelings are not worthy of these substances.

My wife and I were at the table before and after high school, I chased her, and we didn't get together until we graduated from high school, and both of them were first lovers until they graduated from college to work to get married. She didn't like me that much at first, and later I learned that she had a crush on a childhood sweetheart boy in junior high school, and she hesitated between the two, and besides, they didn't get together in order to study well in high school. So at the beginning, it may not be two people who are the only one for each other, but sometimes love is like this, at the beginning it will not be equal to like, there will always be one who likes it more, and one who doesn't like it so much.

Liking each other may not be so suitable, but really liking is willing to change, adapt, understand, and tolerate each other, and finally slowly become the right person. Therefore, it is said that the person who is together in the end is the right person, but it does not mean that the person you like is not the right person.

There are many factors that need to be considered in love, although it is difficult to ensure that a lover will eventually become a family, but there is a certain emotional foundation, and the right family, and the material conditions can maintain the stability of the marriage, it is the best choice. So the word suitable may not be sincere enough, but it is full of reason, and the word still makes sense.

The person I liked thought about love at the time, thinking that it was enough to have each other, but a celebrity once said, I have never seen a couple who can live on love alone, even if they love each other deeply.

When two people who love each other are together, something else is derived from love. Take responsibility, for example!

To put it bluntly, there are no two people who are born with the right people, just tolerate each other, accommodate and understand.

The last one that is together is suitable.

Couples who are not favored are together for more than ten seconds. That's just in the eyes of others they broadcast humbleness is not humble too good, so it is a relationship This kind of thing has to be the party, if the person concerned thinks it is good, she is like looking old, others say that it is good, if it is bad, you call it uncomfortable or comfortable, how do others know that it is just from the appearance, so you are like this couple who is not optimistic about it to make it together. That's their own business between them.

is not favored, that's someone else's idea, maybe the little couple is in love!

Love each other, understand each other, know how to be grateful, and love will last forever!

Desperate, probably true love, able to resist the rejection of the world, the fingers of others, must be the one who wants to give the whole world to you.

Not favored by others, that is your personal opinion, other people's feelings are other people's business, you don't know the inside story, follow you, you can only see the surface phenomenon, put your mind flat.

Couples are not favored by others, the problem can only be in themselves, don't have a negative mentality, work hard, prove that they are better than others, no one will not be optimistic.

The mentality of love first, the outside view is not the point.

It's not for others to live, as long as the two of you love each other. The mouth grows on someone else's body and lets them speak.

Love is exclusive to two people, it doesn't matter if others look down on it or not, you can do whatever you want, don't care about anything else.

That's what other people think about it, just like a lot of what other people know you know through the mouth of a third person. People know themselves as they drink water.

Feelings are their own, outsiders can't understand it, time proves everything, this is normal, what a happy thing it is to live in your own feelings, as for outsiders don't know ......

Because of themI had a lot of fun.