How do you feel as leftover women?

I live alone in a first-tier city, and I don't know anyone except my colleagues. Sometimes I feel like a drop of water melted into the sea, transparent to everyone. I feel that marriage is dispensable to me, and I feel that people are like that all their lives.

I am a 35-year-old leftover girl, unmarried and without a partner. I regret very much in my heart that I didn't get married sooner, I didn't get married sooner. I agree with that man, it's just too late to wake up.

I am 32 years old this year, I have experienced too many feelings, numbness, I feel that marriage is dispensable to me, I feel that people are like that all my life, not at home, I may not get married in this life.

It's been the seventh year of being single, and I thought it was fate that I couldn't meet that person, so I realized that I had accepted celibacy from the bottom of my heart. I don't want to break my own side of the world because of the intervention of outsiders.

The requirements before the age of 30 are a bit unrealistic, and there was no shortage of suitors at that time, and I talked about multiple objects, all because I was not happy and unpleasant, and I did not have a clear and complete understanding of myself.

I didn't dare to look at my 25-year-old **, lamenting that I was too stupid, at that time, I was in my prime, and it was easy to marry, if I was smarter, I wouldn't be like this. Life is like a dream, and ten years are a flick of a finger.

Like me, it's better to work than a man who doesn't play games, the pattern is bigger than many men, and he knows how to plan and copywriter, can negotiate and promote, and can also do management, and there is basically nothing that can't be done at work, but there is no object at 34.

My worth has decreased, what if I don't lower my requirements? This is a naïve and naïve idea, and the man still picks on you. I'm so stressed right now that I sometimes cry at night for no apparent reason.

After 45 years alone, isn't all of this good? I must be able to adapt to people asking you "how old is the child", and I also know that my classmates should ignore or like it in the circle of friends, and I know how to pay the bill with 5 shiitake mushrooms and a potato and a quarter of a chicken with peace of mind.

I haven't met a man for three and a half years since my last relationship ended, and I'm still alive, and I'm looking at the end of this year to be 35....Looks like it's time to find a partner.

35, whether to marry or not, is more worried about his pension life, and making money is a top priority.

True love starts with a lady paying! I believe that the effect of women paying is far greater than that of men! (You eat with the boy, he hasn't finished eating, you pay, we are long, this beautiful boy to eat a meal, the money can still be borrowed) the lady gives priority to take the initiative to get the wishful man, let's move bricks with peace of mind, what about the man who lives a life, and he is not a thief, what are you afraid of?

Women chasing men do not break the law, do not die, do not pollute the environment, women chasing men will definitely increase wages, prolong life, maintain beauty, and live forever, (one meal can get a handsome guy's simple very) Come on!

During the meeting, I will be in love, but I have a weak heart, everything is fateful, and I will not take the initiative.

Take the initiative, it's not a big deal. Don't wait any longer.

Now there are a lot of leftover women in the city, in addition to the reasons analyzed by everyone: many leftover women are better, she hopes to find a better man than herself, or she is more picky, the mate selection conditions are higher, and so on. Her best friend's condition is worse than her, or the leftover woman thinks she is worse than her, but the husband she is looking for is good, so the leftover girl has to gamble and must find a way to find a better husband than her best friend.

This is because women now have a higher standard for choosing a mate, so this situation is common.

Because today's women have higher requirements, they don't want to marry someone casually, they must wait for the right person, mainly because women are more financially independent and have a higher social status, so their vision is naturally high.

There are more and more leftover girls around, mainly because these girls are very good, they have high requirements for their objects, but there is no one around them who meets their requirements, and they will become leftover girls.

With the development of the times, the life pursued by women is getting higher and higher, so many people would rather choose to be single than marry and become leftover women.

Because there is a lot of social pressure and there is very little true love now, it is difficult for them to take that step over themselves, so there are so many leftover women.

There are many leftover women around you, which means that your city is a first-tier city, because women like to run to the city, resulting in more women and fewer men in the city.

I heard a joke about why I became a leftover girl, because I was too good. Then I said that the good mind my, I just need to be young and pretty. Being excellent is only useful for the boss, because it can help him make more money, if this is not clear, there will be more and more leftover women!

There are many leftover women, not because people don't want to marry, but because they are too demanding.

In the hearts of many people, older leftover women are synonymous with derogatory, they give people the feeling of being strong and pursuing materialism, but is this really the case? In fact, because of going to school now, many women are about to reach the age of graduation after graduation, and for various other reasons, getting married late has become a natural thing, and many women are obsessed with their careers and do not think about their marriages. So what does it feel like to marry an older leftover girl?

After listening to the man's sincere words, I was very pleased!

The first man: Although older leftover women are demanding, they also have a reason.

Everyone knows that older leftover women are demanding, and they feel that they are all older leftover women, and the requirements are still so high, I really don't know how nervous I am at all. In fact, those older women think more comprehensively, and they must be good enough to put forward high requirements, otherwise if any man can be worthy, how can they wait until they are old and not married? Those women must be able to stand on their own and have their own good side.

The second man: It is said that older leftover women love money, but I think my wife doesn't love money.

There are many rumors that older leftover women like money, have particularly high requirements for money, and will ask for a lot of bride price money when they get married, but think about it from another perspective, her parents have raised her for so many years, and she can't go to your house to endure hardships without spending a penny, right? This is all one-sided, if you evaluate the older leftover women love money, only from the aspect of bride price, it is a bit of a fuss.

The third man: After marrying an older leftover woman, as long as the problem is explained before marriage, there will be no conflicts after marriage.

Older leftover women actually have a better life than those who are younger, they have been in society for so many years, and the world they see will be more comprehensive, so they can see everything and think about things comprehensively. Their abilities are much stronger than those of other young women, so if you marry an older leftover girl, as long as you talk about everything before marriage, you will get along very well after marriage, and there will be no major contradictions.

In fact, the experience of an older leftover woman is likely to help you get through one of the most difficult times later in life. So marrying an older leftover girl is really earned!

It's like marrying a sister. married an older leftover girl, because she is older, she is more mature in thinking, and she is more able to take care of people, without the arrogance and willfulness of a young woman.

After marrying an older leftover girl, I feel like I am married to a mother, and I don't know when I can control myself, and I don't have any freedom at all.

It's a very exciting feeling. Because everyone thinks that older leftover women are more demanding, when they marry this kind of woman, they will feel that they also have a certain personality charm.