Why don t you like to post more and more now?

It's inconvenient to post in the circle of friends. When you are happy, you still remember the circle of friends, and when you are sad, who will understand you in the circle of friends, you will only think that you are a complaining person. Most people don't have many highlights, or your highlights don't seem interesting to others.

What's delicious, funny, funny and interesting, it's enough for a small group of a few people to share directly, and now the messy circle of friends is completely unnecessary. Many people are ordinary people, and there is no need to create an image in the circle of friends. You don't know what you're like, your friends.

When traveling, I wanted to record the scenery, hesitated before pressing the send button after putting it **, and thought that it was not good to let my relatives with a bad family background see that I was not very good at touring the mountains and rivers, so I grouped and shielded, and thought that it was not good to let the leader see that I was at ease, and I withdrew from the group, shielded, and looked back and forth several times to ensure that nothing went wrong. When I wanted to send it, there was no surging talent in my heart, and I suddenly realized that it didn't matter if I sent it or not, so I canceled it and quit. I was emotionally frustrated late at night, and when I was excited, I had several lines of friends, and I hesitated when I wanted to send it, so that the people who cared about me could see that not only could not solve the problem but also caused trouble to them, so that people who didn't care about me could see why not be a cold bystander?

So cancel and quit. So I'm posting one after another on Weibo now, and the people who are related to each other are all close friends on the tip of my heart, and there are few comments and likes, but I can express myself unguardedly. Probably more and more people like me, when the circle of friends has to hesitate several times before sending, it has lost its original meaning, and what the circle of friends shows is the life we want others to see, rather than the real mood.

I have a regular friend series. A friend is a person who loves to post on Moments, eat, take a photo, go shopping, take a photo, go to the playground, take a photo. According to the evaluation rate, friends generally post four to five moments a day.

Never get tired of it. I also have a friend series. A friend is a person who almost doesn't post moments, and when she opened her circle of friends, the most recent news was half a year ago.

When I asked her why, she was surprised, there was nothing to do. So, nothing can be generalized, the circle of friends is used to share their own lives, some people like to share themselves, like to let others know their life status, and some people like to keep their lives a little mysterious, and don't want others to snoop. Therefore, whether to send a circle of friends or not is determined by personality.

Of course, there are still some people who post moments with a show-off posture and regard the circle of friends as a kind of dress. Generally speaking, this kind of person's circle of friends can be happy if you look at the picture. Some people say that posting moments is related to age, the older ones seem to be calmer, and the younger ones like to bounce on the Internet.

In fact, not really, for example, my mother, four or five circle of friends every day teach you how to see a doctor series ......For example, I don't post a circle of friends series for 10,000 years. Whether to post or not to post on Moments is just everyone's own choice. It is not possible to summarize the reason in a similar paragraph.

As for asking me why I didn't post because I was lazy.

Because the people in the circle of friends are just not friends. I really want my friends to know, so I just went over. "Hey! Son! Dad, I'm in a bad mood, super good, come out to drink with me? "Come, grandson! ”

Why not? Superficial reasons: life is day after day, work is very ordinary, and there is not so much to show.

Moreover, I'm a big man, and I don't want to send out my personal trivialities! The deep reason: my heart can be self-consistent, my emotions can be self-satisfied, and I don't need the approval of outsiders.

<> "Why do people like to post news?"

When was the last time you posted?

Just? Yesterday?? Last month? Or last year?

Why do some people like to post news or moments frequently, while some people never post it?

Some people like to record life because they really like to enjoy their lives, like to enjoy their presence, and like to interact with everyone. Sometimes I even feel happy and warm, and I find that with these friends, life is still very good.

There is also a kind of person who, on the surface, is posting news, but in fact they are telling the person they want to contact but can't contact in another way about their current life.

Ate this restaurant today and it was delicious".

It's raining outside and what to do if you don't bring an umbrella".

I'm so hungry, "I miss you"...

The significance of frequent dynamics is that:

When I miss you, I may say, "Not by your side, but by you." But I won't tell you directly;

When I'm sad, I share a song that represents my mood, and I hope you can know how I'm feeling at the moment;

When I encounter something strange, I will complain happily, and I will silently wonder in my heart, will you encounter the same situation.

People are such a contradiction, obviously there are many, many things to say to the other party, but they can't say anything, they want the other party to see, and they are afraid that the other party will see it, but in the end, they just want that person to see and react. It's like hugging someone when you graduate, but you laugh and cry and hug the whole class.

And some people don't post news, because what they want to say can be said without scruples, and there will always be people who take the trouble to listen to what they want to share, and the people they want to see are always around.

First of all, I don't like it, when I first applied for WeChat, I sent a few pieces in the circle of friends, and I haven't posted one until now, it seems that I am showing off something in the circle of friends, I am a low-key person, I don't like to show off, and I can't show off anything, I don't like to compare with others, no matter how rich you are, I won't give it to me, no matter how poor I am, Zheng will beg for you. For customers, although there is WeChat, everyone has never used WeChat to chat. If there is really something to contact, contact directly or interview in person.

1.Cold-hearted people.

Generally, the cold Hedan boy doesn't like to update his news in the space or circle of friends, because he thinks it's all boring things. Therefore, in his opinion, only naïve people will do such boring behavior.

2.Low-key people.

As you all know, you often swipe out other people's posts in your circle of friends or space. When you find that a person has not been paying attention to rapid news for a long time, maybe he is just trying to leave a "low-key" impression on people.

3.People who don't have a story.

I don't know if you have noticed that when they are in the circle of friends or space, they send some mourning sentences, and they will look very distressing, but it also makes sense. Because he doesn't empathize with someone who doesn't have a story, he doesn't know what to say. It is a person with a more unique personality.

They don't like to go with the flow, and something so popular as the circle of friends is not something they like to pursue. Their concerns are also different from everyone else's, so the circle of friends is not a good channel for them to share their self-knowledge.

It's a person who is afraid that others will find him.

This kind of person belongs to a minority, but they don't want to be contacted, or even have bad feelings, so they don't dare to post on Moments. After all, this kind of person is still rare, at least my friend 5

Not in the circle of friends