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Feel sad.
Why don't the elders understand the younger generation, and the younger generation doesn't understand the elders?
One thing is for sure, no matter what parents do, it is for the good of their children, and I don't think you will object to that, right?
Maybe your mom thinks you're not married, so it's not good. I know that in many places, people live together without getting married, and it's no surprise to everyone. But in many places, especially in small northern towns or rural areas, it is still difficult to accept.
Let your boyfriend officially go to your house to propose, let your neighbors know that you are married, and of course, don't forget to give your parents a big red envelope, hehe. (If it were me, I might do it, maybe not for you; Just advise, don't copy it. )
Strongly agree with the reply on the second floor:
Tie the knot! Your mom won't be so worried.
She is mainly worried that you will suffer, and the old man is more conservative.
Author: zhuliyu1982 - assistant III.
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Hehe, everyone is a young person, or say something that young people should say, it's really not easy for the old man to pull us up, if because of these things, it's not worth it to let the parents who have raised us for so long be angry, their minds are not as open as we think, I think your mother doesn't know your boyfriend well enough, you should often take him to your home to cultivate his relationship with your mother, so that your mother feels that she can rest assured that she will hand you over to him, after a long time, your mother will understand that she will let go, I don't think you should go to your boyfriend's house to live before you get married, your mother thinks more about it, you live so close, even if you come back later, you must live in your own home, and when your boyfriend wins your mother's trust, I don't think he will object. Don't rush it.
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Tie the knot! Your mom won't be so worried.
She is mainly worried that you will suffer, and the old man is more conservative.
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You really are, too.
Everyone in this room is angry.
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As your boyfriend's mother is sick, and you, as your boyfriend's female bury tong file friend, going to visit is a good way to show your care and support. However, there are a few factors you need to consider before deciding whether or not to visit:
1.Boyfriend's opinion: First of all, you need to communicate with your boyfriend to understand his opinions and ideas. He may tell you about his mother's condition and needs, and if he wants you to visit. It is very important to respect his opinion.
2.Severity of the condition: It is also important to know the severity of the condition.
If the condition is more severe and requires a long period of recuperation** and recuperation, then your visit may put an extra burden on them. In this case, you can show your concern and support in other ways, such as calling, texting, or sending some condolence gifts.
3.Family relationships: It's also important to worry about your relationship with your boyfriend's family.
If you have a good relationship with your boyfriend's family and they welcome your visit, then you may want to consider visiting. However, if your relationship is complex or strained, you may need to consider it more carefully.
Most importantly, respect the opinions and decisions of your boyfriend and his family. If you decide to visit, make sure your visit doesn't put an extra burden on them, and try to give them support and encouragement. If you decide not to visit, you can show your concern and support in other ways, such as offering help, sending condolence gifts, or giving them moral support in times of need.
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Getting sick in a parent is a very troublesome issue, especially for those who are dependent on their parents. Anxiety about parents can cause many problems due to the lack of previous support, especially in the role of the boyfriend, whose attitude may bring comfort or more anxiety to the patient and family. As a result, people tend to be curious about their boyfriend's attitude, regardless of his actions or words.
A supportive and loving man should maintain an optimistic image in the face of his partner's parents being sick. This positive attitude can make the partner and her family feel supported and cared for. The boyfriend can provide all kinds of help and encouragement, such as visiting the hospital, buying medical supplies, and even directly participating in the parents**, spending time with him, which are all programs that he can actively participate in.
At the same time, he should take this opportunity to better understand his partner's family background and deepen the relationship between the two parties. This will help build a stronger relationship and make the partner feel irreplaceable.
However, a boyfriend's attitude can also make parents and family members feel more stressed and worried. If the boyfriend shows stress and confusion, it will cause worry and upset in the family. If the boyfriend leaves or abandons the partner, it will hit her trust and affection, which is also conceivable.
At this time, the boyfriend needs to make appropriate decisions and actions, including being open and positive, and allowing the family and family to respect their privacy and respect even if they support and understand each other.
In general, the boyfriend should show care and support in this situation, try to play a positive role, and at the same time give enough comfort and affection, and do not add additional burden and anxiety to the partner and her family. <>
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