I haven t thought about marrying my boyfriend yet, but my boyfriend s mother gives me money, should

Updated on psychology 2024-03-12
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Personally, I think that since you haven't thought about marrying your boyfriend, first of all, you shouldn't go to your boyfriend's house easily, which is also not good, because then your boyfriend's parents know that you are their daughter-in-law, and you will come in the future, so this is the first point, pay attention to the place, not a special thing, don't go to your parents easily, if you don't decide to get married. Secondly, if you have already gone, then the man's parents give you money, which is also a custom and etiquette. If you don't accept it, it doesn't seem to be particularly good, so you can accept it, but remember the money you accepted, and if you don't marry your boyfriend in the future, then you can return the money to your boyfriend, which is an option.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, although you are not married to your boyfriend, but the money given by your boyfriend's mother should also be accepted, if you don't accept his mother, you will suspect that you don't agree to deal with his son, you accept, it means that you and his son can get along, if she gives it to you, you can accept a little bit, tell him that money is so hard to earn, leave some money to buy yourself something delicious. Leave me alone, I'm still young and I'm not short of money.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's called look. What are you going to do after that? You can receive.

    Then your boyfriend goes back with you. When you borrow your parents, you can give the money to your boyfriend, which means that you don't take advantage of her in terms of money, because there are other meanings, right? This money is actually a kind of recognition for you.

    But this is the time for a good relationship, that's what it means, and the meaning of a bad relationship is to listen to it, you understand what I mean, that is. How so? You can say the same for cheating money.

    So as long as you don't want to be said that, it's okay, anyway, your parents gave him the same money as the money, but he didn't call it back on the surface, and gave it to him on the surface, which means that he also recognized him, as for whether you will be together in the future, it will still be good, and besides, using this money is not engagement money, and you don't enter, you are not a bride price, if it is a dowry, then don't, then you can't stand it, and you will take a complete test, if you are just meeting your parents for the first time, this is a meeting gift. Can you accept it or not? But if you don't say it, will the other party think that there is something you can't like?

    Or what's the reason you don't like them or something? But whatever? You have one thing you have to keep in mind, getting married is not familiar, and thinking about it more, at least there is no harm, right?

    Don't be too impulsive. It's your whole life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's best not to accept the money his mother gives you, because you are still hesitating, and if you don't want to get married right away after you do, they will put a lot of pressure on you. In case you break up, you're too embarrassed to take his money. It's best to take money from your boyfriend's parents when you're planning to get married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can't take it, and if you do, it's a hint that you accept your boyfriend and are willing to marry him. You haven't thought about it yet, wait until you think about it, and you're willing to accept the marriage before taking it. If, I'm talking about if, if you can't accept your boyfriend and don't want to get married, then you will quarrel over this money, it's better not to accept it at first, so you can get together and disperse.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't think about whether to get married, don't accept the money from the other mother, or if you accept, you can pay it back by buying clothes for his mother or buying gifts.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Generally, the man brings his girlfriend home for the first time, and the man's parents give you a meeting gift and money, because the man has communicated with his mother before, and his mother also recognizes you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Since you are not sure whether you are married to your boyfriend, it is best not to accept it, so as not to have financial disputes in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't think about it, don't take it, and even if you do, if you still don't get married in the end, the money should be returned to someone else.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is up to you, if you accept it, it means that you want to marry your boyfriend, if you don't accept it, you are not willing to marry your boyfriend. Look for yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can collect it first, after all, you are still together now, and no one can say what will happen in the future, you can collect the money first, and then if you break up, if you think it is not appropriate, you will return the money to him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't love money, you don't need it, if you must give it to you, you can accept it, and then choose the opportunity to buy some gifts for your mother-in-law that suits her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello, if you are this kind of mentality, then it is recommended that you must firmly refuse to accept this money.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Even if you haven't figured out whether to marry your boyfriend or not, you should accept the red envelopes his mother gave you, otherwise they should all have ideas.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you decide that the person you want to marry is your current boyfriend, you can accept it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    According to your description, such a situation is not better!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Accept it first, otherwise it's a bit of a slap in the face, if you really feel guilty, it's a big deal, you really can't talk about it, and the original number will be returned.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You didn't think about it now, it's a matter of time. Still haven't figured out whether to marry your current boyfriend? It's a question of who gets married. If it's the former, there's nothing you can't do, but if it's the latter, do you know what it means to take money?

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