What is it like to take the initiative to hold a boy s hand?

There didn't seem to be any special surprises for the first time. I made an appointment to meet and went with a good and expectant mood. When you arrive at the place, it may be early, so you have to wait left and right.

I feel so much looking forward to it, looking left and right and looking at it yet, and my eyes are looking at where I came. After a while, a handsome man walked slowly, and the elegant steps made people so fascinated. When I arrived, the first thing I said was, it's here!

Then I was embarrassed and didn't know how to get it, and after thinking about it, I took the initiative to say, let's go**? I don't know what to say, just go around, enjoy the beautiful environment, and just walk around. I don't know how to break such a dull atmosphere, and I wonder what to do?

I was also thinking that he was a boy and should take the initiative, and I also wanted to hold hands in my heart, and I felt embarrassed to be nervous when I met for the first time. In the process of retreating, he took the initiative to take it, and he also wanted to break the embarrassment. I also went to hold his hand, and she had to break free, so I grabbed it tightly.

Slowly I have a feeling, and there is also an atmosphere of love! For the first time, I was very nervous, embarrassed, and my palms were sweaty, as long as it was hot!

I still remember the first time we held hands was when we were on our first date, we were college classmates, and after chasing me for a while, we asked me to go to Jinan to play, and it was just us, I hesitated and decided to give him a chance. The last train arrived at the station at more than two o'clock in the morning, got off the train and couldn't find a place to stay, there were too many people in the tourist season, so I had to go to the legendary Daming Lake, when the night was dark and the wind was high, suddenly a frog jumped into the water, I was startled, and then I held his hand, hehe. Later, when I asked him how he felt, he said that he felt like he had no bones, his hands were soft, thin and slippery, and now that he had been married for more than a year, his hands had become thicker.

I'm stupid, I saw a place in elementary school, girls study well, boys are gangsters, girls chase boys, running all over the classroom. But I'm not interested, and I think about playing video games every day. There are more objects in middle school, there are men chasing women, I help pass on love letters, and there are women chasing men, I help make appointments.

I'm still not interested, and I just think about playing basketball every day. In college, there are almost no partners, there are girls who ask their dorm mates to ask me out, there are girls who go to the library to give me apples, and girls are more direct, pull me and say that I am a partner, I compromised, it was a junior at that time, and I was held by her all over the campus. Later, when I heard her talk about the experience, she said that because she liked me, she was not shy.

The first time I held my boyfriend's hand was in high school, when the school was still against early love, and holding hands was already restrictive. Because I live on campus, my first hand-holding was in the evening, and I was on my way back to the dormitory after evening self-study! It suddenly rained that day, and none of my classmates brought umbrellas, so he took off his clothes to cover me from the rain!

It's the first time I've been close to a boy so closely, and I'm shirtless, I feel like I'm out of breath, my face is hot, and my heart feels like I'm going to jump out! So I don't remember how to hold hands, I don't remember how to get into the dormitory, I just remember that I couldn't go to the toilet when I was nervous!

The first time I held my boyfriend's hand, it wasn't the kind of fingers that were clasped together. It's like pulling someone's hand. Reluctant to let go. I'm embarrassed to change positions. Outsiders look incongruous kind. But it's a good feeling.

I took the initiative when I held hands with my first love for the first time, my boyfriend was relatively shy at that time, and I also fell in love with him at first sight and pursued him. If you ask me what my experience is, it's probably full of happiness.

The first time I held my boyfriend's hand was the last time we watched a movie together, because we were watching a horror movie, and when it came to the horror scene, I suddenly subconsciously grabbed my boyfriend's hand, and I didn't care if I was shy or not, I was full of fear.

1. Hinting at you.

When a guy is interested in you, he will then hint at you by holding hands and express his love for you, holding hands is an intimate way of communication, and you can sense the other person's heart without words. For example, if the two go shopping together, and the boy suddenly goes to hold the girl's hand, it means that the boy wants to date you, and he also hopes that you can give it a try, and if the girl is unwilling, she can withdraw her hand, which is also an indirect response to the boy, but it may also be that the girl is too shy or hesitant, so she can only refuse first.

2. I love you so much.

If a boy really loves this girl, holding hands is a normal performance, when the boy puts his mind on the other party, then he can't wait to hold the girl's hand all the time, never let go, which shows that the boy lacks a sense of security in his heart, and hopes to use the way of holding hands to ease his heart'Disturbed.

So when a girl encounters this situation, it is best not to break free of his hand, and at the same time hold his hand tightly to give him the greatest comfort, and the boy will suffer from the psychology of gain and loss after paying sincerely, especially the girl is too good, which causes him a great sense of crisis, and holding hands is the best way to express his mind.

3. Protect you.

Couples generally walk hand in hand when they walk together, if the boy takes the initiative, it means that he wants to protect you and prevent you from getting lost, such a boy has a strong desire to protect, and the girl is best to stay by his side, so that the boy will be relieved a lot. Boys themselves have machismo, he believes that it is appropriate to protect girls, and holding hands in public is the greatest protection for each other.

Because boys like girls! I want to be closer to him, so it's normal to hold her hand!

When a boy meets a girl he likes, the hormones in his body will be stimulated, and after the hormone is secreted, the boy will unconsciously want to get close to the girl, hold hands and hug, these actions that lovers will do.

Because when you like someone, you can't help but want to get close to each other, want to hold each other's hands, and girls' hands are very soft.

Because their hearts are full of fantasies, they want to hold this girl's hand at all times, so they will make their hearts full of security, and love will always want to accommodate his hand.

This is called the repulsion of the same sex and the attraction of the opposite sex. I can't talk about why, nature has created any higher animal, without exception.

Because this boy likes this girl very much, so the boy has such a performance, that is, he wants to test what kind of friend the girl is, and only in this way will he know whether the girl likes him.

Because opposites attract, boys have a good impression of girls and want to shorten the distance between the two by holding hands.

It depends on what relationship you have, if it's a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, holding hands is of course a small gesture to promote mutual affection.

Uncomfortable, I don't want to hold a girl's hand, it's a girl's hand, warm, hot, and very gentle.

The boy takes the initiative to hold your hand, and he should like you. It's also possible. Just liking it, and that's just the beginning.

I want to get in touch with you further. First hold hands, then hug, and then kiss Well, this posture is routine! First of all, do the basics and learn how to understand a person.

A boy takes the initiative to hold your hand because he likes you, if he doesn't like you, he won't hold your hand, and if he likes you, he will hold your hand if he loves you.

That's of course liking, wanting to be with you, otherwise it doesn't make any sense.

It is also normal for women to take the initiative to hold the boy's hand, as long as you can know that the other party also likes you, but you are a little shy and dare not take the initiative, then the girl can also roll the source occasionally if she takes the initiative!