Should I be firm with the person I like or choose the person I like?

If it were me, I would find someone to fall in love with. "Love" means that he loves me and I love him. The premise is that he falls in love with me first, and then I fall in love with him.

I once had a crush on someone, and I also tasted the pain of lovesickness that can only be watched from a distance and can not be played profane, although the feeling of falling in love is very beautiful, very happy, and I feel that my life has one more motivation worth pursuing, but he doesn't like me, so I didn't continue to toss myself, I thought it was difficult for me to let go, but in fact it wasn't, time will dilute the feeling of being in love to move me. After falling in love, I realized that love should not be a person's business. If you are lucky enough to meet someone who cherishes each other, you will find that even if you look at a small flower, visit a park, buy a snack, or eat a barbecue, it is all a taste in your eyes.

Some people say that when they are young, they will find what they like, when they are hurt, they will find what they like, and when they grow up, they will find what they like each other. It's true, but it's hard to do. In my opinion, when it comes to choosing between the two, you should still follow your heart.

Why? In terms of love psychology, boys like a sense of conquest, and girls like a sense of security. So the boy should be with the one he likes, and then work hard for her; Girls should find someone who likes them and seek stability.

When we like someone, it must be happiness from the heart. Only when we take the initiative to love can we understand the true meaning of love.

Of course, you should find someone you like, what's the point of not liking to live together, the marriage will not last long, and it will not be happy, and it should be neat and tidy in front of love. After the two people get to know each other, they slowly get to know each other, and if they feel that they can, they can continue to talk, and don't force it, because the two of them have to live a lifetime together.

I will choose the person who likes me, because if he loves me, he will tolerate all that I have, and I will try to accept him and love him. If you choose someone you like, then maybe he doesn't care what you give, because he doesn't love you, and he won't try to love you.

Let's talk about myself, I've talked about two, the first one I love, I think he's the best person, I don't have a routine but I do my best, and in the end I failed, I was broken up, it's very painful, and I recognize a person, and I have no regrets. The second is like a relative, but I don't like this person to take the initiative to break up, because I realize that I can't just accept and not want to give, and I can't always face a person who is not moved. If you can't have both, it's better to find someone you love, at least you will have the motivation to chase, and even become better, more distinct joys, sorrows, and sorrows, isn't this where the joy of life lies?

What you like must be that you feel better than you in some way, so why not follow the truest thoughts in your heart, and spend time with the person you like is meaningful, otherwise it will make time meaningless.

Find what you like, even if we pay a lot, we feel willing, for the people we like, are you willing to care about so many gains and losses? The happiness of the other party may make you doubly happy, there are many people who are desperate for the result, desperate to lose their love for someone.

Some people give you a good first impression, and by understanding you, you will feel that the other party has a lot of shortcomings, a lot of problems that you can't bear, and it is difficult to change, for example, some people like to play online games, play without knowing anyone, and live in a world of people. Some people like to gamble, gambling is that the six relatives do not recognize, all day long to think about beautiful things, want to get rich overnight, this stinky problem is also difficult to change, some people lose is bankrupt, the wife is separated, the family is ruined, in order to wake up, like this no one likes, it is better to live alone.

If the other party likes you, they will pay a little more, and even all their thoughts will be spent on you, and good things will think of you first, which will be of great help to your married life in the future.