What should a girl say when meeting on a blind date?

On the night of the blind date, if the other party sends you a text message saying that he is happy to meet you tonight, looking forward to the next meeting, etc., if you feel that you can continue to develop, reply to him, you are also very happy to know him, in short, you must respond positively, which is very important for the man. If you don't want to continue to develop, you can send a good person card and praise him. Whether you want to continue to develop or not, it is still important to respond positively, and let the man know what you really think, which is in the interest of others and yourself.

As a girl, you don't need to think about some topics when you go on a blind date, just talk about it along the boy's question, unless you have a point that you are particularly concerned about, especially want to know, of course, the boy will generally talk about the interesting things that happened when he was a student, the general content of the work, how to consume weekend time, hobbies and hobbies.

It's best not to ask about the house, car, and deposit on the first date, but now it's all about looking at the external conditions, such as appearance, height, and body shape.

Since they have chosen a blind date, then the two people must be going for the purpose of marriage, so both parties can talk about their families, after all, if they succeed, they will definitely be in contact later, and girls will even have to live with boys' families in the future. And talking about family can also tell each other about their own growth history and conduct from the side.

If the man is interested, he will take the initiative to talk to you. If the man doesn't take the initiative to look at his mobile phone, it is estimated that there will be no play. But if you want to play with your mobile phone, even if the man is interested, he is embarrassed to say anything.

Be confident and generous! If you can't control your nervousness, after meeting, say hello to the introducer and talk to the introducer.

Although the matchmaker may have introduced some mate selection criteria to both parties before the blind date, some details or a little private things still have to be explained to the other party in person. In this way, you can understand whether the other party is your ideal choice through a blind date, and it can also save the time of the two.

So what can not be said about a blind date for the purpose of marriage.

1. How many times have you kissed.

Although blind dates need to be honest with each other, don't talk about any topic. Out of curiosity, some people ask each other at the beginning: "How many times have you kissed each other?"

No matter who listens to such a question, it will feel very heartbroken, and it also hurts self-esteem a little, so you must pay attention to proportionality when speaking.

2. How do you feel about me?

It's best not to ask the other person when chatting on a blind date: "How do you feel about me?" "If the other person doesn't like you, it's going to be this issue.

If the other party falls in love with you, but is too shy and embarrassed to say it, you can only laugh it off. At this time, the blind date atmosphere will definitely be awkward, so such a problem is not good.

3. I have also seen many conditions better than yours.

Blind dates must have a sincere heart, and it would be too boring if you kept making comparisons. Don't say on a blind date: "Actually, I've seen a lot of people with better conditions than you."

This is very annoying, because you are here to go on a blind date, not to belittle others. If you don't even give face to the other party, there is no need to continue the conversation.

4. I don't like blind dates that are forced.

When you go on a blind date, you have to learn to speak, often many people don't like blind dates, so they say directly to the blind date: "Actually, I don't like blind dates, and every time I go out on a blind date, I am forced." "The person who said these words may feel nothing, but the person who listens to it is very embarrassed, because such words are too hurtful, and it is recommended that such words should not be mentioned when going on a blind date.

How to avoid embarrassment on a blind date for the purpose of being married.

1.Good image.

If you want to date without embarrassment, it's best to start with a good image. Ladies can dress a little more formally, and it would be perfect if they wore light makeup. Men are mainly clean and comfortable, and the most important thing is to look energetic.

After this step, the blind date is already half the battle.

2.Prepare the topic.

In order to effectively avoid the awkwardness of dating, you should close your mind and think about the topics you can talk about in advance. For example, interesting experiences you have had, such as recent hit TV series, can be your talking point. But it's important to note that it's best to pick a light-hearted topic.

You can ask more questions about the basic information given to you by the introducer, and ask more questions about the other party's hobbies and expertise, so that it is easy to generate new topics and arouse the other party's desire to communicate. You can also talk about things that have just happened around you recently, which will make your relationship feel closer.

3.Try to be proactive.

When two relatively strangers sit together, the cold scene will definitely appear, and once the cold scene will be awkward, which is normal, but embarrassing 10 seconds is enough, please immediately look for a topic to transfer. Boys should try to take the initiative at this time, and girls should not feel that they have nothing to do with themselves, a good chat atmosphere needs to be created by two people, and someone will pick up the stalk, so that the topic can continue.

When you go on a blind date, you can't talk casually, and you can't say anything when you think of it. Especially when you meet for the first time, what should you say? It's a good idea to talk about each other's work, but you must pay attention to each other and not just talk about yourself.

You can briefly introduce yourself at ** work, what work you mainly do, and don't speak too fast when you speak. It is a good idea for men to start introducing themselves so that both parties can get to know each other in general and can observe each other's speech through the language. Here's a note, don't say that you're bored at work, you're just messing around all day, and don't say that you're very low.

This is not for you to deceive the other party, but to express your own acceptance problem in a euphemistic way, such as saying that your career has just started, or that you are okay, don't say it too directly, because most people don't want to marry a loser, if you say that you are a failure, of course the other party will believe it and treat you as a loser, and there will be no follow-up after the first meeting. Many people will talk about their work or other things when they go on a blind date, completely ignoring the other party's feelings and laughing stupidly, which is easy to disgust. When meeting for the first time, you should try to leave a subtle and polite impression on the other party, it is best to point to the end when speaking, take into account the feelings of the other party, and when the other party asks questions, don't let the donkey's lips not match the horse's mouth, answer the question, and use concise language to the topic, so that the other party will feel that you have connotation, cultivation and quality.

Many people think that the success of a blind date depends on looks, but this is not entirely correct, language is also very important, and conversation is a means to cultivate the feelings of both parties. When you go on a blind date, you should talk about your parents as little as possible, why? Talking too much about your parents will make the other person feel that you are not mature enough, and secondly, they will feel insecure with you.

Generally, two people who go on a blind date usually have some understanding of each other's parents and the situation at home, and if they always talk about the topic of their parents, it will be redundant, because after all, blind date is a matter for both men and women, and if you talk about your parents, you have to point to the end, and you can't talk about it too much. Parents are not the determining factor in blind date and marriage, but it can easily affect the success rate of blind date. If you tell the other person that the words of your parents at home are holy decrees, it is absolutely unflattering and even offensive for a person who is about to get married and start his own family to say such things.