How to deal with your own psychological problems! I want to have a clear conscience 5

People are floating in the world, how can they not be beaten with knives People are like this, stumbling and stumbling, ups and downs, this is life, I mean that people can't be smooth sailing, contradictions are always inevitable Either you hurt someone else, or someone else hurts you, whether it's beneficial or unintentional, you feel guilty about her, then you should hurt her, so you just have to explain everything to her, apologize to her, and make it clear, but you have to add a sentence at the end, "I'm sorry, I already have someone I like, we don't fit, I hope you live happily".

Then take a good look at the present life, love the present, and forget the past! No one can travel through the past! Only grasp the present! Don't torture yourself with the past!

So, you just need to explain to your ex-girlfriend well, clarify everything, say sorry when you should say sorry, apologize when you should be sorry, then bless her, and then hurt her now!!

Bless you!!

It seems that you haven't come out of the first relationship yet, how can you accept the second relationship? Since you have broken up, but you still feel guilty in your heart, explain it to the girl, confess what you want to say in your heart, make a decision, and treat your current girlfriend with peace of mind. Wishing you happiness!

Cherish the girl in front of you, you can't make mistakes again and again, the past is irretrievable, and you should cherish the present. Give all your love for the original girl to the current girl, so that it is fair to everyone.

The way to deal with it is for you to see and know yourself clearly.

Don't take it for granted and overthink it. Understand who you really like and care about. Instead of suffering from gains and losses, dilemmas.

I think you may be very narcissistic, always feel that you are the best, your ex-girlfriend will definitely find a more suitable one, fate is unpredictable, cherish your current girlfriend, people have to progress, not yesterday again.

You and your ex-girlfriend have broken up, if you don't want to reunite, don't provoke her, it will cause misunderstanding and hurt, and someone will care about her.

New love is always joy, and old love is always love.

It looks like you're going to have to take a good look at these 2 relationships!

If you're guilty, have you done something you're sorry for your ex-girlfriend?

If not, you understand that breaking up is a common thing between lovers! No one is sorry for anyone!

Cherish what is in front of you, let him pass the past.

The article was very long, with very little punctuation, and I actually read it all. The sophomore girl in high school, and the girl in the same dormitory have changed from friends to the most familiar strangers. It can only be said that that girl is deeper than your city and has scheming.

Because you can't get used to some of her ways, someone must have reached her ears with these words, so it's almost impossible for you to go back to the old days.

What you have to pay attention now is not to say anything about her in front of other classmates, so as not to spread it around and cause unpleasantness to everyone. It is recommended to communicate with the teacher about the closure of the dormitory, and what to do if this situation occurs (after all, the punishment is not good, what if you call her and don't agree, what if you lock someone in the dormitory by mistake). You must not cheat in the exam, so that you can get your real results.

In the future, you will have more contact with positive students, don't dwell on this matter, and use your energy on studying, you are also a strong girl, and getting a good score in the college entrance examination is the most important thing.

Hello: I've read your question. What I want to tell you is that you were too nervous, and what you said did affect you.

First of all, this happens to many children. It's good for the two of them to stick together at this time. From your description, I found that you are growing up, and she is not growing, perhaps because of her family environment. This friend of yours needs to see a psychiatrist.

Second, you need to keep your distance from her. You try not to be so deliberate and busy with your own business. When you meet, you should talk. If that doesn't work, it's recommended that you change schools.

This is your delusion, you have no confidence in yourself, you are too careful in being a person and doing things. I always feel like I'm not doing something right. I'm afraid that people will be angry, in fact, you think right, don't dwell on the past, let go of the past, say something, don't hold it in your heart, don't think about things that are too complicated.

People should live more cheerfully.

First of all, I think you have to learn to look at everything, and there must still be an element of jealousy in your heart. Secondly, if you can't get used to this kind of person, it's good to stay away from her, so why be angry with yourself. Even though it may be uncomfortable in your heart, you have to learn to get used to it.

I think this girl you said is very casual, this girl, you'd better not associate with her and stay away from her, she can watch from afar, not inmate, it will bring you badly, you seem to be a little jealous of her, there is nothing to be jealous of this woman is too capable, you just need to put your mind on studying and study hard.

Living tired is because there are superfluous things in your heart, which is the same as eating and supporting. Some people, some things, see clearly, and they look down on them.

Knowing that something is wrong means that you are still very clear about yourself.

Read more books, go out and walk more, read more, talk less and think more.

It's not as serious as you think, and you can't ignore it.

You may see some things too important, some overly nervous, so you feel that you have a psychological problem, sometimes you are just scaring yourself, it is recommended that you go out for a walk, communicate more with friends around you, go out for a walk, find something else, distract your attention, it really can't work, just find a psychologist, so that it can be completely solved.

I have to be angry to correct it.

The past is like smoke, smiling and peaceful. Slowly understand that people will experience too many ups and downs in their lives, and it will not always be smooth sailing, nor will it always be turbulent. No sky is always clear, no man's heart is always spotless; Therefore, after a thousand sails, we must learn to be strong, learn to be patient, and learn to be calm!

In good times, there is more thinking, and in adversity, there is more courage; When you are successful, you will be more indifferent, and when you are hesitant, you will have more faith.

Actually, you don't have to worry too much about these things, I think you mainly don't have the focus of your life, and focus on some inconsequential things. As long as you focus your life on learning or socializing something meaningful, you won't care about those things. If you look back at it, you will see that your ideas are naïve.

Hehe. It's okay, brother, the sky is falling, I'll help you withstand it.

Hehe. It's not that serious, and it's not that seeing a psychiatrist is a psychological problem.

Normal people also have some psychological problems.

Just like people's emotions are good and bad.

You might have some problems with relationships, right?

The wallet is obviously put away, but the psychological suspicion is not put away.

This thing exists in everyone, lock the door and walk for a while and then come back to determine whether the door is really locked, this is called "psychological compulsion", just look at it with a normal heart.

Some serious ones, like washing your hands, you always feel that you can't wash them clean, and even your hands are washed out, which becomes a disease, and you always feel that people are coming to retaliate against you, which is a psychological hint If you feel that you are doing something wrong, don't be impulsive about what you do in the future, be kind.

Don't make a fuss, don't be addicted to the Internet, and the game is also guarded against addiction, isn't it?

It's not a problem to bring yourself to reality, get involved in more physical exercise, and communicate with friends and classmates.

Hope you have good news o(o....

You can find a psychological counselor in the school, in fact, it is not very serious, many people will have a slight tendency to obsessive-compulsive disorder, it is normal, it has something to do with your personality and the state at the time, you try to relax a little, in fact, you are conscious, that is, you know that your behavior is a little overreacting, this is not serious, you relax, don't scare yourself, next time there is such a time, you have to restrain yourself, drag yourself more on the right track, and soon it will be fine. If you put more effort into your studies, you will be much less cranky.

You're sick!

We have a woman here who is just like you, and she doesn't like anyone all day long, and always thinks that someone else has taken her things and won't return them. It's the truth, but it's not like that at all.

The doctor said, "It's called auditory hallucinations." I guess you have this disease too.

But she couldn't be cured, because she always wanted to curse.

In my opinion, the following methods are needed to cure this disease: 1. Believe in yourself, and if you do something well, you will do it well. You don't have to look at it over and over again, 2 put your mind right, there are many people now, and there are not so many truth-seeking people, including your "wife".

People may not care about your feelings, don't be sentimental.

Everything is on your own, and the current thing is learning. Spend more time studying, and don't waste time at will!

Finally, I will send you 4 words: live well.

I used to have a bit of a thing like you checking your wallet all the time.

It's just checking the keys in the bag, the wallet, and running back to look at the door that has just been locked.

Some people say it's a bit of a mild obsessive-compulsive disorder, and I'm not an expert and can't be sure.

But I think this is a manifestation of distrust, not trusting oneself and not trusting the people around you, so there will be this kind of manifestation psychologically!

You can try forcing yourself not to check what's in your bag, forcing yourself not to look at it every time you want to reach for it, telling yourself over and over again that it's definitely there, and so on. I've been doing that for a while, and I'm much better now. At first, it will be very uncomfortable and uncomfortable, but after a while, you can get through it.

If you're really troubled, go to a psychiatrist! I think that's also a psychological comfort for myself.

I hope you hurry up**, don't study or anything because of this influence, many people have this kind of situation, so don't go too psychologically!

Is it a man, isn't it?

Be a real man to watch!

Wallets. Put it and put it away. I didn't pull it down. Whatever he wants, he scolds whenever he wants. Hurry up and scold. Afraid of what retribution. Just come. Scolding to the face.

You are a little unconfident, I have also been in the past, locked the door, and always don't believe that it has been locked, and you have to go back and look again, it's nothing, but you are always unconfident in your heart, you don't believe in yourself, and it also shows that you are indecisive, stronger, more cheerful, don't always be depressed, and communicate more with the outside world. You're going to be fine, I'm much better now.

Yes, it is best not to take off mental illness to the later stage, you are still young, and it is better to treat it early!

Every day you have to suggest to yourself that you keep saying to yourself, "I'm doing well, I'm doing well, I'm doing well."

Need to see! Let me tell you, everything has to be opened, the Paralympic Games just held, there are many people with disabilities who used to feel that they have no hope, but aren't they all competing for gold and silver now?

There are some symptoms of self-compulsion, but don't worry, you need to adjust your mindset at this time, it's very simple.

Your spirit is in a state of tension and can collapse at any time. So.

You should find out what is the root cause of your anxiety and then solve it, if you can't solve it, you can ask a friend for help, or find a psychologist.

I don't know what happened to you recently, is it that some things have been backlogged for too long, proper catharsis and confiding can help your emotions, if these can't help you, you can talk to me!

Sometimes I think about these things, and I feel a little nervous, just don't pay attention to it.

Get away from the internet and get in touch with the real world.

That is, it is not correct, you are just a little more timid association, but too strong psychological suggestion, artificially magnifying the reason for this timidity, if it is serious, do not pay attention to the real corresponding.

Don't care about those friends, when you encounter mistakes, worms and you are destined not to say that the 300 times of looking back in the past life, in exchange for the passing of this life]? Insects must be the last generation to see what you see will be in such a life that you have the opportunity to climb up the twisted neck.

Think: everything is predestined, what's the use of not worrying? The association relaxes and accepts it.

In fact, you can't pass your own moral standards You think you're ashamed of that person, so when you see her, you feel sorry, and then you think about it, so you can't listen to the class. I don't know you very well, so my guess is so.

If I'm guessing correctly, the solution is actually quite easy, you just need to apologize and explain the situation. Whether you have her forgiveness or not, your own admission of what you have done is an act of so-called "redemption". Now that you are in your third year of high school, there are things you have to face bravely so that you don't delay your studies.

There's no need for you to give me points, but I hope you try to do it my way, to face her bravely, and face your own behavior in the past, you will naturally gain something. In addition, you said that you had a nasty classmate, but in fact, I had this situation back then. But then I thought, in fact, I hate who he has benefited, no one has benefited, but hurt himself, so either I just open my mind and accept that person, or I just ignore it, and hate a person in my heart, which is very uncomfortable......

It's not a big deal per se.

It's just that your mind amplifies it.

It's good to think about it lightly.