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First, filial piety comes first. Filial piety is China's development from the ancient "governing the country with filial piety" and "filial piety" to a huge cultural system. The extent to which it penetrated into the hearts of the Chinese was not something that could be destroyed by the May Fourth and Cultural Revolution.
Whether evaluating a man or a woman, "filial piety" is an indispensable basic moral value. Filial piety is the foundation of human (benevolence). Not to be wordy, when it comes to the filial piety of a daughter-in-law, what aspects should it be shown?
Filial piety is in the details, and the details reflect the feeling. Filial piety is an emotional feeling, as long as you let your family and people around you feel your filial piety, your parents-in-law and mother-in-law say that you are "filial piety", which is the real filial piety. Let me list the five details of a daughter-in-law's filial piety:
1. No matter how old and sloppy your mother-in-law is, when you go out with her, you should be very close to her, and it is best to hold your mother-in-law's arm. In fact, any mother-in-law is made from a daughter-in-law, and she deeply understands the importance of a woman being liked and needed. As long as you are close to your mother-in-law, she will treat you with a heart and say anything to you.
2. After eating, take the initiative to wash the dishes. This is considerate to the mother-in-law, who often takes the initiative to wash the dishes, not only the mother-in-law many times, does not let you wash, but also goes around saying hello. Because the mother-in-law knows that young people are tired from work, and she also tries to minimize the housework of her daughter-in-law.
3. If you work far away, at least once a week**. You may feel that there is nothing to say, but as long as the ** is connected, the mother-in-law will nag and talk for a long time.
4. Always pay attention to the body of the elderly, and buy supplements when you should buy them.
5. Call people more, "mother-in-law" and "mother". The most beautiful and beautiful voice in the world is when someone calls your name.
This is the excellent gene left in traditional Chinese culture. The magistrates have noticed that if the daughter-in-law treats her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law will treat her in a better way, and if the mother-in-law treats her well, then the mother-in-law still has the reason to dislike her daughter-in-law. Remember:
The mother-in-law is also a daughter-in-law, "comparing the heart to the heart". Rise to the height: Chinese culture is:
Interactiveism. I'll do to you what you do to me.
To put it bluntly: a daughter-in-law must first feel that her mother-in-law is good and good to her mother-in-law; Then the mother-in-law naturally thinks that the daughter-in-law is good and good to the daughter-in-law. Naturally, the family relationship is harmonious.
Second, by filial piety to loyalty. Starting from filial piety, filial piety is the basic assessment and exercise of a person's emotional intelligence, and the other side of filial piety is loyalty. A married woman, to her husband and family, don't talk about fleshy love, love her husband, love her family.
To do the most basic, loyalty is very good, loyalty is a kind of responsibility. Because love or not, as long as the husband knows. Loyalty, that is, to be true to the husband, on the one hand, is to care for the husband's life, and the other is to the son who can't think about other people's mothers-in-law.
This is very crucial, a person who is ready to become someone else's daughter-in-law will not be liked by his mother-in-law.
3. Be a good person first, and then do good deeds. With the most basic moral character, even if you don't have any ability, you can get the favor of your mother-in-law by being a housewife. Of course, because there are more only children now and the financial burden is heavy, it is better for the daughter-in-law to have the ability to earn money and do things.
Have a good career.
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I've read this book too, and I love it too. You can take a look at "A Thousand Miles of Marriage" and "Those Things in the Yuan Family" with messy horses' hooves, both of which meet your requirements, and I have finished watching them, they are very good.
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The so-called scumbag and bad man are two completely different concepts, bad is not correct, and scum is a character problem, some men are very bad but not scum, some men are not bad but extremely scumbag to themselves, and men who are generous to their girlfriends can marry with confidence. A man who picks on both himself and his girlfriend ,..Of course, if you are so cheap that you don't want to break up after being beaten, just ignore this paragraph!
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There are two types of girls around me who are prone to meet scumbags, one is a girl with a good family background, who has grown up spoiled since childhood, and is relatively simple, easy to lose her temper, impatient, and scolding casually, but she behaves elegantly in front of the target, and tries her best to disguise it, and the identification method is, if a man has an indissoluble hatred with an honest personality of the same sex.
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Senior scumbag: It is to treat love as work or fun. He gave everything to achieve his own ends. You feel like he loves you, but that's in disguise.
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is very good at pretending to love you very much, and his usual performance will make you feel that he loves you very much, will remember your lipstick number, will care about you, and is willing to spend money for you, and will also be very good at caring for you, but he wants to play with you and does not plan to get married.
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The scumbag is ruthless everywhere, and he may have many girlfriends at the same time, but he doesn't love anyone, no one is responsible, he just plays, and he loves himself the most.
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The scumbag is to fall in love with you and have an affair with several women at the same time, and the is that he obviously doesn't like you, and you still stick to it.
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Good for a woman, this is a warm man. It's good for all women (mostly refers to beautiful) to engage in ambiguity, this is a scumbag. are more diverse! For example, if you fall in love with a man who has a family, you are willing to be a second wife, and if you have a boyfriend, you still have an affair with others, etc.
The senior scumbag is a very good feeling**, and he believes what he says. Even if the girl is deceived, even if she knows that he is a scumbag, she will be played without hesitation!
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The scumbag's private life will be very chaotic or contact with multiple people at the same time.
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The so-called scumbag sees one who loves the other and lacks a sense of responsibility for the relationship.
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Scumbag, I remember I talked about one, at that time, my friends said that he was a scumbag, and I didn't believe it, because he was tall, and he had a sense of security, and he later said that he wanted to be with me, and I agreed, and chatted for a month, and then on the day of Qixi Festival, I went to look for him, and he said that he was playing in an Internet café for a night, and he wanted to go home to take a shower and change clothes, so he came to me, and as a result, I waited for a morning, and when I was hungry, I went to eat and sent him a message, and he said that he had no phone bill, and when Ha came, he wanted another hot spot with him to send me a message, and I waited again, and then I looked up He was having dinner with a woman, and he had other friends at the time, and I thought they were friends, and then he saw me and explained to me, and said that he was a friend, and I believed it, and then I left, and I said to sing, and I said that I was waiting for him at the place where I was singing, and after a few hours, he said that his mother had taken him back, and said that his mother had told me to break up with him, hehe, man, I knew at that time, I was green, and then I went to the woman and asked, "Was he green to me that day?" and she was so angry that I was supposed, and he was with me, and he was with that woman It was a long time before he admitted that he had greened me
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