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A friend next to him, her boyfriend had nothing to say to him, and he was also self-motivated, and he didn't have much money at the time. During a chat, my friend said "He's just a transition, and I'll break up with him when I find a better one", which amazed me.
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My parents have quarreled since I was a child, and my father has to beat my mother, and my father's violence makes me dare not believe it anymore.
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I have less experience in love, I talked with my first love for 4 years, and finally broke up because of a long distance, and after talking with my current one for three months, we entered into marriage.
I've always believed in love and the right person at the right time. Please also believe in love, otherwise you don't know how to face it when you really encounter love.
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After four years of relationship in college, they broke up because they couldn't work together.
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I gave everything but still lost him, I once tried to have another dream, and then I failed, I finally understood that my dream belonged only to the person who was gone, and I also found that having a dream is a painful thing.
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My brother-in-law blocked the lottery, lost all the money in the family, divorced, and took away his sister's only deposit, which was for his daughter's living expenses.
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I haven't experienced anything, and when I see the people around me, from marriage to divorce, from husband and wife to strangers, it is not as good.
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The best friend found a boyfriend who was 20 years older than her, and at first glance she was a rich generation who was married.
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Seeing that my aunt and uncle were arguing about money, the family was not at peace, and my sister didn't go home now, and I didn't want to see the discordant scene.
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After 5 years of love, I lost 2 children for him, and finally married a girl who was pregnant with his child, which made me unable to come out of my sadness for a long time, so that I no longer had confidence in love.
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My best friend broke up with her boyfriend who had been in love for 6 years, and within 10 days of the breakup, she married the rich second generation.
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My boss is a typical good man who loves his family, wife and children, but also outside.
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My cousin and sister-in-law have been in love for 9 years, married for 5 years, and one day after 5 years, the two quietly divorced.
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A girl who says she doesn't believe in love doesn't necessarily mean what she has experienced, but she may have seen through the essence of love, and she may not have an experience of falling in love, but she may say that she has seen the state of the people around her, for example, many people are married and divorced without much time, and then maybe the best friends around her are also hurt by others during the relationship, so these are very many, which will make you feel that there is no meaning in falling in love, and you are living well personally, so you don't believe in love, In fact, this is nothing, because many people are like this, some people are like this because they have said emotional intelligence, and some people see it very clearly at the time, saying, love is sweet, but they resist it in their hearts, and now there are so many people.
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First of all, we must reflect on the problems of the onset of this relationship, and then find the real self according to these problems, correct and adjust my mentality, and be the best version of myself.
In fact, there is no need to conclude that you are unconvinced of love so early, maybe you have been hurt in love, or divorced, on the outside it seems to be a difficulty or an obstacle, but in fact, from a relationship, we can still learn a lot.
Every time a relationship breaks up, we will have the opportunity to reflect deeply on what are the obligations I should bear in this relationship. At the same time, see what is there unfinished business in the relationship. Of course, nothing is more precious than what you learn from this relationship, and because of this part, you can apply it to your future relationships.
In any case, there must have been a lot of happy and wonderful times during the relationship, and these wonderful times will not be written off, and I believe they will remain in the depths of your memory. Sometimes, occasionally I will think of these past times, whether you have experienced those joys, happiness or pain and sorrow, it is the most real experience for you at that time, and it is the only way to go.
These experiences can help you find your true self, so that I can see clearly in the relationship, why are there difficulties and obstacles when I get along with each other, these origins come from the original family? What is the background to the growth? Or maybe some unhealed wound is being lifted, and so on.
The most precious thing in the relationship is that the other party will be like a mirror, allowing us to see me more clearly, from multiple angles and in multiple directions. Love yourself before you love anyone, that's what I want to say to you.
When you love yourself enough, when you clearly see the form of your habits in your previous relationship, and correct and adjust it, I believe that you will have the opportunity to come into contact with another new love or even marriage.
It is not that people need to get married, in my opinion, whether a person is single, or in love, or married, he is intact for the present, and everyone can live their own wonderful, develop their own inventiveness, and live a strong vitality. Whether you are single or in a relationship or marriage, none of this will prevent you from being a perfect person.
Love is still very wonderful, at this moment, when you say words of unbelievable love, I can understand, can also understand your state of mind at the moment, at the same time, I see that you in the future, there are many possibilities to attack, including, meet love. Would you like to believe it?
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You should participate in more social activities, go to your circle of friends, and let your good friends carry out psychological counseling, be confident, and understand that there is nothing wrong with a failed relationship, as long as you learn a lesson from the next relationship.
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You just haven't met the person who is more suitable for you, at this stage you can work hard to improve yourself, make some new friends, do something you like to divert your attention, you have to believe that good things will happen to you.
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You have to forget about the previous relationship. You can choose to be in a relationship with another person. Don't get too emotionally involved. Slowly adjust your state.
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In today's society, everyone doesn't seem to take love so seriously, and there are also many negative news and examples, which cause us to stop believing in love. So in your daily life, what makes you stop believing in love from now on?
For me, what makes me stop believing in love in my daily life is probably those examples of failure. We have seen many couples on the Internet, because of marital problems, and even domestic violence or even killing, etc., which has led to many people having fear of marriage. At the same time, there are many examples of falling in love for a long time, but they will be separated because of a trivial matter, resulting in the end not being able to enter the marriage hall, which also makes us lose confidence in love.
Love is still difficult to grasp, it's good to say when you meet the right person, you may live happily for a lifetime, but when you meet the wrong person, you will really regret it for a lifetime. Many people are completely different after falling in love and getting married, and these are the reasons why people don't have hope for love.
Actually, I'd like to say that those are just a few examples, and not everyone will be like that. We will still meet the right person, so we must have hope for love and believe that we will reap a good love. Don't always have negative energy for love, but have a positive and optimistic attitude, so that you can reap your own love.
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In daily life, the other party does not maintain my emotions at all, does not remember my birthday, and does not care about me, because of these things, I no longer believe in love.
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It was my ex's betrayal of me that made me no longer believe in love, because after experiencing this relationship, I was completely disappointed in love.
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My boyfriend's betrayal made me stop believing in love. Because in my opinion, he is a very loyal and trustworthy person, but he has done things that make me sad.
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It is the attitude of the other party, as well as the temper of the other party, and at the same time his particularly hurtful words, which may make you lose confidence in love.
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