What have you experienced that made you feel the impermanence of the world?

I think this feeling has become more profound since I grew up.

The first time I experienced the impermanence of the world was when I was in high school, a male classmate in my class who studied very well, and a relatively good student. I remember it was around my seat, and then it was a summer weekend, and I came home from vacation, saying that I passed by the river, went to swim in the river, and never came up. On Monday, when the teacher told us that, everyone was terrified, and it felt terrible that the seat was empty, and then his family came to clean up his books and so on, and told us that his mother couldn't bear the blow and was a little nervous now.

At that time, my first impression was that human life is really fragile.

Then there was another thing that happened, that is, the class flower of our class, who was also a member of the study committee, was very good, and then had a serious illness and dropped out of school. There is no news anymore, after a few years, I occasionally met on the street, I heard others chat, saying that I was married, but my brain was not good, my husband often beat her, and now there are several children at home, no income, my husband works outside alone, and life is quite poor. I feel that the contrast with her at the beginning is so big, just like I was a person who was not very inconspicuous at the time, average in learning, and not very good, and now I am also a husband and wife, living in the city, not very rich but well-off is still okay.

I always felt that such a beautiful and excellent girl deserved a better life, but I didn't expect the final ending to be like that, which is quite a pity.

Later, after experiencing more divisions and mergers, gathering and dispersing, as well as life and death, etc., I sincerely felt that the way of heaven is permanent and the world is impermanent. But to grow is to understand these truths, to understand that the world is impermanent, and to be less complacent when you succeed, less disappointed when you fail, etc.

I don't know when I began to feel the impermanence of the world, probably from the people around me who started to leave me! Grandma left this world in 2008, at that time I was still young, not sensible, but I felt particularly scared, I was afraid of the dark and afraid of ghosts since I was a child, although I often watch ghost movies, because I know that I sleep with my parents at night, so I dare to watch, but that time grandma suddenly fell ill and died, I felt that people will die, and when they are old, they will leave this world, at that time should not be emotional, let me sigh The beginning of the incident was that my cousin died unexpectedly 2 years ago, Since I was a child, I have always called him brother, he is also very good to me, sometimes buy me snacks, play with me, two years ago he was in a car accident and left unexpectedly, I was a month after he left to know about it, no one at home told me, the day of his accident happened to be when I was ready to go home after the exam, I went home the day I was buried, but I didn't go home because I was playful, but went to play with friends, and then lived at my sister's house for a while, I went home, I went home and no one told me, I went to my uncle's house, A niece in his family whispered to me, I missed it, I just knew, children don't lie after all, my cousin is a few years older than me and still very young, suddenly left, really sad, if birth, old age, sickness and death is a common thing, but young life should not be lost because of accidents, at that time I began to feel how weak human life is, the world is so big, human life is so fragile, so no matter what difficulties people encounter when they are alive, no matter how sad you are, you have to think open, To live happily is more important than anything else, life is very short, so you must cherish the people around you, cherish your own life, love your own life, and spend your life happily with the people you love.

I remember when I was in elementary school, there was an old grandfather near my home, I often went to his granddaughter's door to play, he often gave me something to eat, he was quite young, the day before he talked and laughed with us, the next day he went to the mountains to pick fruit and died, that day I was still playing at his house, his daughter-in-law heard ** and anxiously let me go home, and then they put on their clothes and probably went to the hospital, and came back very late for a while, and tore off the door of the house and replaced it with a white one, which looked very scary, I didn't dare to walk over, just look at the side, at that time there were many people around, are looking at their home, the day before I looked at a good person, there was talking and laughing the next day I couldn't speak, think about me anxiously ran home, because I was about to hear the voice of the chanting again, in addition to the darkness of the sky, I felt even more uncomfortable, at that moment I felt that the world is impermanent, you never know which one will come first tomorrow or disaster.

The other day, my dad came to pick me up from school, and I sat in the back seat playing on my phone. When he was waiting for the red light, he suddenly said: Son, stop playing with your phone.

Is it okay to listen to me? I didn't put my phone down, I just said to him, "Say it, I'll listen."

Then he said, "Actually, I have less and less time to spend with me." In the past, when I was in elementary school and junior high school, you would go home every day after school, and we could see each other every day.

I can make you food every day. But you're in high school and come back once a week. Usually your mother and I just cook noodles and eat rice noodles.

They rarely cook, do you know why?Because cooking is so troublesome, and I have to buy vegetables, and I always cook too much for two people. There's always nothing left to eat, so we'll cook and cook when you come back.

I don't want you to eat more. And now that you're in high school, we're seeing each other more than 200 days a year than before. What about going to college in the future?

What about work?We can really count the number of times we have seen each other in the future.

At home during the Spring Festival this year, I suddenly heard that a man from the neighboring village had passed away, and this man was still my former classmate, just in the prime of life, with a son and a daughter under his knees, a virtuous wife, and innocent children. I heard that I was in a car accident on the way back after attending a friend's party. Remembering that he was still my classmate, I suddenly said that he was gone, which was too unexpected, and it also made me really feel the impermanence of the world.

Halloween. Half an hour before you plan to start going out for a party. I received a ** from my junior high school classmate Z, and the voice of Z on the other end was low.

Z told me that my junior high school classmate S was terminally ill. Hearing the news, I was dumbfounded for a moment, and for a moment I couldn't find anything to say. Z and S were good friends in junior high school, two of the 28 students in our junior high school class who were admitted to key middle schools, including me.

No one can understand how precious my junior high school classmates are to me, our junior high school class is a legendary key class in middle school, there is no intrigue, and almost every classmate is a good brother who fights side by side. I chatted with Z for a while, and the moment I hung up **, I directly covered my face and cried bitterly.

On the way back to school that night, I was so tired that I fell asleep, dreaming that when I was very young, she would play with me on a vintage bicycle every night after school, and I would sit on the front bar of the bicycle and talk to her while eating snacks. I slowly tilted my head from the backrest to the aisle and woke up to find everyone asleep, and I woke up to be twenty-two years old. My mind repeatedly alternates between the young and flying face of my mother in my dream and the bleak and lonely back when I left that afternoon, which is really like a world away.

Due to the ups and downs of the industry, the company's management has changed very much in the past few years, maybe today it is a vice president, tomorrow it will become an assistant vice president or director, and it will be transferred to a department or workshop that has nothing to do with before, without any substantive work arrangement. I am not talking about myself, I have been in a company for almost seven years, I first came in as a technician, now I am a senior engineer, and I have also done management in the middle.

The bustling pedestrian street is crowded with people, mothers and daughters shopping together, clothes and accessories, makeup and playthings. The daughter said, "Mom, help me take this one, I'll go to the fitting room and wear a plus-size one" The mother took the long dress, and the daughter deftly walked inside.

At that time, the guests just walked out, and the boss turned his head to look elsewhere, and at that moment my mother stood in front of the mirror, holding up her colorful dress and gesturing in front of her. Mom smiled slightly, and was a little sad, this is the cruelty of the years.

During the boring summer vacation, the ice cream soaked the homework, but the floating light was good, and the dust in the floating light was also quite good, and everything was fine, because this was my son's summer vacation. When my father came back from work, there was no one at home, and the stinky boy ran out to play again. He shook his head, threw the melted ice cream on the table into the trash, and turned to see his son's new game console plugged into the TV.

He crept over and picked up the handle, but pressed it for a while and didn't quite understand. Father sighed and put the handle down again and turned off the TV.

Her: "What were you doing ten years ago?" Me: "Ah, I think about it, at this time in 1996, I was still flirting with my freshman junior high school girl." She: "Uncle......."Ten years ago it was ...... 2006"I almost couldn't stop crying.

Life from nothing, from existence to nothing, life and death, constitute this vast world. From the point of view of the impermanence of life, life is like a dream. Therefore, as long as a person lives a sound and tasteful life, he will not go to this world in vain.

Although it is said that "life is like a dream" and "life geometry", from the perspective of the transience of life, life is indeed uncertain. However, how to improve the quality of life and how to live a meaningful life should be a permanent topic for people, and it should be perceived and understood by everyone. Life is impermanent, peace of mind is the place to belong!

The mountains are speechless, and the deep waters are silent. In the face of impermanence in life, the soul should be as calm as water, and life will be like flowing water, light and elegant. Do something and then do nothing, maverick rather than inflammatory, steady and tenacious without flashy restlessness, no hesitation and lightweight.

No matter how painful life is, I just laugh it off. Don't be deterred by hardships and hardships, don't get lost by flowers and applause, this may be the true character of a hero in impermanence.

The impermanence of life is simply a reaction to the repeated changes in people's mentality, some people show it more intensely, some people are deeper, and on the surface it seems that the change is not so obvious. When a person lives in a carefree environment, he will be sunny, handsome, unrestrained, and full of flowers and applause. When encountering setbacks or failures, the former's mentality will show a plummet, such as falling into the abyss and unable to extricate itself, from one extreme to another.

Once things have taken a turn for the better, the mentality can immediately go back to the past, such things will inevitably encounter several times in life, and whether such a repetition can be called impermanence in life.

Life is impermanent, birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws. There are unpredictable circumstances in the sky, and people have good and bad luck; The moon is cloudy and sunny, and people have joys, sorrows, and sorrows. The ups and downs of the world, and the gold, wood, water, fire and earth of nature are accompanied by each other, and they are interdependent, there are joys and sorrows, blessings and disasters, I don't know which one comes first, it will happen at any time, it is a blessing or a curse, it is a disaster that cannot be avoided, luck and sadness coexist, so life is impermanent, people do not spend your days to return you, cycle between heaven and earth, people between the two, there are constant companions, and it is normal to stay.

The world we live in is full of random events and accidents, and these events will also affect our lives. Just like the butterfly effect, that is, some small things that happen outside will fluctuate to some rhythm of our life, and even the direction, which is one of the reasons for the impermanence of life, we live in a relationship, we will be affected by a relationship, and the other side of the relationship is a random event. As a result, our life cannot be pushed forward by a constant constant, and there must be some variables inserted that lead to the impermanence of our life.

If life is a constant, not a variable, it is impermanent, and you can imagine how boring such a life is for everyone. You imagine that a child born of a dragon and a phoenix and a mouse will make a hole, and if life is a constant to carry out life, what will you feel, you will feel the moment you come into this world, you will know the state of the moment when you die. The impermanence of life, which has a part of her tragedy and part of his comedy, means that life is a variable, and you can make this variable the way you want it to be.

The impermanence of life can be divided into two categories: tangible and intangible. One is tangible, which is the birth, aging, sickness and death of people themselves, as well as the changes in material wealth; The other type is intangible, which is the impermanence of joy, anger, sorrow, love, hatred, and hatred, as well as power and reputation.