I m so tired, my buddies are all big bosses, and now I lack nothing

Dude, you're still having a problem with your mentality. Just thinking that your brother has become a boss and is picky about you. But when you didn't expect it, since your brother is the boss, you don't work hard to make your brother less annoying.

According to your dictation, it shouldn't be long before you should be out to work. My brother has become the boss, and he is better behaved. I also encountered a situation like you 3 years ago, and the same table in college asked me to switch to his, and gave me 2 times my current salary a month.

I've always lowered my mind in the past, he's your brother, but he's still your boss mainly. You must first be worthy of the salary he gives you, and you must also be worthy of his trust. Working with him, I am not only strict with myself, but also respectful of his opinions.

In some small matters, the loss of mistake is not great, or it has nothing to do with right and wrong and non-principle, even if he has his own opinion, or he is wrong, as long as he emphasizes the way to deal with it, he also listens to his opinion... It took me one year to go from head of department to vice president. Part of it is my efforts not to make mistakes, and part part of it is that I show that I am of the same mind as him in my work.

I am a champion of Him ... From 20 people in the past, it has grown to more than 50 people. I quit my job last year.

Looking at personal ability and vision, many people work 9 to 5 for a higher position and higher salary, so they will never be able to get rich.

Some people have all kinds of brains, invest when they have money, and make friends everywhere, so it is easy to be a boss, just open two small shops, and tens of millions of dollars a month are easy.

I quit after working for two months in my sophomore year, and I applied for a college student business loan, and now I graduated a year ago, opened a dessert shop, and now I am a small boss with 10,000 yuan a month.

Money can't be saved, it has to be spent, the most worthless thing is money, the money is not enough to open a store, so you invest in someone else's store, and get dividends every year more than depositing in the bank. If you have enough to open a store, if you make money and then invest in others, if you have enough to open a branch. One step at a time, very quickly.

This friend, there is no need to be so pessimistic in life, really, since life has become what it is now, will you be pessimistic will change, everything must be actively and hard to face to become better, parents have parents' difficulties, you are still young, you will understand when you are older, study is not good, not to declare that your life is not good, many big bosses are not much culture, I think you should understand, since you work hard, it is not good, we can change the way of thinking, change a way of life. When you graduate, you go to work, and work hard to learn a life technology, I think it is not always possible, I hope to see a happy life in the future, good luck!

Actually, you are still a student, and you feel tired without work pressure, I think, mainly because of the lack of love, and your heart is tired.

Since our parents can't give us the warmth we want, we have nothing to blame, after all, they also have their lives to live, just like when we grow up, we will eventually leave our parents and live alone. It's just that you are earlier than others, and you lack the love of family affection that blood is thicker than water.

Therefore, if I were you, I would take a good grasp of my life, although I can't choose to be born, I can choose my future life, and I will never take my own lifetime of happiness because of the misfortune of my parents.

You are still young, it's still too late to work hard, you are usually cheerful, don't worry about the little at home, even if you manage it now, you don't have that ability. It's better to rely on yourself, work hard to learn skills, have a good relationship with your classmates, make one or two buddies, go out for a walk, and you will find that things are not as early as you think. If you want to get warmth, you must first warm yourself, then warm others, and finally, you may get the warmth you want.

I hope you can have fun.

It is a great kindness to our parents to bring us into the world and give us the right to be human beings.

It's okay to communicate more with friends around you, compare your heart to your heart, and you will definitely have good friends.

Take 10,000 steps back, even if no one cares about you, you must care about yourself and live yourself.

As for the results, as long as you work hard, find the right direction, and work hard, there is no unsuccessful, just ask if you don't understand, draw inferences from one another, and persevere, there will definitely be a turnaround.

When I was in the third grade of elementary school, my parents divorced, and I never saw my mother again, and safety was given to me, and studying well is not necessarily the only criterion for gaining a foothold in this world, I used to have your thoughts, but in my own way, I am in society, and now I am very satisfied, whether it is money or status, I am very satisfied, find my own direction, and then work hard, not necessarily college students will have good results, ordinary people will also create their own sky!

That's how life is. When you are most tired, you can sleep lazily and be happy; When you are the hungriest, you can eat a nest of delicious food. If you are not satisfied, then work hard, and the effort will be rewarded. Evil is rewarded with evil, and good is rewarded with good.

In fact, life is sometimes very cruel, no one cares, you can care about yourself, make some positive friends, restrain yourself not to go down the crooked road, although you dare not say that you are the pillar of society, but at least let yourself live at ease and will not be scared awake by nightmares. Don't be afraid, teachers like to ask questions. Review the basics a lot.

How can you be so naïve, like a flower in a greenhouse, grades are very important, but they are not omnipotent, you think you are miserable, or we will change them.

The improvement of grades is not a temporary result, you have to believe that as long as you persist, there will definitely be gains, I used to have poor grades, but I persevered and made great progress.

I'm the same, life is not happy, but everything has to be solved by myself and make more friends.

The main thing is that there are no friends who fit your values, such as dealing with things and treating people, you can have an opinion that is not much different, of course, this kind of friend is rarely encountered.

It's more about accommodation between friends and friends, like you want a 10-point friend. 8 points is also okay, as long as there are no big problems in character, there is no need to worry about special things, and the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.

Ordinary friends are ordinary friends, they only need to maintain superficial contacts, and there is no need to intersect too much, because they are not on the same channel, you think this thing is wrong, she thinks it is right, you don't want to use your own values to force it into her.

If you think that this kind of friend can be made, then make it with your heart, even if you don't contact often, you can help if you have something within your ability, and she also understands in her heart that you are her friend, and she will also contact you in her spare time, because a friend is a friend. There is no need to deliberately retain or force it.

I am in the same situation as you, so I will roughly analyze your personality and give some suggestions, I hope it will help.

1. Analyze your personality.

1. Analysis of "I haven't been small since I was a child, and I don't have any good friends and classmates".

I think it may have something to do with the strict family education, the high expectations of your parents since you were a child (this is speculation), and you may have been relatively mature when you were a child, resulting in fewer friends when you were a child. If that's the case, I think you had a lot of longing for a very good "friend" when you were a child, which caused you to constantly beautify the concept of "good friend" in your mind.

2. Analysis of "I really paid for my former good friends, but in the end you were still estranged because you didn't agree with them, and you didn't even get in touch with them much".

The experience of not having friends as a child may have created an independent, subjective, and paranoid personality. When you grow up and have the opportunity to choose your friends independently and dominate your own life, you will find that there will be a gap between the standard of "real friends" and your "friends in your head".

1. Realize that the standard of "good friend in the brain" is not at all in life.

Maybe it's a bit arbitrary. But the standard of friends you have created in your mind for so many years should be five good teenagers, and there are too few in reality. Society is realistic, everyone will face their own interests, the interests of others, the interests of the family and other conflicts of interest, your view of friends is your subjective judgment after all, do you stand in the perspective of "friends" to think about why they do things that you are not very acceptable?

Everyone is not perfect.

2. Redefine the perception of friends, and at the same time clarify what the key points of your identification of "friends" are.

You have to understand what a friend is and what kind of friend you need (don't have illusory ideas, such as going bankrupt for you. sacrificing one's life or something); For example, you can list the aspects you care about the most, from high to low: character, character, emotional intelligence, appearance, wealth, then can you accept a poor ghost with a good character, super good personality, average emotional intelligence, and ugly appearance.

You need to tolerate playing with an ugly poor ghost every day, but he is your friend, and you need to let go of your demands on both.

Plainly... If you want to get a good friend, at least until the other party fully agrees with you, you must know how to give up some unnecessary standards, not only time and money, but also have enough tolerance to tolerate your friend's small flaws. When he also receives you, you can tell her about his little flaws.

He's just complaining about you if he's dying...

You need to think about it now and be more tolerant of your friends ... You should be a smart girl, try to change yourself, and you will have a lot of friends.

It's not your problem, I'm the same person as you. Friends don't force it, sometimes they are not satisfied with a lot of behavior of their family, let alone friends, don't mind too much about small problems, and there is nothing wrong with breaking off friendship directly with big problems. It's okay to follow your own ideas.

Have you ever asked yourself such a question often:

People in this world, how many more times can I believe them?

Things gather in kind, people in groups!

I would have been to the bright moon! Just have a clear conscience!

Either pay or don't pay Want to pick a thorn? Who has no shortcomings?

If you are young, don't stay at home. You have to go out while you're young, work hard, and work hard, so that you can change the status quo, have the opportunity to contact the opposite sex, and get their attention.

Dude, all the troubles stem from whether you have money or not, and now you are worried about having no object, having an object, and worrying about having no money, it is better to make money first.

You are self-defeating, too self-pitying, friend, cheer up, show the courage of a man, go out, see more, listen more, set goals, achieve little by little, perfect yourself, the woods are not built in a day.

The goal is to make money, buy a house, buy a car, save money, and then have everything!

If you have food and drink, you don't have a goal, just give me all your money.

Then hurry up and find a girlfriend.

It may be that your personality is too independent, and whenever you spend time with others, you are too strong, so after a long time, others can't find a sense of existence around you, so they don't play with you.

Dude, I found that the two of us seem to be ah, I am also a few friends, and I will always be the original ones, and new friends can't play together, I don't know what the reason is.

It's different, friends want quality, not quantity, and that kind of hypocrisy is cultivated by using each other's money, so don't want it.

If you want to be a bribe, give a date today and a pear tomorrow, naturally others will think of you when they play.

Why do you want so many fake pot friends, a few sincere pot friends are enough.

You can try to hear what people around you have to say about you.

The lack of heart eye is because the heart is not carried with you, the heart is not involved, it is not reasonable, it is not entered, it is natural that you don't know what you know, and you don't react when you should react....Special training is fine. If you are interested, come to me.

My parents always say that I am stupid, lack of heart, and have been deceived when I get married, and I don't know what's wrong, I'm so tired.

Fade out of this circle that makes you unhappy, and then learn how to behave in the world, how to answer and understand what they say, and sometimes prove that you only need to have a conversation.

I'm the same as you, cry.

You can perceive this to prove that you are not stupid, and since you have already noticed it, you have to deal with it.

You care too much about what others think, be yourself.

In the same way, at the beginning, let everyone know that you exist, and every piece of talk about you was Ait, and then slowly there was no later.

Love is to be given and there is not necessarily an equal return, if you feel that there is a problem to speak out, many people are used to getting others to give and ignore their own giving.

There is also the fact that not everyone can be considerate, there are a considerable number of people who are more pragmatic and only care about food and vegetables, they don't love you, but forget to understand you! I hope that a lover will eventually become a family! Pick Oh.

In fact, I have always believed that if a long-distance relationship can persist in a couple, on the road to the future, even if you encounter a big problem, you will not lack anything, all you lack is to believe in him.