Is it possible to redeem our vindictiveness after the divorce?

If you get divorced because of anger! It's too undeserving!

If you get divorced, can you get it back? There are four scenarios.

The first. If both parties still have feelings, they can be redeemed, and if both parties think about the children, they can be redeemed. Divorce is just an impulse, which can be reversed, and one party no longer loves, and cannot be reversed.

Can you salvage the problem? It also depends on whether there is still a relationship between you and you, and it also depends on the specific situation, if you regret the divorce, don't make a rash decision in the first place. Once a divorce is made, this choice is more difficult to recover, if there is no divorce, no matter how bad the relationship is, there is a possibility of recovery, and remarriage after divorce is relatively small.

But it's not entirely impossible that if the other party still has feelings for you, and you are more nostalgic for each other, or are you emotional? It can be redeemed, but at this time, one person must first propose to give the other party a step, so that the two sides can break that boundary, and there is hope for reconciliation.

If there is still a relationship between the two of you, then there is a great hope that you will remarry, after all, the divorce may only be due to the impulse of the moment. Neither of them thought it through, because after one party filed for divorce and the other party did not refuse the divorce, both parties may regret it. I will think of each other's goodness, and I hope to be able to go back to the past and continue our relationship.

If one party proposes to remarry this time, then the other party agrees, hopefully, is a big premise, and the other party must be sincere. Giving the other party a promise will reassure the other party, so that they can remarry you with confidence.

If both parties have children, and after the divorce, both parties are not doing well, and the impact on the children is also great, then it is also possible for them to remarry, if both parties are thinking about the children and do not want the children to think about the impact of divorce. One of them said to the other person that he would remarry for the sake of the child, and she would treat it well, so the remarriage was also very promising. Because the probability of regretting such a complete family after being dismantled is very high.

If the divorce of both parties is just impulsive, and the relationship between the two parties is not so bad, one party takes the initiative and their relationship gradually eases, then the probability of them remarrying is also very high, and their relationship is easier to recover. Contemporary people are prone to impulsiveness. It is also very normal to regret something for a while, although the relationship between two people may be recovered, but it may not be as good as before, after all, there is an impact of divorce, which is still very large.

If the couple comes to the step of divorce, it must be because there is really a problem with the two of them, and they have reached an unprecedented height of contradiction, which is difficult to solve for a while, and only divorce seems to be a way out. As everyone knows, some people realize their mistakes after divorce, and only then do they really regret that they failed to cherish each other's lives in the first place. So, if you are divorced, how can the man get his wife back?

Reflect on your own problems.

No matter who filed for divorce first, it was because one party was too far away from the expectations of the other party, or the two went in opposite directions, resulting in the opposite direction, and there was really no way to go hand in hand. At this time, you should reflect on why you behaved so badly in your marriage, making your wife dissatisfied, or even disappointed in you, and finally you can only part ways with you. If you don't know how to redeem, or redeem a failed friend, don't be discouraged, I wrote my successful redemption experience into an article called "Chen Azong's Compound Heart Journey" You can go to see it, and then do it after the reference, it will help you a lot, be a responsible person.

Men must have a certain sense of responsibility, women are inherently emotional, when you have conflicts, men should be responsible to resolve the contradictions, do more for the family, try not to bring the pressure at work home, learn how to self-regulate emotions, be a qualified husband, such a man, can save the divorced wife.

Elevate your charisma.

If your wife still refuses to believe that you don't want to turn back, you might as well give the other party a little calm time to think first, and improve your charm during this time. You can choose to learn a skill that your wife is interested in, and then perform it alone for your wife when the opportunity is right.

If you want to win back your wife, you must let go of your male self-esteem, admit your mistakes and coax them back.

It depends on whether you are willing or not, and it also depends on how you work hard.

After some people get divorced, after careful thinking, they still have a lot of regrets, recognize their mistakes, can tolerate each other, or can remarry again. Go for it.

No, because your marriage has broken down, if you don't have a relationship then you don't have to try to save it, after all, marriage is the foundation of feelings.

After the divorce, the marriage can still be saved, this is in the cooling-off period, everyone considers each other, how is it to each other? Or did you do something in this marriage? It's intolerable, so it may also be because of the marriage salvage.

After the divorce, if both the man and the woman reach an agreement through consultation, they can go to the marriage registration office to go through the formalities of remarriage registration.

According to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China:

Article 5 Marriage must be entered into free and complete free will be between the man and the woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other or any third party to interfere with it.

Article 6: The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women. Late marriage and childbearing should be encouraged.

Article 7: Marriage is prohibited in any of the following circumstances:

1) Immediate blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations;

2) Suffering from a medical illness that is medically deemed unfit for marriage.

Article 8 A man and a woman who wish to marry must register their marriage in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. Obtaining a marriage certificate establishes the relationship between husband and wife. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 9: After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, according to the agreement between the man and the woman.

Article 10: Marriage is null and void under any of the following circumstances:

1) bigamy;

2) There is a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

3) Suffering from a disease that is medically deemed unsuitable for marriage before marriage, and has not yet been married after marriage;

4) Those who have not reached the legal age for marriage.

Article 35: After divorce, where both a man and a woman voluntarily resume their relationship as husband and wife, they must go to the marriage registration office to register their remarriage.

Whether the marriage can be saved after divorce mainly depends on the attitude of both men and women, if both have the will, then the marriage can be saved.

After the divorce, there are many people who still save their marriage, after all, they have had a relationship, as long as it is not a matter of principle, both parties feel that they are still thinking about each other after the divorce, and it is still possible for one party to take the initiative to admit the mistake to redeem it.

Legally speaking, in this case, the two parties have no legal relationship, and if both parties agree, they can only remarry.

It's irretrievable. Well, it depends on the attitude of both sides. Well, there's definitely going to be a change. The personalities and attitudes of both sides must be changed.

The impulse of the moment can be reversed, and both of them will regret it in a few days, but after careful consideration, there is a high probability that the decision cannot be recovered.

I think that since I have chosen to divorce, there is no need to save my marriage.

I think there may be some marriages that can be salvaged after divorce, because there may be people who divorce on impulse.

Can impulsive divorce be recovered, it is said that divorce is easy, but it is difficult to remarry, with the gradual increase in the divorce rate today, it shows that the number of people who divorce impulsively has also increased. It wasn't until the moment I really left the other party that I understood my heart for the other party, so can I get it back if I divorce impulsively?

1. Can I get it back if I get divorced impulsively?

1. No matter what the reason for the failure of this marriage, as long as you can clearly realize that you are still very dependent on this married life, and now you both like each other very much, and you can't forget him no matter what. People have to work hard. How do you know that your marriage is irretrievable if you don't work hard?

How do you know you two can't be together anymore without working hard?

2. Although you said that you were very remorseful about your impulsive behavior to end this marriage, you always pestered him all day long, remarried you, pestered him to continue to be with you, and did not do anything substantial, such as being so reckless or igniting fire like that. I believe that your marriage will not only not make you successful, but it will also hurt the person you love again. So, in such a situation, you are absolutely unable to get your marriage.

2. How to communicate if you want to recover after divorce

If you want to redeem yourself after a divorce, you have to communicate. If you want to open up to the other person, we first have to go to the other person and show our thoughts, reveal what you mean to him now, and put ourselves into the midst of what you have encountered or experienced since your divorce, so that we can muster up the courage to express our love to him. As long as you can open your heart and be honest with each other, I believe that the other party will be willing to talk to him.

Marriage is hard-won, easy, cherished. It is because many people really understand the meaning of this sentence after understanding the true meaning of marriage. However, it does not mean that anyone can face any problems in their married life rationally.

1. Don't be too clingy

**Constantly, don't do stupid things that text constantly. Women don't feel that you love her because you play a few more **, women don't care if a man loves her or not, the important thing is whether she loves this man or not. Whether a woman loves you or not has nothing to do with the number of **, but when you ** continue, she will only be farther away from you.

2. Empathy

Marriage is a matter for two people, and only by working together can it last. Since your partner has filed for divorce, it must be something in you that he can't bear. Habit.

At this time, you should think about the problem from the other party's point of view, don't just think about your own contribution in marriage, in fact, the other party is also very attentive. Any conflict and contradiction is based on mutual incomprehension of Lushan, how to understand each other, see each other's efforts in the relationship, this is often the first step to ease the relationship.

3. Self-motivated

A man is the pillar of a family, so every woman doesn't want her husband to be a decadent, not motivated man, when her husband becomes like this, it is equivalent to having no support, at this time she will choose to leave this man, so you must keep working hard, even if the work is not better than others, you must have ideals, do things can not be hanging, such a man will be attractive, in order to let the wife have the urge to entrust for life.