Emotional problems, everyone helps me sort out my thoughts

It depends on what you really want, as long as you think it is right, go your own way and let others say it.

First, the family's prevention must have the family's reason, think carefully about whether the family's words are right or not.

Second, my parents were also obstructed to be together, but my father is now working hard with his own hands, so my mother's family is also impressed with my father. Therefore, encourage your boyfriend well, people must be ambitious, and they can't be looked down upon by others.

Third, your own feelings are the most important, find your truest feelings, and don't give up because of external factors.

I understand you, let's talk about my experience, I started to be the same as you, I said that women in love have the lowest IQ, so I am determined to live a poor life with him, and after marriage, I really endured the poverty of my family for several years, and now the world of flowers is not happy without silver, but we have a relationship foundation, all difficulties have passed, and now he is a civil servant, and there is a bit of status, but he has not failed me, in his heart I am his only, so I often think, if I had chosen money, maybe I am very rich now, but I may not have feelings, So I don't regret it, but the difficult days are not good, I think about your things like this: first, the emotional foundation is better, no one can do without anyone, and the second is to see if you have the ability to bear the struggle and hardship, if so, what are you afraid of? Are there still fewer examples of self-made?

When you get old, it's also spiritual wealth, right, this is my reference.

Feelings are one's own, let the family take care of it less.

It's really not going to work, you're going to get married outside.

Just have a baby and bring it home.

In these days, the marriage of children is still disciplined by their parents.

What you don't dare to say above.

Then you tell them you broke up.

Work hard with your boyfriend out there.

Wait until 28 29 Go back and don't talk about marriage.

You see if they're in a hurry.

What kind of path you take is your own choice, and your family does this, in fact, they also hope that you will get the kind of happiness they expect, the key is what your understanding of happiness is.

You can't even get past this hurdle in your love for him, can you still say that you really love him?

Emotional things can't be forced, you have to go with the flow, go through the flow more, maybe it's the test of your feelings, don't worry, in fact, an experience like yours is something that most people have experienced. It's nothing, now the most important thing you have to do is, wait. Wait for your family's opinion.

Wait for the foundation of your relationship, wait for your boyfriend's determination. Do you understand. If you succeed, it's one kind of happiness, and if you don't fail, it's another kind of happiness, and you'll understand later.