What do you think when the people you have liked are married and you are still single?

I thought that after three or four years, I would have been relieved, but when I heard the teacher say that you got married, I didn't even feel the sadness, and the tears couldn't help but flow, and then countless days of heartache, insomnia, and self-abuse began. In the eyes of others, I was like a joke, usually heartless, persuading others to come to the head, only to find out that I was also a layman. I ask you how she is?

You only said that you were very good to you, but fortunately it wasn't that you loved her very much. Think back then, you think I don't love you deeply, my heart is too hard, think about it now, I'm still waiting for you, and you're already married, it's ridiculous. Obviously, you don't love deeply.

Okay, you're married, the person who married me is definitely not you, I'm going to let go, I'm going to learn to accept others.

After breaking up with my first love, I struggled and suffered for many years. After a long time, I realized that even if he has thousands of good things, he does not belong to you in the first place, and you can just become one of them. Let him go, because you don't have a choice.

I stayed once and didn't look back. I also want to go over and grab it, but if he gives up on you, there must be a moment when you feel that you are not worthy of him, and this moment is unforgivable. Now I will go through the circle of friends, see his girlfriend who is not as good as me, and then see that he is also old, forget it.

Of course, it is a blessing for people who like me to get married, but fortunately I was not delayed, and there was a lot less pressure. The person I like gets married and gets angry that he didn't notify me. It's better to live my own life, I will get married too, and let those who like me know that I am happy.

Beijing is so big, so many people, to meet you, is my creation and my luck, the result is already so, only I wish you eternal happiness and health, I have never liked a person so much. Although the ending is regrettable. But I've also learned what it's like to really like someone and really like someone.

Thank you for the old youth, thank God for your mercy. Finally, be healthy, be happy, and be happy.

The best way out is to bless him, let go of yourself, believe that you will have someone you like in the future, if you can't do it for the time being, just keep it in your heart silently, and wait for time to take everything away.

A friend lost sleep for a few days because his ex-boyfriend was getting married, crying every night, I didn't think it was necessary, but today I received his **, knowing that he was getting married, hanging up**, tears do not stop when I understand what is like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowing.

The guy I used to like was finally married the other day, went to his wedding, I can't say what it felt, no sadness, no blessings, all my confusion now is that he used to like me? It's stupid to say! But still curious!

This problem is the result of many reasons, from the social, political, economic, cultural, educational, etc., they are a system that promotes each other, so the following reasons are also intersecting.

The main reasons are as follows:

1.Politics and society advocate equality between men and women, the status of women has improved, and women's independence has also increased, more than any previous era in China.

2.Or is it because of the current social development, the first is the emancipation of the mind, and people's thinking is no longer the old thinking of the past, and it is not the end of the day.

4.In terms of education, people nowadays have basically received a certain amount of education, people's minds are more open and civilized, and they are no longer the same as before, and they can even study abroad with good family conditions, and there is a new trend of thought.

5.Nowadays, people pay more attention to the experience of life, pay more attention to personal feelings, and want to experience a new life, so they don't want to be bound, once it is not what they want, they don't want to be bound.

6.Now a public figure in society.

Their actions are also leading some people to change their minds. Their marriage brought hope to some people, and their divorce also disappointed others.

And what about getting married?

1.Or social reasons have been the case since ancient times, marriage is a major event in life, 2Parents expect their children to get married, and they feel that this is perfect.

3.Two people together can have greater ability, the ability to bear risks, 4There is really love, you like me, I like you, 5People want to have a home, 6Pension issues.

To sum up, divorce and marriage are both needed by people, because people need to get married, form a family and live, which is a normal life, but if this marriage is not what you want, then divorce.

I think this may be a common problem for a person, because if he is married, he may feel that his life after marriage is not as good as being single, but he wants to try to live a married life, which may be a new trend.

Because what you can't get is always in turmoil, married people always think about how happy they are when they are single, and single people always envy married people who don't have to be lonely, they only see the good in others, but not the good aspects of their own lives.

Married people envy those who are single, and those who are single want to get married because marriage itself is a besieged city. Those who are in the city want to go out, and those who are outside the city want to go in.

The process of emotional run-in is the most intense stage, and the sweet in this process can be very sweet, and the bitter can be very bitter.

I don't know what stage your relationship is in, if it's just been together for a few months, no matter how you look at love.

How open is the view of marriage, I don't recommend you to live together.

At this time, your relationship may not be able to go through this stage, and you think that living together is to let two people have more time to be together and more time to be sweet. However, true cohabitation is nothing more than exposing all the shortcomings in front of the other person, and all the living habits go through a stage of integration.

When you first started your relationship, you see each other's eyes are bright, and you spend a lot of time dressing up when you go out on a date every day, and the image of the other party in your heart is not very real. There is really no need to let cohabitation speed up the process of the relationship and enjoy the current period of love.

That's it. Choosing to live together during the love period may shatter all the expectations in your heart.

If your relationship is already stable, and two people want to take their relationship further by living together, this is understandable. At this time, they already have a certain understanding of each other, and the decisions they make are no longer carried away by a wave of love. You may feel that the other person is the person you want and can't wait to get involved in the other person's life as soon as possible.

Whatever the purpose, you should make a decision based on the whole thing.

My boyfriend and I chose to live together after five months together, and I didn't think much about it at the time, I just wanted to be with each other every day.

From the beginning of the stir-fry of how many chili peppers to put in the quarrel, now he can accompany me to eat extra spicy, I can also accompany him to eat slightly spicy.

However, today I realized that I could not accept the practice of cohabitation, and my perception did not keep up with my behavior. I think I've done something wrong, so I'm tormented from time to time.

Living together made me love him more and more, but my mental burden also became heavier.

If you want to live with your boyfriend, you have to figure it out for yourself.

Can you afford to take the risk of cohabitation? Is this what you want for yourself?

If you don't have any doubts, just do whatever you want.

Explain your desire for love, maybe the peach blossoms are coming, I wish you happiness.

Your feelings are related to your personal expectations. If you have been single, then if you want to get married, you need to talk about marriage, otherwise who will you marry?

There may be a hunch that the feelings that belong to you are coming.

Because you may have a desire to get married.

Is it because I've been single for a long time?

Lonely, I want a partner, I want to get married, because my friends around me got married, and then I quickly joined the blind date army, and finally married myself out again.

When I was young, I felt that love was a troublesome thing, and when I saw the sisters in the same dormitory, I was trapped by love for a while, and I cried for love for a while, and I comforted them day by day and they were about to give me depression to death, so I didn't want to fall in love at that time, and I felt that love was a particularly annoying thing, and it was a fool who asked for trouble, so I didn't fall in love when I was in school.

Later, after work, because I was in the same city with my classmates, I didn't feel how lonely I was at that time, but after two or three years of work, my classmates got married one after another, and that year I was a bridesmaid four times, attended five weddings, and gave out six red envelopes, one of which was to give birth.

At the time, I didn't feel much emotion, but when I gradually found that when I wanted to talk to someone, I couldn't find anyone, everyone had a family, and I was embarrassed to disturb others at night, I felt so lonely, and I was left alone.

And when I can't make an appointment on the weekend, I find that I am really pitiful, I feel like I have been abandoned by the world, so I began to think about love, looking for a partner, and later when my colleagues and classmates introduced me to the object, I actively went to participate, when I went home for the New Year, my parents wanted to give me a blind date in a row, and I didn't stop it, but they asked me to go and I really went.

Finally, I met my husband on a blind date in my hometown, and the two of us were older men and women, and our parents chatted again, so we slapped our thighs and let us get married after we knew each other for three months. So my single life finally ended, and I was no longer alone.

Now that I have been married for eight years, I personally think that if the people around you are unwilling to get married, in fact, you may get married later, but if everyone around you is married, you will be likely to marry early.

Sometimes I envy the people around me, they have a family, and they have a concern in the vast sea of people. But when I saw them arguing over family matters, I was especially glad that I was single.

When everyone around you has their own friends, but they are still single, it is very sad at that time, and it is also very lonely, because there is no one to play with you anymore.

It's a feeling of pride because they're all bound by life, and they can do whatever I want.

I think it should be a sad feeling, because I will feel more lonely, and I will also be urged to marry by others.

It's a very lonely feeling, because I usually get together, and I can bring my family when I get together, and I feel very lonely when I see my friends around me bringing their couples.

When everyone around me is married and I am still single, I think I will be anxious, because I will be very envious and feel inferior when I see them all in and out of the pair.

When everyone around me is married and I am still single, I am still very uncomfortable, I feel that I am not so bad, why is I the only one who is still single, and even have some inferiority complex.

Marriage and love are like a siege for many people, especially for many middle-aged people, when they have experienced the baptism of marriage, especially after the test of the seven-year itch, some middle-aged people often feel that it is good when they are single, so that they will not let themselves be bound by marriage, in fact, I have not felt like this.

Although it is said that in the days when two people are together, especially when two people have cultivated a positive result in love, and finally become husband and wife, it is a very happy thing, but when two people get married and form a family, they end their single life and face not only happiness and joy, but also face the relatively boring life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, and at the same time, the longer two people get along, the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and they will understand each other and say comprehensively, especially for each other's shortcomings, it is more in-depth, so in this process, the relationship between two people will naturally be affected to a certain extent, often allowing themselves to have a certain sense of loss and nostalgia for the days when they were single.

When the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious, there are a lot of estrangements and contradictions in the marriage, and in the case of frequent quarrels for this, I will be more emotional or single is good, more nostalgic for the single days I once had, but no matter what, life still needs to continue, I should still try my best to be a responsible man, therefore, this kind of thinking just stays in the heart of a certain moment, more often than not, I still have to find a way to eliminate contradictions with my lover and solve the problem, After all, life needs to go on.

When the people around you are married and you are still single, it is a very lonely feeling

Clause. First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.

Clause. 2. Life goals.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely. In a relationship, if your girlfriend is very capable, it is a very special experience, so what does this experience feel like? Let me share my opinion.

First, in fact, a girlfriend who can do everything will have some characteristics, first of all, it is necessary to talk about everything, many times there is a kind of girlfriend who does everything, you will find that you can find out what problems she does, that is, what you say, what you do, so that what you think, in the end, it will make you incomprehensible, unable to agree, at this time you will be very uncomfortable, very awkward, but there is no way to solve it. ......Second, the second is to be unreasonable, which is also the second characteristic of a girlfriend who can be a girlfriend, many times you will find that your girlfriend is quite unreasonable, that is, you can't listen to what you say, what he wants to do, you think it's impossible and you can't refuse, because you refuse it is very likely that the volcano will erupt, especially the girlfriend who can be a good person is also unreasonable, like an active volcano, often erupting, so the unreasonable girlfriend is more terrible. 3. Unreasonable trouble, let's talk about the most terrible girlfriend form ,......This form is the third characteristic of being a girlfriend, this form is very scary, at least it will not take the initiative to make trouble, but it will take the initiative to make trouble if it is unreasonable, when your girlfriend takes the initiative to make trouble, if you have poor ability or low emotional intelligence, you can't contain your girlfriend, this experience is really impossible to experience.