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I'm kind of a person, I think now, it's good to get used to it, why care about other people's opinions. For yourself, you need to separate reality from your own world. After all, we live in real life, and in our own world we only meet your spiritual needs, but you still have physical needs.
The two are indispensable, and there is no need to distinguish them clearly.
And hypocritical polite words, in the communication between people, people like to listen to good words, you want to die, it is you, people face you some words that you are telling the truth but you don't like to listen, can you still be happy? Are you still willing to communicate with that person? This is how the so-called loyalty comes from, so in the process of our growth, this change is essential, otherwise it will be out of society, and this will only be the society to eliminate you, in fact, this kind of thing, just look away, there is no need to care too much, the people you will go to be polite should not be the people you really care about, the people you really care about are not accounting for these, and for these people who don't need to care, do you think you have to be sad?
Just let it go, and then you'll feel like it's nothing.
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Be honest with yourself first, and then try to be honest with others.
If confessing will also hurt others or yourself, don't associate with these people too much.
Try not to guess at the intentions of others, as misunderstandings are likely to occur.
Build self-confidence, socialize with humorous and cheerful people, and participate in social events.
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What you ask is a bit general, and you can only start with a general concept, that is, when you have to live in your own world to feel safe, when you have to say polite words to get things done, when you have to be strong in your heart to live, everything will fall into place.
Communicate again.
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Don't take the road that you can't bear, and do what your heart can really accept, so that you can feel at ease and be happy.
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only cares about oneself and does not respond to the emotional needs of those around him; The people around you can't attract you; There is no desire for the outside world; Other people's thoughts have nothing in common with you.
According to psychologists' research, people living in their own world usually have the psychological characteristics of being sensitive and suspicious, self-esteem, and strong self-esteem.
If you live in your own world, you must be a weirdo in the eyes of outsiders. They will even think that you are sick, suffering from severe depression, do not like to communicate with others, do not like to go out for a walk, just live alone, live in your own world, and do not have any contact with the outside world, they sympathize with you, and they also despise you.
As long as people live, they must contact and communicate with the outside world, which is actually our mission to come to this world, which we must complete seriously, sincerely structure, and communicate with others, which is also one of the necessary skills in our life, the way of survival. People who don't know how to communicate and don't know how to accept others have no future. If you meet such a person in life, people don't love it, they don't like to deal with such people, and they don't like to be friends with them, so people who live in their own world are destined to be lonely people all their lives, because even if they still have ideas, work hard to do a lot of things, and have achieved a lot, but no one can understand him, so they can only do nothing and be obscure.
I know such an aunt in my life, the aunt is in her 30s, but she never communicates with others, just lives in her own world. If you sit with him and talk, you ask a question, she answers, and sometimes even if you ask, she won't answer. She stays alone in the house every day, and even rarely talks to her husband and children, and I always feel like she's thinking about things when I look at her, but you can't understand why she has so many problems to think about every day, and she stays like this for three or four hours.
The most speechless and frightening thing is what the aunt does in her daily life. She doesn't talk to other people, she always talks to people when she's alone in the house, and when she's alone in the house, I'm always talking to myself, singing, and sometimes even dancing. Every time I pass by her house, I am frightened by her self-talk.
In my life, I was reluctant to contact her, and no one in my life wanted to contact my aunt, because everyone was sad by my aunt. At the beginning, everyone was very enthusiastic and actively chatted with her, but she was always cold and indifferent, giving people a very arrogant look.
Living in your own world, not communicating with others, this is a patient, a person who can't use people's social communication normally, a person who can't live well, just living in his own world, not caring what others think of you, this is not right, we still have to try to contact the society, communicate with others.
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Yuan unconsciously has no one around him, except for occasionally talking to colleagues at work, getting off work has basically become closed, QQ doesn't want to go online and stealth, and there is basically no one on the phone.
If you don't contact each other, the other party won't contact you, but you're used to it, eating alone on weekends, pressing the road, and day by day, 10 years in the blink of an eye, oh my God! The 10-year figure really scared me, as if I was still in a self-study class yesterday.
Sometimes I'm thinking、I have a high vision? It seems that he is not good, and no one looks down on him? Some colleagues like themselves, they are not interested in women, and they will be nymphomaniacs when they walk on the street
In a certain issue, there was a female guest who said a male guest: There is a kind of person who is very hateful, hateful and kind, that is, he does not take the initiative, does not refuse, does not contact, you account for two, listen to this sentence, I think about it for a week, I occupy three.
It's late at night again, and how many people haven't slept.
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I think people who only live in their own world are very withdrawn people, and it is very difficult for you to open the hearts of such people.
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Such a person is the only one in his world, he never takes into account the feelings of others, and he is very selfish.
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Living in your own world is divided into two types.
One is inferiority and the other is pride, more is the coexistence of the two, on the one hand, look down on themselves, look down on others, live in their own world generally have their own set of life philosophy, so they look down on the mainstream consciousness, but they are eager to be recognized by the mainstream consciousness, so they are inferior and proud. Nothing good or bad, sometimes they are white lotus in the mud, sometimes they are a stain on the white wall, it depends on what angle you look at.
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What's so strange about living in your own world, carefully building it is your own small world, and you should be happy about it.
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Introverted, not sociable, poor communication skills, likes to listen to ** while fantasizing about the nostalgia of the past, future achievements and unrealistic perfect scenes, comparing oneself, lack of action, laziness, procrastination, not interested in anything, it doesn't matter.
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It's normal to be alone when you're in a bad mood. Sometimes other people's comfort is not of much use, and it is true that you can think about it.
You must be unhappy, you have to be happy to everyone. Be smiling, all the time, and not so negative. ok
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Just let him continue to live like this, until he knows that he wants to change his way of life, to guide him, tell him one by one what you see that you are not satisfied with him, and finally he will come out, he lives in his own world and she doesn't know it.
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In terms of mental state, it is mainly to ignore a lot of things, and there is no real energy for most things, and many times it exists with the mentality of a bystander, and even looks at itself.
Maybe it's because of the lack of a sense of belonging and security.
It's up to you to keep going like this.
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There is a group of people who really only live in their own world, and sometimes they are still so rebellious.
DAO is reversed, and sometimes it's still the same.
How stubborn, sometimes I really want to let go and leave this society, but there are so many people who will always tolerate you and forgive you, that is family affection, and I can't bear this love. How nice it would be if the world could live alone! It's really nice to live alone!
That would be a lot less of a hassle! Live happily and at ease!
Now admit it: I really only live in my own world. If others can't break in, I don't want to go out!
He will understand a truth: the world was so big and so beautiful, and he will also understand one thing: that is, there are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people.
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People who only live in their own copy of the world will become more and more dullFor loneliness and love and hate, sometimes du feels that loneliness is very good, it is pleasant, and sometimes, dao feels lonely and cold, like being separated from the outside world! There are also times when I am afraid that someone will break my peace in the future!
Therefore, it is very boring to only be in your own world, and it is best to try to integrate more into the outside world! Even if you feel that the outside world doesn't need you and has nothing to do with you, you should still participate in society.
Like you, I'm going back and forth in my own world.
I really want to go back to the cheerful and lively way I was when I was a child, and if I continue like this now, I will only gradually deepen my resistance to everything and escape.
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The following are all low-level creatures, a billion of them, and they are useless, and there is no right or wrong in all words.
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Selfish, narrow, self-centered, and annoying.
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Humans are social animals, and it's hard to live in their own world. It's better to socialize with others appropriately.
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That's not necessarily why you just go to find happiness, there's nothing you can't get by??
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It's normal to be alone when you're in a bad mood
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The frog at the bottom of the well. Hoisted by his own petard. Blind eye.
Shut one's ears. Lonely and self-appreciative. A world of its own.
Draw the ground as a dungeon. Gu Ying felt self-pity. Alone.
Pretentious. Caviar to the general. Alone.
The cocoon stands alone. Hanging from each other. Zhu Bajie looks in the mirror.
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Think more about other people's feelings and other people's suggestions can be referred to, but I don't pay too much attention to other people's words, everything is the opposite, just go with the flow, just be yourself, there will always be people who appreciate you.
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Communicate more with others, communicate more, experience the progress and development of today's society, thinking pause is a regression of the quality of life of an individual, although it is not called a neuropathy, but if it goes on for so long, it will harm yourself.
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Society still needs to be contacted, friends still have to be made, this is unavoidable. Stepping out of your own world doesn't mean that you're going to be what you are. They force you, it's they who are not good.
But I think you also know that they are for your own good. Even when you were a kid, they ignored your feelings. But now they're starting to care about you, and that's not what you've always wanted.
Don't say that this concern is too late.,If you don't hurry up now.,Maybe there's no future.。。
Always have to live, always have to get married, always have to ask for money. In the face of society, there is no one who is not afraid, but who is not. I'm also afraid of society, I'm afraid that I won't be successful, I'm afraid that I'll not be able to earn money to buy a house, but what can I do with these fears.
Don't face it? Impossible, because to live.
In the face of society, it is a must! Don't think about living alone, it will be uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable.
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Dear, it's very similar to me, but I'm said to be very individual, and I'm also very autistic, but that's because I'm too lazy to force myself to do what I don't want to do. But I think you have to have your own principles and personality to be a human being, hehe, even so, there are still people who are willing to contact me. I think you're dripping too.
But who is it that disrupts you so much, no matter what, you have to be assertive, you have to know that even if you go out of your own world, you are still you, you are still a person with personality and thoughts, and that's fine. For others, sincerity is relative, reasonable, advantageous, and modest, and those who don't like it should not be ignored. Don't feel inferior, even if you're proud.
I'm a girl, so be a friend.
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It's the same as me, I'm an office worker now, I rarely talk in our class, I only listen to them a day, and when people ask me, you don't say a word for a day, it's too honest, I just say, it's good for me to listen to your chatter. I can only answer them with words that only I can understand. I think as long as you make enough money to spend, it's fine.
If you're not making money, then you have to be socially engaged. How else do you live. You don't have to do jobs like sales, just do other jobs to make money.
As for the object, let it be!
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You can try to accept the people around you and get in touch with this society, not everyone behaves hypocritically. Society has its true side ... Getting out of your own world and feeling the atmosphere of the outside world is good for your mentality and attitude towards life.
The more you are exposed, the less afraid you will be of this society.
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You should definitely see a psychiatrist.
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I'm like that, I just like myself, I don't like the world.
The number of friends you have determines your interpersonal skills. Communicative skills affect your future development, no matter what age you are at reading this experience, you should start to pay attention to the cultivation of your own ability from this moment on, make a few more friends who are close to your heart, learn more from them what you don't have, learn how others relate to each other, and more importantly, you can get to know more good friends through one of your good friends. Resistance to frustration is the ability to resist frustration, this ability is not to say that there is, but must go through a period of difficult grinding process to gradually improve, with a strong ability to resist frustration can allow you to easily cope with all kinds of challenges and difficulties, and finally stand tall to complete the whole of life, in the face of difficulties, you need to carry out a comprehensive consideration, always give yourself a positive psychological hint, even if you fail, you have to live a dashing and dashing, repeated defeats can be repeated victories!
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