It s been more than a year since I graduated and I don t have motivation in life, what should I do?

Everyone has been confused, why some people can come out, and some people are trapped in it and can't extricate themselves! Don't fantasize about unrealistic things and life, I used to think that I could do anything, I could do anything, but I couldn't meet the opportunity, and I suffered from gains and losses all day long, until one day, I saw the gray hair on my parents' heads, and I woke up all of a sudden, and I was determined to come steadfastly, work on the construction site, and make efforts, not as good as white-collar workers, and my heart was steady. I firmly believe that no matter what you do, as long as you are willing to do it, there will always be a day, as long as you make up your mind to do something, you will find that you have come out of the confusion, don't care about the eyes of others.

That's right, not being full and confused is nothing more than too much fantasy and not being able to be down-to-earth.

Everybody feels that way. In fact, the past is over, and when it's okay, let yourself stick to one thing. For example, doing 20 push-ups a day and memorizing a few words a day are all attitudes towards later life.

To be precise, you close yourself off and have to act, you think a lot of things every day but always make excuses to excuse yourself, try to go out and feel things that you haven't felt.

A child came to me and said that he had recently felt hopeless in life. When I heard this, I thought that his family had encountered some desperate situation, and asked him to talk carefully. He said that there are so many things to learn now that he doesn't know what to learn.

After learning this and that, new knowledge emerges every day, and it seems that you will never finish learning. I feel very lost in my life, and I don't know what I want to do in the future. In fact, the so-called confusion after graduation is a self-psychological limit, an excuse for not working hard and not struggling, and comforting yourself through such an excuse

I'm just confused, it's not that I don't work hard. And then I stayed in this state as an active waster, mentally telling myself that I was confused, and then I didn't do anything to change, and after intermittent self-comfort, I panicked, and I didn't deserve sympathy. The world is so big, there are so many things that can be done, and the graduating grade is not big, if you don't take action and change, what is the meaning of life?

When everyone is confused, don't reject your own confusion, the main reason for confusion is that you don't recognize yourself clearly enough, you first go to find a job to live, support yourself first, slowly recognize your ability, know what you are good at, what you are not good at, I believe you will become better.

It is normal for college graduates to feel lost when there are few suitable jobs, a surplus of college graduates, and a disconnect between the majors they study and the needs of society. Lower your posture, find the right direction of employment, work hard, make achievements, especially in good relationships, and you will have everything in ten years.

Confusion is a stage that most college graduates will have, in this stage, I suggest you try more, don't shrink aside because you are afraid of trying, the more you dare to step into society, the more afraid you will be to take this step in the future.

Everyone's environment is different from their own conditions, we must be down-to-earth, the road is out, don't think about those that are not boundary. How many resources do you have and what you can do. I can only do the most basic work now, and I can only get a salary of 2,000 yuan, but I am at ease.

It's been a little longer than you have graduated, and I would like to share my personal experience and feelings with you.

1. If you study science and engineering courses, it is recommended to engage in technology, it is a little difficult to get started at the beginning, it doesn't matter, it is temporary, and there will be better development if you stick to it for a long time.

2. If you are not solid in science and engineering courses, it is recommended that you make up for professional courses, and it is best to start with the position of technical support, and you can have the opportunity to switch to project management or sales engineering in the future.

3. If the suggestion of learning literature is to increase the weight of the language class.

It's normal to be confused in the early stages, but don't forget to study. Communicate with strong people and see how they can do it.

The most important thing is not to be discouraged at work, to develop good work habits, thinking habits, attitude and methods, there are still many opportunities.

Me too, I don't know what to do? Annoyed.

Find a job you love and keep doing it.

Or do the same job with your friends, so that with a partner, you won't have the mentality that you can't work for long.

Hello to these children's shoes.

You've just graduated from college, and you've not yet left the school environment, so you're still conservative. You must know that coming to society is not as simple as school, although university is a small society, but people's hearts and personal experiences are far less than society. You have to change your mindset and sometimes you can't miss too much the pure friendship and not a lot of competition between your classmates at school.

Of course, I'm not saying that when you come to society, you don't have pure friendship, hehe.

Regarding work, no matter what you do, you have to persevere, no matter what you do, you must do it with your heart, this is the accumulation of experience, it is the precious wealth of experience, everyone must experience something before they can grow up. Don't blindly think that your job is only temporary, many celebrities and entrepreneurs start from the bottom. Also, getting along with people is a science, you have to be active and enthusiastic, not unwilling to take the initiative to say hello as you said, continuing like this will only make you miserable.

Only when there are more contacts can there be connections, and only with connections can there be other things to think about.

It's all handmade, and I hope the landlord will adopt it.

You are mature, you are excellent, you are at the crossroads of life, and your future is on your own. Frequent job changes are also a test of themselves, and there are still a lot of people who can't find their own ideals and their own path. You think that in front of them, adjust yourself, there will always be your own way, the ideal and the reality seem to be far away, and with continuous efforts, they will come soon.

Just go with the flow and don't overthink it.