In the end, whether to go back and redeem her, if you don t recover, you can t let go

Updated on psychology 2024-05-17
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since you yourself admit that you didn't try your best to the end, you might as well have a good talk with her, and by the way, euphemistically find out if she has a boyfriend or not, whether she is very happy with her current boyfriend, maybe you will be more miserable, but after the pain, I believe everything will be fine.

    If you give up like this, I think it's just an excuse for yourself, because you don't even know if she's really happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When she doesn't love you anymore, don't hit him again. Your sentence that I miss you can only be exchanged for her silence, and what makes you sadder than silence is that she said—then what can be done?

    When she no longer loves you, don't send her e-mails again, don't try to evoke his memories with words, touch her heart, if your person can't move her, then even if you touch him with words once, in exchange for a moment of warmth, the large blank space after the warmth can only make you more sad.

    When she doesn't love you anymore, stop paying attention to his life, stop caring about his every move. Don't stare at that illuminated window at night. Imagine that he is also watching you from behind the curtains.

    Her life is his, and yours is yours alone. If you don't need to share, then bear the joys and sorrows alone.

    When she no longer loves you, don't force yourself to appear in an occasion with him, you don't need to be forced to pretend that you don't care in a lively crowd, and you are forced to talk and laugh. Even if you choose to avoid it, it is by no means weak. If you can, choose calm loneliness and let your wounds heal slowly.

    When she doesn't love you anymore, don't give him a second chance to hurt you. Don't believe him when he says he came back to you because he remembered you. Even if he is so resolute when he gives up on you, then next time he will ignore it and never look back.

    If you remember the day you cried and slowly slid to the floor, you must not succumb to your weakness and trust in the fleeting warmth.

    When she doesn't love you anymore, don't imagine that you can leave a tear in his heart. Even if he is moved by your tears for a moment, as long as he no longer loves you, he will definitely not be moved by you longer than you cry.

    When she doesn't love you anymore, don't hold a grudge. But at the beginning, it is inevitable to resent. Don't ask her, and don't ask yourself.

    Why was she so ruthless, and why could he forget it so quickly. You even suspect that she didn't like you at all, and it all seems like it's just a ** - believe in your initial feelings, if you think he liked you then, then maybe he liked you. It's just that she doesn't love now, and if she doesn't love, she doesn't love anymore, even if she explains, is it so important to explain?

    When she doesn't love you anymore, stop watching those sad petty bourgeois movies and listening to those gut-breaking songs. Stop fantasizing that you are the hero of the tragedy. If you must cry, then cry once, cry happily, but only cry once, don't let the tears drown out your once bright smile, you are still the same lovely you.

    When she doesn't love you anymore, believe me, everything, there's a day when the wind is clear.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. If it's just a matter of waiting. If there is fate, it will only become unfat. It is necessary to adapt and change according to the actual situation.

    Hello dear. It's time to redeem it. If you really can't let go of someone in your heart, if you want to win back the other person, you can also turn back.

    After all, there are some people who are difficult for us to meet again in our lives, and once we are sure of our hearts, don't be afraid to eat back grass. Because if you miss it because of this, the future Yu Mengshou will probably not have a chance to join hands with the other party again.

    We've deleted each other so far, and he's not particularly nice to me, but I just can't let go of him and miss him, but he hasn't contacted me since the deletion.

    My dear. How long have you been apart.

    I deleted him around the 25th of last month.

    There has been no news since.

    Then first you have to be sure of yourself. You don't think he's because he's lonely and unaccustomed.

    Think about it. After all, he doesn't treat you well, and that is enough to say. The state of your togetherness. You don't like it.

    I'm not unaccustomed, I really like him, it's just the feeling he gives me, I'm dispensable to him, but the sail bench is now I can't put it down, I want to add him, but I don't know what excuse, even if I add a hand, will he be more unscrupulous in the future.

    If you really like it. Then don't leave yourself with regrets. Then go and add it back.

    Of course, it will definitely be unscrupulous. So after you add it. Change your attitude as well. Try to change that.

    I deleted it because his marital status is unclear, and I'm thinking about whether I should add it, or wait for him, if there is a fate.

    Unclear marital status? How to say this sentence.

    If it's just a matter of waiting. If there is fate, it will only become unfat. It is necessary to adapt and change according to the actual situation.

    When I was with him, he told me that he was not married, and then once he knew that he had a child, and I already agreed, but my feeling was that he was still married, and asked him not to take the initiative to inform or communicate, I didn't seem to be so important to him, but now I don't know what to do, add, under what excuse, and I don't know how to talk about it.

    My dear. Whether a person is in marriage or not is actually very easy to find. For your question. You just need to be sure whether he is in a marriage like Li Huai. The biggest problem of the scumbag friend is to solve the disturbance.

    Then the second thing is if you really like it. Then change the way you two get along. Do it so that he can't do it without you.

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  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You've all broken up, you still miss him, but does he still doubt you, then you don't know, forget to lift the branches, don't add trouble to yourself, be strong and independent, if the other party still loves you, he will take the initiative to contact you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First, admit the existence of facts, accept all the terrible results, no longer force the other party to pity and sympathy, maintain an attitude of absolute equality and respect, love is not charity, nor pity, but to have a heart-to-heart hail of reciprocal giving and sharing;

    Second, shift the focus of your love, don't pour too much time and energy into each other, keep most of it for yourself and life, including study and work, etc., and your more and more abundant appearance will gradually replace the thoughts of the old people.

    Third, give time a little time, Bu Zhihan don't be in a hurry to forget, don't be in a hurry to let go, you need time, maybe it will take a lot of time to do it, but it doesn't matter, as long as you are willing to smile, everything can be achieved.

    Look at the outside world and see the beauty around you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Brother teaches you, go to the ATM, insert the bank card, look at your balance, and then look at the car you drive, and you will put down everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you can't put your socks in your heart, should you save it? Be sure to go to the Zaozhi Hall to save the stool.

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