I knew I had to give up, but I just couldn t forget it

Updated on psychology 2024-05-17
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's a burden to keep a love that belongs to you.

    It's also a burden.

    Stop clinginging.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Just tell you that time solves everything.

    It's not that you can't give up, it's that you have to go with the flow.

    Whoever leaves will live.

    And don't look down on yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Everything is willing, and if you can't let it go, you're asking for it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What you should be thinking about now is whether she deserves your love? If you think about it, you may have come out on your own!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When he doesn't love you anymore, don't hit him again. Your sentence that I miss you can only be exchanged for her silence, and what makes you sadder than silence is that she said—then what can be done?

    When she no longer loves you, don't send her e-mails again, don't try to evoke his memories with words, touch her heart, if your person can't move her, then even if you touch him with words once, in exchange for a moment of warmth, the large blank space after the warmth can only make you more sad.

    When she doesn't love you anymore, stop paying attention to his life, stop caring about his every move. Don't stare at that illuminated window at night. Imagine that he is also watching you from behind the curtains.

    Her life is his, and yours is yours alone. If you don't need to share, then bear the joys and sorrows alone.

    When she no longer loves you, don't force yourself to appear in an occasion with him, you don't need to be forced to pretend that you don't care in a lively crowd, and you are forced to talk and laugh. Even if you choose to avoid it, it is by no means weak. If you can, choose calm loneliness and let your wounds heal slowly.

    When she doesn't love you anymore, don't give him a second chance to hurt you. Don't believe him when he says he came back to you because he remembered you. Even if he is so resolute when he gives up on you, then next time he will ignore it and never look back.

    If you remember the day you cried and slowly slid to the floor, you must not succumb to your weakness and trust in the fleeting warmth.

    When she doesn't love you anymore, don't imagine that you can leave a tear in his heart. Even if he is moved by your tears for a moment, as long as he no longer loves you, he will definitely not be moved by you longer than you cry.

    When she doesn't love you anymore, don't hold a grudge. But at the beginning, it is inevitable to resent. Don't ask her, and don't ask yourself.

    Why was she so ruthless, and why could he forget it so quickly. You even suspect that she didn't like you at all, and it all seems like it's just a ** - believe in your initial feelings, if you think he liked you then, then maybe he liked you. It's just that she doesn't love now, and if she doesn't love, she doesn't love anymore, even if she explains, is it so important to explain?

    When she doesn't love you anymore, stop watching those sad petty bourgeois movies and listening to those gut-breaking songs. Stop fantasizing that you are the heroine of the tragedy. If you must cry, then cry once, cry happily, but only cry once, don't let the tears drown out your once bright smile, you are still the same lovely you.

    When she doesn't love you anymore, believe me, everything, there's a day when the wind is clear.

    I'm going to despise you if you're asking this question, and I'll give you the answer, not that you don't want to forget, but that you're making a fool of yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    <> should not regret giving up, and should not remember if you lose it, but why can't people always forget the past? It takes us a few seconds to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. It's really hard for people who are in their hearts to forget.

    Then again, time can make feelings fade. If you really want to forget someone, then choose to leave, use a limited time to do what you like, and after a long time, that person will forget. Want to forget someone unless you fall in love with another person.

    In the world of feelings, if you really want to forget someone, then open your heart, and then go to meet the right person, let him soothe the sadness in your heart, so that you will get out of the emotional dilemma. First of all, you can go with the flow and leave it to time, and time will erase everything. Secondly, you can leave the circle with that person, change to a new environment, out of sight and out of mind, usually mention less, and slowly become alienated.

    We can put our energy into our work, so that we don't have time to think about it.

    We should meet more friends, enrich our lives, and cultivate more hobbies. In this way, you will miss it less and forget about it. There is no one who can't be forgotten, it's just that we are too persistent.

    When a relationship has no results, it will be better to let go as soon as possible, so that you can be worthy of yourself. I hope you can put it away and be fine. Once everyone loved, there are people who can't forget, I have experienced such an unforgettable love, but now I feel very calm when I think about it, the reason why I can't forget that person I think it should be that I still miss it in my heart, I can't let go, or there is no better person than him for the time being, if you really can't let go of it, put down your body to redeem, if you can save it, it's the best, if you can't get it back, find a lot of things to do for yourself, keep yourself busy, and then try to meet new friends, Day by day, the right and inappropriate, the likes and dislikes, the ones that you want to forget, the things you don't want to forget, will pass, let it be.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personally, I think that many people can't forget the past because the past has brought great changes to their lives and made them remember it deeply.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's because a lot of things have happened between two people before, and people are very fond of thinking about the past, and it's hard to forget when you compare it with the present.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because people have good memories of the past and think that the past is very important, they can't forget the past.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think dear landlord.

    Glad to analyze for you.

    I've had your problem before.

    Here's my own.

    Hope it can help the landlord.

    In fact, there are many things that will always be understood after experiencing it, how to protect yourself after the emotional pain, how to persist and give up in a timely manner after being stupid, and we slowly understand ourselves in the gain and loss, and there are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. In fact, life does not need such indifferent attachments, there is nothing that cannot be abandoned. Learn to give up, and life will be easier; Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple figure; Learn to give up and bury yesterday in your heart; Make good memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable, it is not easy to come over the deep and shallow love, gently pull out your hand to say goodbye, you don't have to let yourself be hurt more deeply, every gratitude is very beautiful, every companionship is very intoxicating.

    Is it a pity that you can't have it, whether it is missing makes us feel more nostalgic, feelings are not the answer to the questionnaire, the hard pursuit can not make life more complete, maybe a little confused, a trace of sadness, will make this answer sheet longer, put away the mood and go, miss the flower you will harvest the rain, who said that if you like a thing, you must have, sometimes, some people in order to get what he wants, go to the extreme, maybe he got it, but in the process of chasing, What is lost is also incalculable, and the price paid is irreparable, perhaps those costs are heavy.

    There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect. There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave.

    There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back. Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing.

    Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love? A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely.

    It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

    The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

    If my own.

    Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

    Looking forward to your !!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when Shiye Li slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, Let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That boy has said all this, if it were me, I would have left him a long time ago!

    If you want me to say, give up! He wants you to love him with your life, and he will love you with all his might! It means that you will use a greater price of your life, that is, you must go beyond the price of his love for you, so that he will love you more.

    You weigh it yourself, whether he is worth it for you to do this, don't let the bamboo draw be empty, you will lose a lot, just be too sad.

    It's mainly you!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I still think you don't give up, you should keep going. Because it is not easy to meet a confidant, don't give up, you will succeed if you work hard.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't know whether to give up or continue to persevere, I think you should still persevere, because this kind of thing, you can't give up halfway, as long as you stick to the end, you will see the final result.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This question should be your own, first of all, to look down on everything, to be healthy and determined, to continue to persevere!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Persistence or giving up has its benefits, if you can persevere, it means that your endurance and tolerance will increase, but you will be hurt accordingly, and if you give up, it will make you develop a habit of giving up easily.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Many times, we give up because we persist halfway through and the final result is very, but unfortunately, we still have to persevere.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't know whether to give up or continue to persevere, what kind of thing to face, everyone has some moments of hesitation.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't know whether to give up or keep going, but sometimes I think it's better to stick with it, and maybe I can succeed.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you like him as a person, love him, and want to continue, then hold on!

    However, after reading this chat log, he has been asking the woman to pay, and has been asking you to pay a little more, but why didn't he pay a little more? It shows that he doesn't love you that much, or loves you conditionally. This is something to think about.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The so-called lack of attention should be too demanding in this tone. For example, your friend and I must be divided into high and low; Your brothers and sisters and I, like weighing each other; Your family and I must lay down our lives for a side. Her tone talked about the issue of life, which shows how selfish she is.

    I want to be taken seriously by people before I even skim the eight characters, which is really self-righteous. Give it up buddy, there's no need to be so humble. Why not be a late bloomer, make more money and not be afraid of no women.

    And one more thing to keep in mindIf you get married, it's the same with whoever you marry. It didn't turn out to be in love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There was a quarrel. So what is it that is the reason for the quarrel? First of all, you must understand that you are quarrelling, and then you can see that the conversation between the two of you is more reasonable, and the words are also focused on the kind of reasonable things.

    It's more that you have to understand who is willing to give the so-called love. But the two of you can also see that in love, you hope that both parties can work together instead of unilaterally. Ingest, or one-sided, being loved.

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