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A person can be as tired as he can live. Look at how you live.
Some people in life think that I wake up at 6 a.m. and put my makeup away. Hurry up and get to the earliest bus to work. Every time, I just stepped on the point in time. And it's very tiring. Then someone asked, then live closer to the company, wouldn't it be good?
However, the companies are expensive in urban areas. I'm only about 2,000 a month, and I pay five insurances and one housing fund. There's nothing.
Eating is difficult. Can only live in the suburbs. Inside an ordinary house.
It's just enough to be alone. It takes 4 hours a day just to get to work and take the bus. I'm so tired.
I can only eat some junk food every afternoon, and I can't afford to eat it if it's too expensive. Life is so fortunate. When will it end?
Many office workers will express such feelings. <>
In fact, a person's tiredness is really not a person's tiredness. It's tired. If you work so hard all day, you will not feel tired if you have someone around you who supports you.
I remember a colleague who was doing very well in her career. But she was still tired. She said life was hard.
I've been working all day, who can understand me. When I got home, I also needed to cook and wash my clothes. Take care of your family.
I also need to help my child with homework. <>
After that, my husband was very inconsiderate of me, thinking that if you were tired, then come back and take care of the children directly at home, and save my mother a day of worry. Do you say I'm easy? A woman's career is her pursuit, but why don't men understand it!
I feel that I either have to work or take care of my children at home. And you can't say, "Wife, you're happy."
I'll try to make you less tired in the future. Who cares if you're tired or not.
If you like to work, then you go to work. What does your tiredness have to do with me. In "The First Half of My Life", Luo Ziqun's life must have been seen by all of us.
Men do not work, at home. And in addition to going to work, she also needs to take care of the children and come back to cook for her husband. From time to time, I have been angry with him.
After a quarrel, I had to run away from home with my children. The man did not chase her.
In the face of the child's illness, he can only guard himself. Day and night without sleeping. I didn't dare to tell my mother, because this love was chosen by myself. Mom will only let herself divorce and find a rich man to marry.
And I feel that this is love and responsibility, and I am afraid that once I get divorced, I won't even be able to find a white light. One day can only be wronged. It's been hard step by step.
Compared to people who are tired from work, I think they are tired. Not only are they tired of life, but they are also tired of their hearts. In the face of such a life, they want to escape but can't.
Because they are afraid, in case they leave such a life. The next life is not as good as this, what should I do? <>
So, as long as the heart is not tired. **All good. Don't let your heart get tired.
This kind of tiredness is the real tiredness. It is a person's tiredness from the heart to the outside. At the same time, there is also the forbearance of pain and tears.
Silently waiting for a hopeless life. This tiredness is really tiring. Tired to the bones, tired to the heart.
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How motivated a person can be, how tired he can be. Some people have a monthly salary of 2,000 and live a chic life. Some people earn 20,000 yuan a month, but they feel that they need more. Eventually exhaust yourself.
I think there are people who push themselves into a desperate situation every day. That is, if you don't work hard today, you have to work hard to find a job tomorrow. If you don't work hard to make money today, you may have to move tomorrow.
But actually, even if you relax a little today. Tomorrow will pass. If you exhaust yourself today, you may not have a good time tomorrow.
Actually, I'm talking about myself. How tired a person can really be. Can be as tired as I am.
Working all the time, no breaks. Stay up late every day and work overtime. Finally tired myself to the hospital.
Because from the time I came out, I put a lot of pressure on myself. It's because I came out of the countryside. There is no culture.
So everything I do is thinking about getting into the right. Because the parents are not in good health. So I want to become the pillar of the family as soon as possible.
It's the psychology and pressure that makes me work hard every day. It's really hard work. Working overtime day and night.
In fact, the gain is quite big, and I have become the number one person in the company. Also made a lot of money. But after an illness, it seemed like there was nothing left of the money I had earned.
I've always felt like a self-motivated person. I'm also deeply proud of that. But when I found out that the friends I met now, they all told me not to be so tired.
Take a break. I found it as if I had walked into an extreme. It's just knowing how to work hard and not thinking about anything else.
So I slowly exhausted myself.
After I got better, I began to learn how to combine work and rest. I'm starting to learn to be less tired. I just found out, even if not so tired. Life can also be very good. Or even better.
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It depends on what attitude you use to live your life. Life is a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you, if you cry at it, it will not give you a good face, so life is not easy, do it and cherish it. Don't complain about life, work hard and strive to make one's life more exciting.
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It's not very tiring to live alone, and I feel that it's actually good to live alone.
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Each of us comes to this world, we have no right to choose birth and death, and the fate of human beings is predestined for seven points and three points for man. If you work hard enough, and the direction is right, plus a little luck, it will not be too difficult to change, the only thing we can do is to choose how to live, in addition, we have to face a lot of problems every day, from basic firewood, rice, oil and salt, birth, old age, sickness and death, to study and employment, interpersonal relationships, etc., all-inclusive. Even expert-level people can only deal with one of these aspects, not to mention, we are just ordinary people, how much choice do we have?
Since we can't handle it well, then it is enough for us to live an ordinary and happy life, and before that you have to learn to let go of your baggage. Don't overthink it, it's important to be happy every day. When I am tired of looking at the world, people are tired, and when I look at the world with smiling eyes, people are smiling and smiling, this is what Sister Qiu said when I was troubled.
Your troubled days are the same, and so are your happy and happy days. Whether you are happy or not lies in your mood, not in life itself, your mood is good, even if you are poor, you are very happy and happy. Compared to those rich people, at least we don't have to worry about the safety of our lives, and we can sleep peacefully every night when we are tired, aren't we much happier?
Don't always compare yourself to others, we need to learn to work harder to find the happiness factor in our own lives, and that's right. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and if you always compare your weaknesses to the strengths of others, you will feel like a failure. But if you compare your strengths with the weaknesses of others, you will be able to find your self-confidence and live happily.
At the same time of comparison, maybe a guy who doesn't know the situation will suddenly come out and accuse you of this is not right, right, say that you are useless, and don't give you any chance to refute, it doesn't matter, go your own way, let others say go, just as if he escaped with the family warehouse? Whether people are happy or not to live does not depend on the amount of material, but on whether their mentality is in the right position. For me, don't be superfluous, have an ordinary job, cherish a shocking story, like a confidant who understands me, often send a silent blessing, forget some worldly troubles, leave a string of romantic memories, what more?
Being able to go on with life is the greatest gift! It's good to be kind to others, but it also depends on what kind of person the other person is, some people are necessary for you to be good to him, and some people are not necessary, if you put your mood in these aspects all day long, it's no wonder if you're not tired Don't be too wronged by yourself, you can do what you want to be happy Don't care too much about other people's opinions, I believe you can do it, come on!
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In real life, many people feel that they are very tired of living, and as soon as they open their eyes every day, they have to face all kinds of pressure, urging themselves to move forward with a heavy load. But no matter who you are, whether you have money or not, everyone has their own pressures and troubles, this is an objective fact. But why do some people live easily with or without money?
Just do 3 things well.
* There is no specific pattern of happiness, you should determine your goals according to your own strength, and don't force yourself to achieve things that you can't do. There is a way to be content and happy, in fact, happiness is around you, smile in the mirror, and look down on everything.
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