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Sometimes you have to learn to say no, and rejection doesn't mean you're not friends enough.
Real friends are considerate of each other, understand each other, if the friends you say are really what you say, then this virtual friendship really needs to be analyzed by yourself
Friends help each other, so it's a good idea to think about whether they've helped you selflessly when you need help
If not, I suggest you: let the flowers fall in front of the door, and I will swim in the clouds.
Games are meant to be looking for happiness and passing the time of boredom, there is no need to find guilt by yourself, let go of your heart, you will find the meaning of games
I hope you can enjoy the game every day (a veteran player of online games for 10 years).
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Really can't stand it? Then play a trumpet and don't tell them.
Online games are a pit, don't keep playing in the pit, the world is actually very exciting, and the ups and downs of real-life feelings are more worth paying than what you are in the game.
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- You go find a husband to play with and make them envious.
Let your husband help you practice and make them jealous
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It's so boring, you can go outside and find your happiness without playing games.
Can't you practice alone? Do you have to help others practice? What happens if you don't practice? Missing a friend? Not really
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Standard self-pity. The negative emotions are too severe, hurry up and look at the sunflowers to replenish the positive energy.
Everyone will have negative emotions, but some people can control their emotions well, and some people will infinitely amplify this emotion, and there will be a sudden feeling of grievance as mentioned in the title.
When I first graduated, I also felt aggrieved. At that time, I had to help the family repay the money borrowed by my younger brother for marriage, and I lived a very narrow life every day. My friends asked me to go to parties, eat, travel, or even go shopping, but I could only refuse on the excuse that I was too busy with work.
During that time, I rejected not only these, but also so many years of friendship.
At that time, I often felt very wronged, but no one would feel sorry for me. On my birthday that year, my mother urged me to send money to my home, and I said it with a smile while crying in **. I even wondered if I was born to my mother.
Later, I became obsessed with online games, and I can't say that I was hooked. But after hanging up ** that day and having nowhere to go, I went to the Internet café. I clicked on a game casually, and I played all night like that.
The next day, I noticed that I was in a much better mood. So from then on, whenever I was under pressure at work, or in a bad mood, and I felt that my parents would be emotional, I would run to the Internet café to vent for two hours.
When I think about it now, I wonder why I was so fascinated at that time. So much so that I got my own computer and was in no mood to play games anymore. However, I learned how to adjust my mindset and what is the right choice.
So, if you feel wronged, find a way to vent it.
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The main reason for grievances is that they have something that they have not gotten, and what they have not obtained may be a physical object, maybe a feeling, or some kind of comfort, in short, the thing of grievance always appears in the bottom of my heart because I can't ask for it.
It's like family members don't understand their own thoughts and don't understand their own practices.
In the world, there is no "gentleman's heart is like my heart", where is there "empathy", and what is "you hurt me more than you" ......
These are all lies, only you know when you are in pain, and no one will ever really understand your grievances. So girls, don't be stupid, all the grievances are brought to yourself by yourself.
I used to call ** to my boyfriend every day when I got off work, no, no, no, ex-boyfriend, if he picked up ** when I called him, we chatted all the way, about twenty minutes or so, then I felt happy at dusk, but if I called** when he didn't pick up**, then I began to be irritable, because I was looking forward to ** once a day ** like this. Well, now I don't even have a boyfriend, so for a certain period of time after work, I am very irritable, aggrieved, and even want to cry. But then I realized that when I stopped looking forward to it, I felt a lot more comfortable.
Therefore, if you lower your requirements for others, then you will feel much better.
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Human beings are emotional creatures, joys, sorrows, joys and sorrows, which make up our lives. The boredom of life is inevitable, but the occasional joy and surprise from time to time will make you feel that life is still wonderful. Life doesn't always make you sad, and it doesn't always let you down.
Life is like a ship, and we are all passengers on board, when a big wave hits, the boat will shake, and we will sway with it.
In life, misunderstandings are inevitable. It is normal for your relatives and friends to misunderstand you, and you will feel very wronged. Because no matter how we are, we all live in the eyes of others, and other people's evaluations, arguments, and opinions will affect our mood.
Although some people say very freely to go their own way and let others say it, there are a few who can really do it. Every day you are in this society, you have to learn to accept all kinds of unwillingness, grievances, anger, and even false accusations, which you must experience when you grow up.
Sometimes you work hard, but the results are not as good as you could be. You will feel very aggrieved, and there is no one around you to talk to, because you don't know why you feel wronged, you just want to cry without knowing it, there are many problems that you can't understand, the more you grow up, the more you find that life is far from being as simple as you think, and even crying has become a luxury. Because you understand that crying doesn't solve any problems, it only makes you feel like a failure, and we have long passed the age of crying because of a candy, and in the same way, the child who gave a candy and stopped crying no longer exists.
Because life is not what you want now, because you want to be a better version of yourself, because you have grown up. Seeing the cruelty of many things, you are not satisfied with the status quo, but you have no ability to change the status quo, you are anxious, you are panicked, you are uneasy, but you can't do anything, so you will feel very useless, the people around you do not understand you, you will feel very wronged.
It doesn't matter, you have to believe, there is no tomorrow that cannot be reached, all misfortunes will pass, remember, don't bow your head, the crown will fall.
When you feel very wronged, go for a run, turn sadness into strength, tears into sweat, and you will become what you want.
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Maybe sometimes I accidentally think of something that I have been wronged about.
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I am the first time that my work has deviated because of other people's mistakes, and my salary has been deducted, and I feel very aggrieved and a little broken
Life is not easy, and we are very eager to meet people who warm our hearts.
We are at home, and we hope to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry, how good.
In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group, who don't care about everything, don't laugh or talk, and never talk to you, how good;
Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never sell wax with you, how good.
If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I would like to be such a person, and I don't think anyone would want to. However, looking back, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home?
I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well!
The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest? Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face became wrinkled, not beautiful, and her speech was vulgar, so I got tired of it.
Quarrels are frequent, and it is not pleasing to anyone's eyes.
So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people. Those who love love to return, and the love is deep. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are distracted
In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of harmonious, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, every day smile at you, never quarrel with you.
But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?
Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others?
If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person.
But the fact is that you always put your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be cloudy, one will be bad, one will be that bad, and you will say right and wrong in front of your colleagues, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, and the leader does not trust you, such a day can be called a good day.
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Summary. It's not that one person confesses to another, or it confesses to you, and I will be very happy, but you didn't accept it, so I thought you would, so I'm not happy now, I don't quite understand what kind of occasion this sentence appears.
I felt like I was so happy and tangled in my heart that I thought
This is not Sun You is a confession from one person to another, that is, to give you a confession, I will be very happy, but you didn't accept it, so I thought you would accept it, so I am now searching Kaiqin is unhappy, I don't quite understand what kind of occasion Shibi's words appear in.
My husband is determined not to live with me anymore He said that he has been suitable for this situation in Suizhou for many years Originally, Tongsha was not suitable for 6 years I have endured it for so many years.
How do I write about my feelings?
Well, Zheng Ji, have you had any conflicts lately? Or rather. At the beginning, when you got married, Yu Lead was forced by him to marry you, there must be some contradiction.
What do you want to write in **?
Then you can tell me about some of the things you've done for her, because I can't tell how you're giving in your marriage.
Today's quarrel made my mother-in-law angry this time.
That blind ant you say six years, I think it is a person's iron heart, he will be influenced by me, but what you say to me now, it is really grinding and burying my heart, I don't know what makes you so annoying, so want to escape from this family.
This is my feelings.
That's right, isn't it?
Then you say. I think that although our marriage was not very successful, there were many memories that made me feel very good. I don't want to break up like this.
Six years have allowed me to experience a lot and grow as well. It is not easy for the two of us to run in with each other to get to where we are today, and I hope you can think carefully.
He can't listen to all the people in the house now, and it's useless to talk.
So what are you trying to say?
What do you want to tell him?
Brother, what should I say, I cried after reading what you wrote, because your situation is the same as mine, I was going to get married with my girlfriend, and then because I found out that I was not in good health, their family forced her to leave me** and kept turning off, I went to many places and used a lot of money to find her but did not find her, at that time my heart was about to collapse, I also wanted to die at the time, for this reason my girlfriend beat our children off, I was so uncomfortable! But you're much better than me, just a month before I checked my body, my mother also passed away, and then because of their divorce, I felt as beautiful as death at that time, what a difference, but I didn't expect that the matchmaker who introduced us also said that the girl has been ruined by you, you still don't go to her in the future, I listened to the grievances at the time, as if it was my fault that she was with me, and the matchmaker was still my relative, she also wanted to talk about me in turn, you said who they were going to understand my feelings at that time, I'm already hurting but they're still so much to me ... It's really hilarious... >>>More
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