How do you restrain yourself from adapting to something you don t like?

In fact, everything will not go well in life, for example, I drift north alone, I have no money, I can only live in the cheapest house, everyone likes big houses, but they can choose to live in a lower price house when they drift north, because they have dreams and want to do what they like in their favorite city. <>

When I was in my first year of high school, my homeroom teacher in my first year of high school had to arrange a seat at the beginning of the school year, and assigned me the last table, I especially didn't like this position, because I couldn't see the blackboard clearly, and then I told myself that the back was quiet, the back was quiet, and slowly I felt that it was good in the back.

On my birthday, my best classmate gave me a doll, but it wasn't the kind I particularly liked, because the doll I liked was sold out, and my classmate thought it was good, so he bought it for me, in fact, I was very moved, he ran to several places without that doll, and even the one he gave me was bought in many places.

When I was in high school, time was very tight, and sometimes my mother needed to buy clothes for me, but my mother always thought that she was still a child and was still in school, so the type of clothes I bought was still like a primary school student, in fact, I was a little sad, it was not the type I liked, but this was also carefully selected by my mother, and I was still very happy.

Especially those expensive things, at that time my mother bought me a laptop, quite expensive, my mother bought it with her own salary for a few months, and it was also recommended to her by the people in the store at that time, and he didn't understand, so he bought it, in fact, I don't like that color very much, but in addition to this other functions I am more satisfied.

Does learning count as a thing?I don't like it anyway. In this era, the biggest obstacle to reading books should be wifi and smartphones.

I bought a small mobile phone for more than 100 yuan, and I can only play ** and listen to songs. Then I lost my smartphone at home, and went out with a small phone and books....

When I was younger, I saw that everyone else could ride their own bicycle to school, so I wanted my dad to buy me one, but I didn't expect him to buy me a red one, I didn't like it, but it was better than walking to school, so I put up with it.

Two years after I graduated from college, I bought the first car in my life, in order to save tens of thousands of yuan, I bought a car of 70,000 or 80,000 yuan, and I regretted it a little after I bought it, but when I thought about it, it was actually very good, although I couldn't drive the car I liked, it was considered to be tens of thousands of yuan left.

If you think he's really good, you might as well try to be proactive, so as not to have regrets in the future. In fact, there is nothing wrong with falling in love when I was in school, but from the experience summary, not many people can come together in the end, several couples in our class broke up after college, and several couples in college also broke up after graduation. But being together is a kind of memory, I liked a boy when I was in school, and then I didn't say it, and I didn't confess, it's really a pity to think about it now.

In other words, if you just have a good impression and don't want to develop, here's my advice:

1. Then restrain yourself from paying attention to him, try to have as little contact as possible, don't associate with people who always mention him, and don't always mention him.

2, find an idol TV series to watch, or a movie or something, distract your attention, this is very effective, for me, find the kind of TV series that is very funny and beautiful to watch, like the Korean version of "Boys Over Flowers" or something......

3. Think about old lovers, such as people you liked before, or something, miss the past, and it's best to find someone you haven't wanted to forget.

4. Think about the future, think about the ideal or something, make a study plan, and enrich the soul.

5. In fact, this method is a bit stupid, that is, to pick his shortcomings, and find the kind of shortcomings that you are particularly unacceptable, for example, I hate boys the most

Always think about his bad things, don't think about why you like him, and connect him with all the bad things in your heart, if you can't do it anymore, then you can't help it.