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"Gao Shuai Fu" means excellent, from studies to sports, from career to marriage, always more successful than others, at least it seems. After a long time, many "rich and handsome" regard themselves as superior, and gradually breed a narcissistic mentality, self-centered in everything, completely ignoring the feelings of others. Unconsciously, they fell into a crisis in their lives step by step - the wife couldn't stand the domineering of her husband and wanted to divorce, the "envy, jealousy and hatred" of people in society were burning, and the "handsome and rich" suddenly found that they had betrayed their relatives.

Psychologists point out that narcissism is the potential price of excellence, and it is also the motivation to change oneself, learn to be modest and cautious, be low-key, and listen to the voices of others in order to live in harmony with the world.

If a person wants to be excellent, he must leave much more time for himself than for accompanying others, because he must devote himself to study and research.

This is also related to the environment, you also know that the interaction between excellent and excellent people is relaxed, and each other has a certain space to be alone and show off.

If it leads to the rebellion of the people, it can only be said that the environment in which he lives is too vulgar. In fact, it is not difficult to understand that wealth does not mean that the heart is rich.

There is a person who says that yours may not be a disagreement, everyone says that your fault may be your problem, think about the meaning of life, whether you have contributed to the society, friends and family, don't always be lonely.

Because the rebellion of the people is also about qualifications.

That's what you usually say, but you're actually talking the opposite, right?

Alas, low self-esteem is not pitiful, narcissism is the saddest!!

Hello friend.

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.

If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.

Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Come on!. Don't say you're tired for a little bit of trouble and blow and unhappiness and unhappiness, in fact, there are many, many people who are more tired than us in the vast sea of people, and what is a person who is distressed and happy and happy in the vast sea of people? ? What are we doing when we are tired and want to die or live?? Who will show you who will care about you and help you accompany you?

How many ups and downs are there on the road of life!? Whether you accept the ups and downs or not, whether you can't accept it or if you can accept it, the ups and downs are in your destiny! It is better to escape than to accept the ups and downs with your happiness, happiness, kindness, sincerity, and good mood, as long as you face him with your happiness, happiness, kindness, and good mood, you will feel happy and happy in your heart!

Please believe that the sun is always after the wind and rain, please believe that there is a rainbow.

As long as you are human, you have troubles! It's not going to go your way.

Everyone has their worries, and no one is an exception.

Yes There is no such thing as a life without troubles.

At least not in Chinese mainland...

Absolutely, but we don't necessarily know about it.

Devil is not devil, good and evil are in people's hearts, desire is not desire, love is not love, and marriage is determined by heaven.

Everything is fate, let it be, you can choose to be patient, but you don't know when to rest, you can choose to confess, I don't know if you can bear the sadness of being rejected. Advice Take it step by step, get close to him and see how he feels about you. More contact creates opportunities.

In the end, you can be the best, and if you can't, you will die. Freedom from pain. He is not the only good man in the world.

Confess, go to him directly, and don't let yourself have regrets in the future.

Even if it doesn't work, you won't lose anything. It's not in the same company anymore, what are you afraid of?

What kind of girl would he admire? If you have it, send him a text message, or write to him to tell him, if he doesn't want to, ask him to send the text or letter back. No regrets.

No matter what three, seven, twenty-one! Say it!

Have you paid for this unknown relationship? How can you get a return if you don't pay?

I know it's hard to say it, and 50 percent of people choose to be obscure, but that's not right!

People say crush is painful, maybe yes, but is someone forcing you? Here's the problem, crushes are painful, but what's even sadder is that no one knows you're miserable here! To put it simply, this is a waste of feelings, and the person who makes you think about it for a long time knows nothing, even if you are dying of pain, he still knows nothing, he does not know who you are suffering for, and he does not know why you are suffering.

So, speak up! There is a reason why it hurts, is it worth it to suffer for something that doesn't exist?

And if you don't say it now, you missed it, I promise, you will definitely regret it in the future! At least when you look back in the future, you have worked hard and paid for this relationship, no matter what the result is, it is worth it!

Say it and set yourself free and give your struggling heart a break.

You have great confidence, and you have to look at your qualifications, talents, and appearances, and I will give you an analysis, which will satisfy you.

Give up, there are more good men, you still love each of them, you are destined to be doomed, you will meet the person you are married to, forget about him.

Send him a text message to tell him, don't hope for results, just don't regret it.

It is up to people to plan things, and it is up to heaven to make things happen.

Do what you have to do, and leave the rest to fate.

It's your others who can't get it, not your don't force it.

Love him and don't interfere with his life, you should bless him, and it is not a happy thing to remember it in your head.

Suggest, you can only silently unrequited love, pray for him to break up with his girlfriend.

Text him and tell him that if he's shy and scared, just text me and say don't text me back, you don't say he never knows, and if you want him to be happy, and you think you can give him happiness (not for a short time), then you're going for it.

Do everything you can to create a chance encounter to make him feel that you are very fateful.

The boy that the girl likes is handsome, rich, and, you have to remember that it is worth entrusting for a lifetime, you have to be handsome, rich, responsible, and single-minded, this is the most important, but then again, handsome and rich are secondary, as long as you have a kind heart, that is the most important, of course, you have to know that girls like smart, or stupid and cute boys, or you are smart, let him respect you very much, or you are stupid to the end, let him think you are stupid and cute, This is something that can't be taught, try it yourself, the most important thing is to have a true love heart, you know, hehe good luck

When I was a student, I liked to be handsome!

When you step into society, you like to be rich!

Now girls don't like boys, they all like money, money is the best boyfriend, but why should you look for a boyfriend, because money is in the boy's pocket

I like handsome one year before graduation.

I like to be rich a year after graduation.

Self-motivated, hard-working, and funny.

The main thing is to feel, and I don't like it if I don't feel it.

Be self-motivated and kind.

It depends on their IQ, hehe.

A woman likes to respect her man who understands her.

It depends on their IQ, hehe.

iLoveGenius - Apprentice Magician Level 1.

Well said, there is connotation.

People appreciate differently.

Radish and cabbage, each with its own love!

Turnip greens have their own loves, how can there be a unified standard?

Good to me as good as a daughter!

Haha, it does depend on their IQ

The woman on the top 2 and 3 floors is speechless. . .

It was originally an Internet term that described the three highs of men as "tall, handsome, and rich", which met the concept of mate selection of the vast majority of women now, so this word swept the whole society. Now the term refers to men who have successful careers and are handsome in appearance, and it is a manifestation of the outward pursuit of people in this fast-paced society.

It's the kind of rich, handsome, tall kind of person you said, very perfect and outstanding.

When it comes to students, women say that men are excellent just a few points.

1.Handsome.

2.Temperamental and cheerful.

3.Good sports, Sunshine Boy.

4.Study well, play casually and still get good grades.

5.The family is wealthy.

Of course not. Be kind, knowledgeable, educated, and cultivated.

Well. Go to bed early tonight.

It may be normal.