My girlfriend s feelings for me have faded and I beg for advice

Just go over and look at his attitude!

'''''''First of all, you are not a top student'''If yes, then ask her if she has finished her homework''If not''Then you say''Come, as your boyfriend, I borrowed you for free''

Question, the most important thing is that your family and personality are too different, so let each other feel tired, in this case, why not put down the baggage, and solve the matter later, maybe it is better not to solve it? You are still a student, lack of economic foundation, and when you mature after you work, you know what kind of other person you need, and it's not too late to think about it, in fact, even if you are together, what can you do? Can there be results?

With so many people replying to you, it is estimated that you will see very little. What kind of person is he? For example, let's talk about his details, I don't know what kind of person he is, it's not easy to be arrogant, and you look like a very persistent person, first of all, you have to start by understanding a man, if you don't understand him, you can't "start".

I'm talking a bit big, and you're more than weird, I'm just a college student like you. I also have my girlfriend, compared to you feel much more sensible than her, I will tell you about my method of love, maybe it will help you without asking for points.

Girls are basically slimy, especially beloved, right? You said that you are a strong person, don't show it, she is very similar to you, and she is also strong, and she knows more than me, I don't love to be strong, I love freedom and democracy. I give her enough opportunities to express herself, and I am a spectator to watch her handle things and make up her minds.

Even if it's wrong, I don't speak up on the premise that I can afford the price, and several times she has failed, of course, I told her my opinion before, it doesn't matter if she doesn't listen, if she is wrong, she teaches her a lesson, and there are so many times that she doesn't make up her mind anymore, but relies on me, which is a bit like letting it go.

Actually, I sometimes don't feel interesting, I used to listen to a psychology teacher's lecture, she said that if a man can guess a woman's mind, then that woman will be tragic. You have to keep your own mystery, men are curious.

Hehe, that's how I'm curious. Take advantage of this time to give yourself a vacation, think about it carefully, is this man worth your nostalgia? No one can replace you and give you a plan.

It's all different from person to person. I've dealt with a lot of girls, and I can easily see what she wants. Men and women are much the same.

In fact, you have to give him enough space and face, when he tolerates you at the beginning, you have to learn to cherish it, don't say it's a pity when you lose it, many feelings are also like this, so now it makes sense for him to be quiet, at this time you don't want to force others, you can only let people figure it out, if you can, he will come back.

After reading it, I feel that you really have a lot of problems, I don't know you well, and I can't evaluate anything about you, but I have also experienced a similar situation, but I am a boy, and you are a girl, we didn't break up because we love each other, and we can't bear to say that cruel word. Feelings are not child's play, I believe you also understand, from what you wrote, I personally feel that his character is a little inferior, the character should be strong, there is a saying called care, it may be that the way you love him makes him feel that it is a kind of pity, another way to care, maybe there will be an effect, if you really love him very much, you should give each other a chance, let each other open their hearts, if you can't say it, use it to write, some people say cold him for a while, I can't say wrong, but it can only be discussed because of people, not absolutely, when people are at a low ebb in feelings, Whether it is a man or a woman, in fact, I want to have someone around me who can tell him about the troubles in my heart, and you should be this character, even if there is a crisis now, if he still loves you, in his heart, it should be you who wants to be by his side, maybe he will let you leave, because he doesn't want you to see his vulnerability, you said that he once pushed away a night class for you to accompany you, and also said you, from these sees, the feelings should still be there.

On the other hand, if the relationship is gone, no matter what you do, it is meaningless, if so, no matter how reluctant you are, you should give up, this is responsible for yourself, and it is also a manifestation of love, I hope it can help you a little.

From my own point of view, the current college dating is very naïve, and the current college together is the enjoyment of the picture, not to mention those with special purposes. School is an ideal place for love, it is an ideal place, and many facts are not placed in front of you, you will not know the future development, in the relationship, money, work, family, long-distance and other situations can be together only a few couples. It's beautiful to fall in love in college, but it's not very suitable for marriage, because it's all developed in an ideal state, and what can stand the test is the one who can live in the future.

In my opinion, loving someone doesn't have to be together, you don't have to tie him to your side. Seeing that there are other girls in his arms, he has to learn to give up. The differences in personality can be changed, both parties can adapt, and if they can't adapt to it, they may find a more suitable one if they separate early.

The two of you should sit down and talk, if it feels right, you might as well talk about your thoughts, attitude towards each other, each other's feelings, talk in depth, don't have scruples to talk, just let go of the talk, and you might as well confess each other's shortcomings or something, so that if you can really accept each other, you can designate a more harmonious agreement with each other, be considerate of each other, if you feel that you can't accept each other in the conversation, or the other party can't accept you, then you can consider not continuing, After all, you have broken up twice, and if you don't get along after you get married, the chances of divorce are estimated to be very high, because it makes sense that a good horse doesn't eat back grass!

You all calm down and think about it. Feelings are a matter of two people. Think about whether you yourself have something you don't do well. Have a good talk with him. If it really can't be recovered. It can only be explained. It's that he doesn't know how to cherish.

It's really not that hypocritical, the man shows such a state that he doesn't like you, he doesn't love you anymore, he doesn't have you in his heart, he starts to hate you, and the homeowner should know what to do with this answer? Could it be that you still want to be wronged and break your teeth and swallow it in your stomach? Life is short, so why bother?

It's important to be happy

Slowly slow down the pace of your thoughts, don't take things too seriously, or find something else to interrupt your thinking, always at a point and can't see the future, time is a good medicine.

This kind of relationship takes time, and it must be considered calmly. Feelings can't be tolerated often, and after a long time, they will explode. So be sure to get together and disperse.

In fact, love is really a simple and complex thing. The simple thing is: love is two-sided, and it cannot be forced.

The complication is that there are too many uncertain factors in this, and not everyone can afford to put it down. Seeing that you have written so much and written so carefully, you know that you are invested in true feelings.

Of course, he must have invested in true feelings at first. He has a lot of self-esteem and a bit of machismo, so he doesn't appreciate your mother's gifts. Just a little bit to eat, I think your mom is completely kind.

And him, if he doesn't want to be with you because he wants to save face and doesn't want to rely on your family, you should let him go immediately, because in his eyes, face is more important than love than his wife than family affection! Such people are cowardly and dangerous. He will feel tired, which also shows that he once loved with his heart but loved very hard.

He said that he was tired from work and didn't want to think about your business, which showed that he was cowardly evading. You might as well wait, wait with your heart, wait with your heart, give up hope and wait! If he still has feelings for you, when he is done escaping and has to face it, he will naturally look for you, and then he will want to live a good life with you.

If you still refuse or can't do it in the end, then I advise you to let it go quickly. You don't deserve it for someone who doesn't love you! Anyway, to sum up, he's not a good man, the problem is on yourself, stop being obsessed with how good she used to be to you.

Open your mind to your own happiness! If you don't know how to take it and put it down, you will end up in pain, and no one can help you!

Always empathize, but in my opinion, the boy is a little stingy, every time he talks about work, he can't let go, I don't know what he's afraid of. In fact, he is also running away, and he is reluctant, as long as there is love between them, what else can't be overcome? Maybe you should ask someone to talk to the guy and ask his friends if he knows anything about him and if he has any other problems.

Moreover, if you break up at every turn, there will be more or less gaps, and if you reconcile again, forget about it and take it slowly. If necessary, make an agreement to apologize to the other person after each fight, for whatever reason.

I think you should calm down and think about it.

And you should think about whether you are a good fit or not.

The problem between you arises.

If you really love him, he really loves you.

You can try to change yourselves for each other.

Two people together should tolerate each other.

Only two people can run a relationship together, right?

I think it's really hard to force emotional matters, if your personalities are really incompatible, then why force it, even if you love each other deeply, but because of your personality, it will cause you a lot of harm to each other.

In fact, there must be many things in your heart that you can't let go, but you can't always keep in circles, you can't just let yourself fall and can't extricate yourself. You should go out of your world and find the sky that belongs to you.

Also, you should change your temper, because you have to believe that the earth will not stop because you are alone, and you have to learn to adapt to the environment so that everyone likes you, and this relationship is the same. You're going to have your boyfriend stick to you instead of rejecting you from thousands of miles away, right?

Therefore, the personality of two people is a very important relationship. In the days to come, I hope you can cheer up, get out of your boyfriend's world, and then change your temper and find a love that truly belongs to you, to protect...

A man's heart ,,, a woman will never understand. Give him some time ... Some things can't be forced, what belongs to you will always belong to you, and what doesn't belong to you will never be kept. Be optimistic.

Beauty, when every woman invests in a love, she actually has great expectations, and no one wants her to become illusory. So when the man next to you doesn't live up to expectations, the woman's instinct will be aggrieved and want more affirmative answers, such as, does he still love me? Why isn't he as tolerant of me as he used to be?

Why does he lose his temper? As everyone knows, this will make your man feel stressed. Men are not the same as women.

And more importantly, do you love him? Are you wronged because you love him too much, or because you don't love him enough? When a man says he is tired, it is because he is really tired, so don't ask him for answers when he is tired, and quietly accompany him through the trough.

There is no perfect man, every man will have some faults to some extent, that kind of prince type of empathetic, gentle and romantic man, only in TV. Since you are in love with such a person, try to love all of him. You also said that his family has a great influence on him, so there must be a big bottom line in his heart that cannot be touched, and those bottom lines may seem insignificant to us, but they are a lot of pressure on him.

He doesn't want to talk about these issues now, right, then don't talk about it, and when she is willing to talk about it, then talk about it, men can't force it. It's a good time for you to think about how you feel about him. Do you know that it is impossible to crush the camel as the last straw, no lover will break up permanently because of a quarrel, it is accumulated over time, so many times it is because of the smallest things that trigger the long-term accumulation of contradictions.

Don't ask him anything, don't think that tantrums are a woman's prerogative. Women who like to ask questions come from lack of self-confidence. It can be seen that he doesn't love you.

1. When a woman falls in love with a man, she will continue as always, unless she no longer loves her.

2. It is very hard to love someone, but it is a very sweet thing to love someone, when your girlfriend can't feel your love, she will have a sense of loss, and at this time there is another man who is good to her, so that there is a situation where the relationship becomes weaker.

3. If you love someone, you have to tell her, you have to spoil her, your girlfriend doesn't hurt, and when other men hurt, you'll be late.

Don't give up The two will become family after being together for a long time, and they should.