My boyfriend and I have a lot of outside problems

Hehe, I understand the problem, the friend in front of me is right, there are indeed a lot of such situations outside, in fact, the man's family is poor and can't blame him, it depends on whether he is angry or not, but seriously, no matter how ambitious a man is, it is useless to start a business without money, so the outside world is talking about it, society is like this, everyone looks down on you when you are poor, let alone if you talk to a poor person, someone must talk about you, let alone agree. The only way is, don't put too much pressure on him, see what he will do in the future, if there is really no way to turn over, or poor, then it depends on whether you can really surpass everything, together, that is, regardless of the opposition of your parents, you don't care about anything, you want to be together, seriously, I have seen a lot outside, and I have hardly seen anyone who can be together in the end, The first parents are opposed, the second friend discusses, and the third is forced by reality, people always have to live, and they have to eat at a meal, right? How can you live without money?

No matter how much love is useless.

I can only say that you have found a man with bad conditions, I am not a rich man, I have a ready-made house to get married, I am engaged in breeding and doing my own business, I didn't laugh at your man for having no money, I just said that I am not very optimistic about you, according to what you said, I think you will sooner or later pull down the matter, because you love him I believe, but once people face reality, sometimes they really can't help themselves, and it is useful not to love each other. The external problem is their business, how should you live yourself, your family you don't dare to say it, don't say it first, but sometimes the family arranges a blind date or introduces the object, you are difficult to do, don't go and go, go and perfunctory, in case the other party has a good condition of you have a good impression of you, find your family to say, your family also likes others, and then put pressure on you, so this thing is difficult to do.

Having said so much, I advise you, sometimes it doesn't just work if you love each other, love is also based on the economy, sometimes some things and some people are a mistake from the beginning, destined to have no ending, they are all fate. If the conditions are not good, your family will definitely not agree to you being together.

There are a lot of people like you, and it's hard to determine what will happen in the future, and he may continue to love you, and then you work together to create wealth, and it's much better than if you marry someone who is a good match for your family.

Maybe you will have irreconcilable contradictions in your later life, and you will fall apart, and then you will regret not listening to your parents to marry someone from a good family.

The last sentence: No matter what you do, what the consequences are, try to do it, and you don't want the result.

The important thing is not to regret the outcome, no matter what the outcome is.

And I think it's more important to listen less to other people's advice, to sway your thoughts, to weaken your own judgment.

Sometimes you may listen to someone and the result is right, there are too many uncertainties in such an example, and it's just lucky, and that's the life that someone else has arranged for you, choose for yourself!

Judging from your text, you have denied your boyfriend, and you didn't mention what merits he has, and you knew that this would be done earlier, wasting your time!

It seems that your love is really worthless!!

Generally, when a man first comes out of society, he is the poorest, this is not his choice, it is not his fault, he said that he will love you very much, and will work hard to let you live a happy life, if you love him, you should believe him, support him, work hard with him, and live a happy life! You said that your family is not bad, why can't you choose to trust him? If your family is poor, worse than his, you should stay with him?

Shouldn't your father marry your mother because he was very successful when he first came out of society? If you find a family with good conditions, a car and a house, people may not take a fancy to you, and even if you get married, you may not be happy! If you don't think that your love is not worth that little material thing, find someone who is worthy of you, choose for yourself, and don't regret it in the future!

Woman...All of a sudden, I found myself becoming a sentimental person

Do you want money or love? , now love has deteriorated and materialized. I really envy my parents' generation, the simplicity of love, my father invited my mother to eat knife-cut noodles.

My mom was moved. Hey, it's hard to find love now, it's hard to find a true one, I'll look for girls in the future, I'll go to remote, backward, and simple-minded. It's not that I'm not self-motivated, it's that people live a lifetime, not long, just decades.

When two people love each other, they are satisfied. I don't know about miscellaneous. No money is not no love.

What kind of car? House? This West is virtual, looking for rich people, change your heart quickly.

I'm still from the countryside, I used to have a lot of vanity, but now I can't, what's wrong with the countryside...

I wish you all happiness.

Hehe. I'm only 19 years old, almost 20.

Embarrassment. Big sister love him well.

If you're firm in that feeling, try it.

But the problem is that reality is too harsh.

Hey, not to mention the house and the car, getting married is a very complicated thing, not that the two of you can be happy.

There will be a lot of problems in the future.

Can you get along with his parents?

What your parents think.

The cruelty of reality sometimes doesn't mean that he can solve it with hard work.

Unless he is a very motivated person.

But the gap between the two really can't be too big.

Otherwise, even if you get married, there will be a big problem.

It's up to you! If you're willing to work together, it's not a problem for others, and if you can't, leave as soon as possible.

It's easy to persuade others, so let's talk about it. Because, that's not your own pain.

If you can face it calmly and let go quickly, it means that you don't really love him, and he doesn't care about you, so there is no need for everyone to persuade you more.

If you really love him, you can't let go, and you feel bored, anxious, and painful, which is too normal.

You can take appropriate measures to win and redeem him, but never force him, otherwise, it will only accelerate his departure.

If you feel that you can't stay, don't force it to stay, it's useless at all, you can let him go.

The more considerate and generous you become, the stronger his guilt will be for you, and even more so if you still have the illusion that he will be able to come back to you.

If he does leave you, there is no other way but to wait. "Time", time is the only good remedy for inner pain.

Just do what you have to do, let study, work, and play occupy your time and fill your space, and squeeze him out as much as you can.

You can also find another friend of the opposite sex, and distraction is also a good way to heal.

However, don't use others as "spare tires", I personally feel that this is unethical.

Again, it's easy to say, but it's actually ,......Hard! It also depends on your personality and how ,...... you give to his feelings

Let's talk about your boyfriend first: Say it lightly, his old love is difficult; To the point, love is not specialized, half-hearted, and flowery.

Say it again: Say light, look down on yourself; Talk about the point, and belittle yourself. You are so good, you are ready to go to graduate school, but what others have given up, you regard it as a treasure, which is incomprehensible!

My advice: Abandon him ruthlessly, concentrate on going to graduate school, and start a new life, there are many excellent men in the world!

It turned out that there were people who were in the same situation as me, but I was even more sad, the girl before me didn't want to deal with me. Now I don't tell my current girlfriend that I still think about her, this thing is really tangled, I understand this feeling. It is recommended that you respect his opinion, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet, don't delay your youth for this.

If he wants to go, you can't stop him. And I need to tell you one thing for him: you are not taking the postgraduate examination for him, but for yourself, for your future life taste at the top of society.

The best way is that you are admitted to graduate school first, which is very important for you and him and your family, otherwise Bai has studied textbooks for a few years, and it actually has no effect at all after it comes out, his things can be put down first, just a few days, and things can not be delayed, and finally I hope my advice will be helpful to you, and at the same time I wish the landlord to be admitted to the ideal school!

Wholeheartedly go to graduate school and work hard for yourself. He is not all you have, live well for yourself, it would be better if he could come back, if he didn't know how to cherish, believe that there will be a man in the world who loves you more than her somewhere waiting for you. Now I don't want to do anything, and I fight for youth recklessly.

No one can empathize with other people's situations, so everyone can only comfort you, but sister, you're going to take the graduate school entrance examination, it seems that this is really important, don't say it's for him, be sensible, you are taking the test for yourself, because without him, you have to live well, so be strong, let go of your feelings first, and then deal with this messy love after the exam. Or if you are ruthless enough, don't drag the mud and water, forget it, he is going to find his ex-girlfriend, isn't your previous relationship a joke, why bother wronging yourself, be chic, and bless them is also considered to be fulfilling yourself.

Landlord, please learn the punctuation marks in the language before asking questions next time, thank you. All kinds of entanglements are nothing more than a love triangle between you, and you are precisely the third of the two of them. The signs are that the two of them love each other, but for some reason he and her separated, so he chose to be with you in desperation and without a choice.

Now, the fate of the two of them is not over, and they meet again in a different place, which arouses his admiration, your choice is nothing more than a plan to break the kettle, if he recovers her, you can only watch others renew their relationship, if you can't get it back, maybe you and he still have a chance, but in a short period of time he must be half-hearted. I advise you to take my chance, take advantage of the victory to pursue, and choose to stick to your choice, the consequences of this go are unimaginable, if you can't stand the blow halfway, it's too late to cry like embattled. Either give up this marriage and find another life.

In the huge world, why worry, maybe the person who makes you more excited already knows you in the dark. Good luck.

are all graduate students, and they are still struggling with emotions, why bother, just become it, even if it doesn't work, you can afford to put it down.

First of all, you figure out what kind of mentality your boyfriend is, ask him what you think of me by doing this, and ask him what he wants to do

Let him go! If it's really yours, he'll be back! Since it is difficult for you to choose, let him choose!

Let's face the postgraduate entrance examination first, and as for the rest of the matter, we will talk about it when the time comes, and we will pass it one by one.

Let go appropriately, don't hold on too tightly.

Do your best, do what you have to do, be at peace with your feelings, strive but don't force it, it's always your own. Since you have decided to go to graduate school, you will go all out, not for him, it is not right to think like this. People should love themselves well and make themselves better and stronger, so as to get a better and more complete love and life.

I hope you don't do anything you regret.

Feelings are not something that can be easily let go! I see people embarrassed! The boss's wife is quite impressive! I recommend you to read it, and you may understand something

Don't be with him, because it's possible that he doesn't love you.