Some people say that love and marriage are not half dime related, is this statement correct?

I don't think it's entirely right, I think normally marriage is based on love, two people love each other and like each other, they will consider marriage. Just like I have a lot of people around me who were together when they were students, and then got married after leaving society, they all lived very happily, I think it is not easy to be together and get married when I was a student, this kind of marriage is based on love. There is also an example around me where college classmates look at each other, and then the man's family is not very financially well-off, but they still get married, despite the opposition of the woman's family.

In today's society, many couples fail to get married and start a family because of money, and many people who love each other sincerely have been torn apart. Living conditions have improved, and the older generation wants their children to live a happy and stable life, so there is a condition for men to have a house and a car. Marriage is no longer premised on love, but on economic conditions.

Many people think that simple love only exists in the student days, and when it comes to society, people will become more and more realistic, and everything will consider money, and now people are looking for a partner to go to money, and there are fewer and fewer couples in society who really come together because of love. Although the previous society also paid attention to the right family, it did not pay so much attention to money, and it was not the criterion for choosing a mate.

Although people are becoming more and more realistic now, I think there is still a real and simple love. I don't think it's right that marriage and love don't have a half-dime relationship, it's too absolute. Now the society is really not together because of money, it is a couple of love, I think we should cherish each other and treat our other half well.

Therefore, only a loving marriage will last long, only a loving marriage will be sweet, and only a loving marriage will be envied and blessed all the time.

If you spend a long time with someone you love, you will be nauseous, not to mention that you will be disgusted to that point when you are with someone you don't love for a lifetime. Only if there is love, will you think about getting married.

Qian Zhongshu said to Yang Jiang, I didn't think about getting married before I met you, but after I met you, I thought that I wouldn't get married with someone else.

I don't think that's true. The foundation of marriage still needs to be supported by love. It's hard for me to imagine how a person can live so long with another person who has no feelings.

Maybe there was in ancient times, some people didn't even know each other before they got married, and after they got married, they were a lifetime, and divorce was such a shameful and shameful thing in that era, so even if they tolerated it, they wouldn't get divorced, of course, there were people who lived the second half of their lives with each other.

However, in this contemporary era of fast food, in this materialistic era, in this era of drunkenness, how many marriages can be supported without love?

Many happy marriages around me are all in deep love, only to embark on the marriage hall, some are high school classmates, more than ten years of love, some are still insisting after a few years in a different place, some follow each other to a strange city, some are couples during college, etc., are emotionally based, even if they are blind dates, they also have a good impression of each other, and then after a period of understanding, they will move towards marriage, I think only in this way will the marriage with an emotional foundation be more lasting and happy.

If there is no love, how can a marriage be formed? For example, Chun Crush is for money and marries into a wealthy family? Or is it purely for the sake of sex, to marry a beautiful girl?

In fact, I think that even if it is a purposeful marriage, in fact, you also love her, money is also part of that person, and beauty is also part of the girl's body, so since you like this, it is also a part of love, but it is not pure love, not pure love. But it can't be said that love and marriage don't have a half-gross relationship, it's too absolute.

I've always thought that there is love before there is marriageSo for this statement, I feel that it is because I am not married to love, not because I love each other and get married, but because I don't want to love anymore or because I think that reality is greater than loveActually,I disagree with the statement that "love and marriage have no half-dime relationship".

Marriage without love, I feel that it should be no different from being single, the only difference is that you have one more person to accompany you, and you have one more title, that is, "so-and-so's husband", or "so-and-so's wife", and live a life without sparks, not talking about love, only talking about life. Or, each has their own life, but they share a house. I feel that if it is wishful thinking, it is best not to tie it, it will be tired, because unilaterally it has been giving, and those who have not received a response have to wait for each other's heart for a lifetime, and they have not been able to get a response, and they have no emotion and no gratitude, then your love has become unrequited love, and your marriage is only related to the love you unilaterally give, and it has nothing to do with the person you marry.

If you have a choice, anyone I think should be willing to choose a marriage with love, the reason why there is a feeling of "love and marriage have no half a dime", most of them have no spirit for love, have been hurt by love, or simply watched too many TV series, in short, I feel emotional, real life should still be loved, and then make sure that the other party is sincere to themselves. As for,In the end, whether love has anything to do with marriage depends on whether you choose love or choose the right rules. When it comes to getting married, you need to be cautious, especially for girls, and you should marry after thinking about it.