Do most people love their children more than their parents?

I don't think that's how I understand it. As parents, we experience the growth of our children. We are present in every period, in every stage.

We pity their weakness. This love and love is vividly expressed. But we are used to the presence of our parents.

Accustomed to their efforts. It's not that we don't love, it's that we think they'll always be there and won't leave. This trust, this gratitude, is hidden.

So it feels like we love our children more. As everyone knows, no one teaches us to express our love for our parents.

Most people do love their children more than their parents. We grew up being the one who was taken care of and demanded. There has never been a textbook that teaches us how to love our elderly parents well. On the contrary, it is all about parenting. ‍‍

In terms of emotional investment, you and your parents are what they give, you take it for granted, and you may feel very irritable and emotionally confrontational. And for the children, it is you who pay, you control, with expectations. This kind of debriefing and giving mood is also very different.

Therefore, children are often a kind of kindness to their parents, and many times they are selfless dedication to their children.

Love your children, but you must also love your parents. Since ancient times, the Chinese have believed that "teaching by word and deed" is important. If we love our children, we should set a good example for them, and we should teach them by example rather than by words.

If you want your children to be filial to you when they grow up, then you should be filial to your good parents in front of your children. Or rather, love your parents and make them feel that love. I believe that children who grow up in such an environment will definitely pass on this kind of love.

And the filial piety in the ancient saying is: There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great. Or put the child first.

Therefore, blind acceptance is a habit that we have developed over the years. Even if we are taught to be filial, we still can't treat our elderly parents as patiently and carefully as we do with children. And from the moment your parents conceive you, seventy or eighty percent of the rest of your life and energy are destined to be spent on you.

It should be that we love our children more than our parents, because it is human nature to be wholehearted to our children and passed down from generation to generation. ‍‍

First of all, we are the children of our parents, and we are also the parents of our children. Our parents raised us, and we raised our own children. There should be no parents in this world who do not feel sorry for their children.

Therefore, it is normal to love children more than parents, but in the process of loving children, do not forget to be filial to your parents and let them enjoy the joy of family. ‍‍

Right! First of all, the child is the crystallization of his own love, but also the flesh that fell from his own body, the child needs his own care and cultivation, and the parents have the care of brothers and sisters, as long as we are filial!

When a child is born, he is like a little dough, the longer he grows, the more cute he becomes, so people's vision tends to be good-looking, not to mention the fate of his own October pregnancy and great pain. People will pay a great price for the things that are precious and abnormal, and the things that are easily obtained are not so touching. Therefore, when parents grow old and children grow up, it is just a relationship between acceptance and giving.

We take it for granted that we accept the contribution of our parents, and we also pay for our children. There is no right or wrong in this process. Children are small and do need to be taken care of.

But when your parents are old, please be more patient and take care of them.

In fact, every pair of parents spends the most effort on their children, because children are the flesh that falls from their parents, and they are the brains of their parents.

Both parents are the wronged parties. But the children are the dominant ones. Who's not a baby yet, right? When I was a child, most people didn't realize the love of their parents for them. Maybe only by waiting for yourself to get married can you empathize.

Parents will love their children very much, their children are brought up by their own hands, and there is a flesh and blood connection, as long as they let themselves be parents, they can experience the kind of emotions of parents in the future, no parents do not love themselves, children's parents do not love themselves, children are the continuation of their own lives.

Because children are the continuation of their parents' lives, and they are the blood of their parents and the offspring of their parents.

Parents love their children because they are dearest.

It is also very affectionate for parents to accompany their children from childhood to adulthood.

It is the nature of parents to love their children, and they have their own children, and they are related by blood. So loving their children, growing up with them, and educating them is what every parent does. The child was born by them, and it was raised by the two of them together, and the children raised together have feelings.

And in addition, this is the crystallization of their love, and then the mother gave birth to such a blood relationship, which causes parents to love their children, so parents love their children because of blood relationship and are pregnant for 10 months. Waiting for a result, such a situation causes parents to love their children even more.

This is an instinctive behavior, because the child is born from the genetic combination of the two parents, which is equivalent to the continuation of his own life.

Animals know how to love their children, not to mention that people are high-level animals with thinking, because children are blood with their parents who are a blood vessel, and heaven and earth created people to leave this gene, it is difficult for children to grow up without the love of their parents, people and animals are the same, if they don't love their children, there will be no love on the earth, and there will be no humans and animals.

Why do parents love their children? I believe that this is an instinct, and I personally think that it is the result of a long period of evolution, just imagine: if a newborn baby is not protected by its parents, it is difficult to survive healthily, and then such a species will either find another way out, or it will become extinct.

Many people are flaunting how great their parents' love is, and I don't disagree, but I think there are not many subjective elements of this kind of love, and there are many out of instinct, and parents pay for their children, and even make sacrifices, all out of instinct, because most of the time parents are happy in the process of loving children.

The purpose of natural selection is to eliminate the weak who are not suitable for the environment, whether it is or other mammals, they will become weak when they are older, and if they are not eliminated, they will drag down the population, and morality comes from the yearning for life, and no one wants to die early, so with moral constraints, honoring parents has become a matter of course.

If there is no moral person, let him choose between parents and children, I believe that all of them will choose children, on the contrary, people who can choose parents are really commendable, great parents are easy to do, and filial children are difficult to do. It is precisely because of the difficulty that we have to do a good job.

Why do parents love their children, because the child is born to him. It was the two of them who raised it together. The children raised together have feelings, and the two of them made it.

And then there is the mother who gives birth. Such blood ties lead parents to love their children. So parents love their children because of blood relations.

Pregnant for 10 months waiting for the first result. Such a situation leads parents to love their children.

It is natural for parents to love their children, as are other animals. As the saying goes, although a woman is weak, a mother is strong, and when she has a child, her mother will become strong.

Some scientists believe that this is the genes at work, and the genes are passed on for themselves, creating animals, including humans, to care for the next generation, and the purpose is to pass on their own (genes) better.

It is natural for parents to love their children, not only by blood, but also by the continuation of their own lives, so parents often love their children more than they love themselves, and children are the greatest comfort to their parents.

It is the instinct of animals to take care of their own offspring. Respect for the elderly and love for the young is the traditional virtue of our country, and children are the crystallization of their parents' love, the source of family joy, and the hope of the future. So there are many reasons why parents love their children.

The reason why parents love their children is mainly because the children are their own flesh and blood, and they are related by blood and genes, so parents regard their children more than everything, and there is a little bit that the children are their own future, pointing to the children to support the elderly, so they love them more.

Every parent loves their child, it's nature, the blood relationship that humans have always survived, or has always been. Protect your children and love your young.

The love of parents is out of their own first nature, and the love of parents is a kind of natural love for their children, natural love. The love of our parents is the greatest love in heaven and earth, and since we fell to the ground and came into this world, our parents have begun to love us forever. Having a child, raising him, watching him change constantly, communicating with you, arguing with you, and growing more and more like you.

It was definitely a wonderful experience in the world, and there is no other analogy. Children let us have a more complete life, let us grow, is our motivation, but also the source of our happiness, how can we not love him (her)?

Parents love their children by nature, because of the relationship of blood, linked together, and constantly parted, parents raise their children from an early age, love their children all the time, care about their children, because children are their lives.

Animals know how to love their children, let alone people.

It's instinct, it's innate, and when you grow up and have children, you'll understand.

Isn't it normal for parents to harm their children? Their children are the crystallization of two people, and what is produced is the essence of love, their own flesh and blood, and the continuation of their own lives, so it is normal for parents to love their children.

It's nature, it's nature, any animal or plant will love its children, and you see chickens will love their children. Isn't it nonsense that people have feelings, and higher creatures love their children more?

The reason why parents will love their children is that it is the blood inheritance of their parents, so they will love their children very much. Besides, paternal and maternal love is a kind of nature.

Father's love and mother's love are out of their first nature, and they are indeed protecting themselves when they have no children.

But in the face of their own next generation, those who have watched their children grow up with their own eyes will slowly replace the first day of protecting themselves and turn to protecting their children. Father's love and mother's love are out of their first nature, and they are indeed protecting themselves when they have no children.

But in the face of their own next generation, those who have watched their children grow up with their own eyes will slowly replace the first day of protecting themselves and turn to protecting their children.

I think that parents love their children, and children love their parents basically the same amount in terms of quantity, but the expressions are different at each stage.

Before children become independent, some people think that children love their parents a lot, because they feel that children are simple-hearted, their love for their parents is wholehearted, and they only have parents in their world, and in the eyes of parents, in addition to children, they also have to take care of family, their own parents, work, etc. In addition, parents' love for their children will also show some "miscellaneous thoughts", such as expectations: hope that the son will become a dragon, hope that the daughter will become a phoenix, etc., it seems to be purposeful, which creates an illusion that "I only have you in my eyes, and there are others in your eyes", "I love you wholeheartedly, you love me for a purpose", and I must love more than yours.

In essence, it's just that the way children show love is more simple, while parents are just distracted and think more, and the way they show love is relatively not as simple as that of children. In terms of quantity, parents and children are basically the same.

After the child is independent, the situation is reversed, the child is exposed to society, the attention is distracted by work, marriage, and the outside world, and parents have more time and energy to pay attention to the child. And the child's love for his parents is not so simple because of the distraction. Some people will think that attention is love, attention is indeed a part of love, but it cannot fully represent love, for example, many people spend a lot of time brushing short** and focusing on others, so is he those people in love short**? Apparently not.

So in terms of quantity, there is basically the same amount of love at this stage.

Love is not water, bread and other material things, used up or eaten less, nor due to the shift of attention to become less, and even increase over time, the relationship between parents and children, is one of the most intimate relationships in the world, love is a verb, if you feel that you don't love enough, then go to love, let the other person feel love.

I think children love their parents more.

For example, if your child slaps you and you are angry, and your child comes to apologize to you, will you forgive her at that time? If you slap your child, and you apologize to your child at that time, you see how your child reacts, and he will definitely forgive you and comfort you.

In the eyes of children, our parents are the only ones for children, except for parents, they have no support, but for parents, children are not our only ones, we have to love children more is to give, so you can't imagine how much children love their parents, but for sure, it must be beyond your imagination.