Marry a woman in order to make her daughter happy or for the tens of thousands of dowries

In your mother's eyes, you'll always be just a child.

Mommy's everything.

It's all for their daughter to be happy in the future.

Money is not really the subject.

But from the 'money' you can tell whether you are happy after marriage.

After all, as the old saying goes.

Poor couples mourn everything].

Sometimes it's mom who is wrong.

But it's not right because it's not expressed in the right way.

As a daughter, you need to be considerate of the 'worries' of being a mother

You said that the man's family bought the house where you were going to get married.

Mom has talked about why she didn't call you to see the house.

Personally, I think.

The man's family has some meaning that he doesn't agree with you.

Since the house is bought for you, of course you have to participate.

Listen to the advice you've seen.

And this is a place where you will live for the rest of your life.

But then again.

Didn't call you probably considered.

Not necessarily the owner of the house in the future will be you.

The man has made a better plan for his son.

You mentioned that you haven't met the man's parents yet.

I'm skeptical right now that you're going to get married.

If you don't see your parents, you say they've already bought a house.

I'm going to marry you.

Buying a house you haven't gone yet.

Wonder if it's the man trying to take away your heart.

And the preparation lies deceive you.

Don't be shady.

Now men have a lot of tricks to deceive people.

Don't be wishful thinking on your own.

can be in it. I suggest that you meet the man's parents first.

Then 'must' to go.

Take a look at your future nest of love.

1. After verifying the facts.

Let's talk about the bride price!!

Mom: It's all for your good.

You're getting married.

Mom's age is not too young.

It is possible to be unabashed as soon as you get excited.

Don't blame your mother too much.

The man did not pay the bride price.

Mom is afraid that you will pass through the door.

Every day is a hard life.

That mother would have watched her daughter suffer.

I won't say more.

I wish LZ happiness.

Get married early.

Landlord, don't be too sad, your mother's psychology you should understand, the impact of the difficult life in the past on her has caused her current thoughts, in fact, which mother in the world does not want her children to live a happy life? I believe that your mother will slowly change her thinking under your insistence, and in the future, you will honor your mother a little more and give her a little more care, and she will definitely change this kind of thinking.

Finally, I wish you all happiness!

For you, happiness is the most important thing. Things in the world are not singular and complex. Your mother wants more money, have you thought about it?

Yes, if the woman's family is passable, it will generally be returned to the man to give the young couple as the family.

The dowry for marrying a daughter is given to the husband's family, but some of the dowry is given by the husband's family.

If the mother's family doesn't give it, the husband's family can't take it back.

As you said, I don't think you're very smart, or you're missing something, or something ......else

The dowry is not an obligation, maintenance is an obligation, so.

The question you are asking is who should give the dowry money to and how it should be spent. It stands to reason that if the other party has parents, it should be given to the other party's parents, but how to use it and how much to give it to your girlfriend. It was an expression of how deep her parents' love for their daughter was.

Love deeply, don't stick it upside down. Ye's Tan may be her family situation... Otherwise, Yanyan Tong is a character. As a son-in-law, he should also return calmly and tastefully, and since he gives it to others, he may not rely on that money.

In short, in the future, the two of them will live together, love and struggle, don't hurt yourself.

Haha, just wait for the seven aunts and eight aunts over there to find you. Marriage is not only a personal love with this finger, but also the life of a group of people.

There is no such thing as a rule! Mainly look at the local folklore! Most are how to do it!

Generally, the dowry is disturbed and sent back as a dowry, as the family of the young couple! But there are also family difficulties, marrying a girl in order to solve the difficulties or for the younger brother to marry, etc.! Generally, this is mostly rural!

Since you ask a question, it means that you care about it. It's best if you discuss this with your wife, and it would be better if she intervened! If she doesn't agree, I'll forget it! Don't lose a big deal out of a small one!

This depends on your wife's habits in that place, this is nothing to worry about.

It's different, it's the kind of money that does everything for money, that's called selling yourself for money, you're a little too conservative in your thinking, you can't think about it.

It makes no difference, simply put, it's tantamount to selling yourself, and it's very cheap——— I suggest that you can agree that all your property will be kept by you after you get married, wouldn't it be more economical, hehe

I feel the same, the vanity in my heart is at work, you want to pamper him, he wants to lie to you. If you feel unreliable, you don't need to ask for a deposit, just leave, there are so many good men in China!

It's different, it's called upside down. was sold and counted for others.

No, a deposit is like a gift. Anyway, you have to use it when you get married!

In a certain way, it is understood, but it is also possible that there are other understandings in special circumstances, for example, love has happened, but both parties do not know enough, intellectually they may need the other party to provide other conditions to leave a way out for themselves, etc., and they cannot be generalized.

From an economic point of view, it is different, if you invest, there are three states: risk, return, flat, and loss.

Selling oneself is purely an equivalent exchange.

It's hard to say, if it's introduced, it's okay to ask for tens of thousands, but the premise is that people like you very much to be so happy, but if it's self-talking, there's no need to talk about how much, because they like each other, and it has nothing to do with money.

On the bright side, for international students, girls do not know his roots, and it is understandable that they will ask for some money guarantees, that is, if they marry Chinese, the man also needs to pay a gift money, so if the amount is appropriate, it is completely reasonable.

Thinking on the bad side, it's hard to say, if she really wants money, it's more direct to make a big money.

It's different, girls can do this in order to give themselves a guarantee.

It's not the same. It's just a way for girls to be protected.

It's different, at least I have a small guarantee for my future.

No, money is the least valuable thing.

The key to this depends on your own understanding, tens of thousands of dollars is a formality, if you really get married and share the property, tens of thousands of dollars are nothing, and the man who marries a woman in the countryside has to give a bride price, and that's just the reason.

It's different, selling yourself for money is with people who don't like you.

It's up to you to understand this, and there is a bride price for marriage. Actually, that's what happened, and there is nothing wrong with saying it if it has to be ugly. But the most important thing is whether the two parties can reach a consensus, otherwise this kind of thing will definitely be a hidden danger in the future!

It's different, that person is an international student, and the man he meets by selling his body to win people doesn't have to be what he is.

I don't think so exactly. Different regions, everyone will think about themselves, on the one hand, they are afraid that they will not be able to leave a guarantee if they go back, and on the other hand, it is also possible that as mentioned in the question, everything can not be killed in a row, and it is necessary to pay attention to the reasons and tell the facts!

She just doesn't have a sense of security, so she wants to grab something, money is not an end but a means, and she wants to catch the end through the means - you.

It depends on what you think. It depends on the substance. My opinion is that even if you are not a woman who sells yourself for money, if you let your relationship be mixed with the factor of money, the relationship is not pure, and the nature changes.

The same... If it is said that it is a dowry of tens of thousands, it would be a little better, and it would be better to say that the deposit...

It depends on the situation, generally if your parents want your grandmother's family to have a better time, how much dowry they receive from others will give you a little bit to rely on! Just in the future! Therefore, if your parents don't give you a penny and keep it all for themselves, it doesn't make sense, so your in-laws' family will be uncomfortable, and over time, there will be pimples, saying that your family is selling their daughters!

I'm from Jiangxi, I don't know where you're in Jiangxi? I am from Pingxiang, and we don't have so much money for the bride price here, and hundreds of thousands of yuan is indeed a lot for a rural child. I think as long as two people love each other, the boy is not lazy, diligent and willing to work, self-motivated, filial piety and sensible, even if he has no money to make you a bride price, it is worth entrusting for life.

Because his future is unpredictable! Therefore, sometimes don't deny someone just for a bride price, but look at his potential.

In our more rural areas in Jiangxi, we asked for a bride price.

Some will not give a dowry, and some will give a fraction of what they give. It's better in the city. The key depends on whether the parents in the woman's family feel sorry for their daughter, and the last bride price for their distressed daughter is to return to their daughter as a dowry!

The customs are different from place to place, and there is nothing wrong with that! However, it also depends on the situation, if the other party really can't take out so much money, and the woman has to ask for so much dowry, it will be a bit excessive!

RV, also prepare a sum of money for children, banquets, and hundreds of thousands of dowries, this is the rhythm of driving the poor to death, don't want to marry a wife without a million.

Looking at the form of the whole country, it is much the same.

In today's society, raising a son is not as valuable as raising a daughter.

As long as the bride price money is not left for the daughter to save herself! The son left for the woman's parents to marry is to sell the daughter, Benyima coins and I find a bunch of excuses here, ok?

Customs. I'm next door to you in Jiangxi, we messed with it last year, and this year it broke 200,000 proper [expression].

It's really a bit suspicious of buying a daughter. I think so, there are many people in our Jiangxi who have a girl's wedding bride price for their brother or younger brother to get married, and they won't come back.

The bride price depends on the situation of the family, it is no problem to be rich for 10 tens of thousands, but it is also necessary to be rich, this is to die to save face.

Although I'm not from Jiangxi, I don't think it's too much. However, it also varies from person to person, not everyone has to take hundreds of thousands of dollars to marry a daughter-in-law, what can I do if I have no money? Even if you borrow it, don't you want to pay it back after marriage?

Now this social affection can sometimes be bought with money, look at it, except for those relatively pure socialist places in the country. But you really can't live without money. If you have the ability, you will take it, and if you don't have the ability, you will have to die. It's normal, too, and let's contribute to the evolution of humanity!

If you say that you don't let your daughter marry if you don't give these hundreds of thousands, is that different from selling? If the man scrapes together enough of the hundreds of thousands, do you think his daughter will be happy when she marries? It's a matter of making it up, not whether you're willing to take it.

If you are a man, an ordinary worker, with hundreds of thousands of cash, what do you think?

Don't think it's too much, the parents have been rich and raised their daughter for so many years, and the daughter has gone to her mother-in-law's house, and the parents can't get too much time to let their daughter be filial piety in front of them. It is also some filial piety that children should fulfill, of course, the men who are rich do not count. Personally, I think that some men don't have no money when they get married, but they don't want to spend money, so it's better to marry themselves.

Of course, if you fall in love with a man who really has no money, you shouldn't force him to come up with a dowry of more than 100,000 yuan. Think about it, the two juniors are married, the elders in the family all want food, there is no money to treat when they are sick, and there is nothing to eat when they are hungry, so it is like words. It depends on the man's family situation.

The people in the mountains are good, and the cities are the most popular. Women are very famous, and they have to be the Empress Dowager Cixi if they are uneducated, and men are very down-to-earth. Selling daughters, doing a lot of things, being indifferent to strangers, loving to braggadocio (many part-time workers say that they are 8,000 yuan a month), respecting death and loving the old and not loving the young (only love their own children, other people's children are not people), these bad habits are all in the north, and even the rich people in Shanxi are married to live people (slowly kill girls in the hospital to marry their sons who died early), saying that Jiangxi people sell their daughters, but they are poor people in Guangdong (uneducated people, including some bosses who have never been out of Guangdong Province) have short knowledge, only see Jiangxi, not Shanxi, Many poor people don't even know where Shanxi, Shaanxi, and Gansu are, and even say that Jiangxi is the north, and ask if it snows every day in Jiangxi.

I have to see if the other party has that condition! Personally, I don't think it's too much, it's not easy to raise a big daughter, and I went to the man's house to serve other people's parents, and I didn't eat a grain of rice in his house since I was a child

We also ask for a bride price, but after marriage, parents generally let their daughters bring the bride price money as private money. And Jiangxi's one doesn't seem to be there. In a way, it's a bit of a taste. But then again, customs vary from place to place. Parents are also different.

As a native of Jiujiang, Jiangxi, I think there are indeed a lot of bride prices, but it would be too much to say that it is to sell my daughter. Most parents order so many bride prices to make their daughters happier in the future, which is a material test for the man and a test of love. In fact, many times I don't really receive so many dowries, just to let the other party know how precious it is to get this love.

Jiangxi people are the most disgusting I have ever seen, yin and bad, greedy and cheap, extremely false, and even more disgusting in terms of marrying a daughter, 300,000 bride price with a pot, a living example happens around me.